This Lonely Place
Goldfinger Lyrics


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You come around
To see your boyfriend
You come around
To feel the pain
It was yesterday he tried to use you
But you still go through it

Again you took it away
Again you let yourself stay

I've been around
This lonely place
Lonely place before

You find out
He's been lying to you
You find he had another girl
Still you never
Stand up for yourself
You never stand up to him

He takes it away
Again you let yourself stay
Again you gave it to him
You said it's the last time
He does it again

I've been around
This lonely place
Lonely place before
You got a choice
To leave your place
Your lonely place behind
Be true to yourself




Now and let it go
It's better than you think

Overall Meaning

The song "This Lonely Place" by Goldfinger is a heartbreaking anthem about a girl who keeps going back to her toxic boyfriend despite knowing that he's been lying to her and seeing other girls. The lyrics convey a sense of sadness and frustration as the singer watches her friend continuously subject herself to pain without taking any action to change her situation. The opening lines, "You come around to see your boyfriend, you come around to feel the pain," sets the tone for the rest of the song. The singer acknowledges that her friend is aware of the hurtful actions of her boyfriend, yet she keeps returning to him.


The chorus, which is repeated throughout the song, "I've been around this lonely place before," highlights the singer's empathy towards her friend's situation. It suggests that the singer has been in the same situation before and knows how difficult it is to leave someone who causes emotional pain. The line, "You got a choice to leave your place, your lonely place behind, be true to yourself now and let it go," is a plea for the girl to leave this "lonely place" and move on from the relationship. Overall, "This Lonely Place" is an emotional and poignant song that captures the pain and struggle of leaving a toxic relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

You come around
You visit your boyfriend


To see your boyfriend
To spend time with him


You come around
You come back despite the pain


To feel the pain
To accept the pain he causes you


It was yesterday he tried to use you
He tried manipulating you yesterday


But you still go through it
But you persevere despite it


Again you took it away
You let him take advantage of you again


Again you let yourself stay
You stay with him despite your misgivings


I've been around
I, Goldfinger, have experienced


This lonely place
This feeling of isolation and misery


Lonely place before
Many times before this


You find out
You learn


He's been lying to you
He has deceived you


You find he had another girl
You learn he has been unfaithful


Still you never
But you still do not


Stand up for yourself
Assert yourself or your needs


You never stand up to him
You let him continue his behavior without confronting him


He takes it away
He steals from you emotionally


Again you let yourself stay
You continue to be with him despite the cost


Again you gave it to him
You gave him your trust again


You said it's the last time
You promised it would be the final time


He does it again
But he continues his behavior


You got a choice
You have the ability to decide


To leave your place
To exit your current situation


Your lonely place behind
Abandoning your state of misery


Be true to yourself
Be honest with yourself


Now and let it go
Allow yourself to move on


It's better than you think
It will be more beneficial than you imagine




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: JOHN WILLIAM FELDMANN

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