Tear It Out
Guided by Voices Lyrics


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You must have had a lot of time to eat your cake
Don't you think you can have it now?
You must have felt a thousand highs and each was kind
Don't you think you can stare me down?
I challenge you to drink the milk you spilled
A heart in hope will fall apart when willed

You must have had a dream or two and satisfied
Don't you think you can conjure them?
You must have had a million guys to show you pain
Don't you think you could shake their hands
I challenge you to figure out the truth
A picture and a spoiling wasted youth

Tear it out, there must be three of us
Show me how you know it can't be
Finding out our love was none of us
Show me how it's so
You can't be strong
But you're always right




No you can't be strong
But you're always right

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Guided by Voices’ “Tear It Out,” are presented as a challenge. The lyrics are spoken to someone, challenging them to act on their past experiences, to drink the milk they spilled and to figure out the truth. The song suggests an element of reckoning with the past and the potential for regret. The singer challenges the subject to face their former selves and the pain that they have endured in the past. The lyrics suggest that one cannot continue to ignore the past without consequences. The singer challenges the subject to take responsibility for their actions, to right the wrongs of the past and to face the reality of the present.


The chorus, “Tear it out, there must be three of us, Show me how you know it can’t be, Finding out our love was none of us, Show me how it’s so, You can’t be strong, But you’re always right, No you can’t be strong, But you’re always right,” suggests that there was a love triangle between the three involved parties. But in the end, they all realized that it was not love. It can be interpreted as a song about self-reflection and facing the reality of past experiences.


Line by Line Meaning

You must have had a lot of time to eat your cake
You seem to have enjoyed your life to the fullest.


Don't you think you can have it now?
Do you feel you can continue living the same way?


You must have felt a thousand highs and each was kind
You must have experienced numerous pleasures, and all were satisfactory.


Don't you think you can stare me down?
Don't you believe you can match my resilience?


I challenge you to drink the milk you spilled
You made mistakes, and you should take responsibility for them.


A heart in hope will fall apart when willed
Even with the best intentions, things don't always work out.


You must have had a dream or two and satisfied
You must have accomplished what you wanted in life.


Don't you think you can conjure them?
Don't you think you can achieve new dreams?


You must have had a million guys to show you pain
You must have been through several unfortunate relationships.


Don't you think you could shake their hands
Don't you think you can acknowledge your past and move on?


I challenge you to figure out the truth
I challenge you to explore the facts and find clarity.


A picture and a spoiling wasted youth
The memory of past mistakes can taint one's youth.


Tear it out, there must be three of us
We need to address and solve the issue we're facing together.


Show me how you know it can't be
Explain to me your reasoning for why it can't be fixed.


Finding out our love was none of us
Discovering that our love wasn't genuine for either of us.


Show me how it's so
Explain how we can move past this and find a resolution.


You can't be strong, but you're always right
You may not be resolute, but you still stand firm in your beliefs.


No you can't be strong, but you're always right
Even though you may not be the strongest person around, you still believe in what you think is right.




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