If I Had You
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After all this time I still can't remember
Things that I've forgotten to say
And every time I see you the words don't come out right
It's just a stupid game that I play

(If I had you) I'd know all the answers
(If I had you) the questions wouldn't even matter
I've been living a lifetime I'm dying to know if it's true if I had you

I've been holding on for what feels like forever
I can't seem to let it all go
Picking up the pieces that we put together
Learning things we already know

(If I had you) I'd know all the answers
(If I had you) the questions wouldn't even matter
I've been living a lifetime I'm dying to know if it's true

But something else is going on I can't see right through
I don't know if it's right or wrong
I don't know what to do

And I can't stop your eyes from saying things we always knew
So look at me and tell me what to do
(If I had you) I'd know all the answers
(If I had you) the questions wouldn't even matter
I've been living a lifetime I'm dying to know if it's true

(If I had you) I'd know all the answers
(If I had you) the questions wouldn't even matter




I've been living a lifetime I'm dying to know if it's true
If I had you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Harry-O's song "If I Had You" convey a sense of longing, uncertainty, and confusion in a romantic relationship. The singer expresses their struggle to find the right words when they are in the presence of their loved one. They acknowledge their own shortcomings in communication and view it as a "stupid game" they play. Despite the passage of time, they still find it difficult to express themselves fully.


The chorus, with the repeated phrase "If I had you," suggests that the singer believes that having their loved one would bring clarity and understanding to their relationship. They believe that if they had their loved one, they would have all the answers and the questions would become irrelevant. They are desperate to know if their desire for this connection is true.


However, amidst their longing and desire, the singer acknowledges that there may be something else going on in the relationship that they cannot see through. They are unsure whether their feelings are right or wrong, and they don't know what actions to take. The uncertainty is heightened by the perceived messages in their loved one's eyes, which convey unspoken truths that they have always known.


Overall, the lyrics explore the complexities of communication and the yearning for a deeper connection in a relationship. The singer longs for understanding and believes that having their loved one would provide the clarity they seek.


Line by Line Meaning

After all this time I still can't remember
Despite the passing of time, I am unable to recall certain things


Things that I've forgotten to say
Words and thoughts that I failed to express


And every time I see you the words don't come out right
Whenever I am in your presence, I struggle to articulate my thoughts effectively


It's just a stupid game that I play
Engaging in this futile and foolish game


(If I had you) I'd know all the answers
Having you in my life would grant me complete understanding


(If I had you) the questions wouldn't even matter
Your presence would diminish the significance of any uncertainties or doubts


I've been living a lifetime I'm dying to know if it's true if I had you
I've spent an entire existence yearning to discover the authenticity of my feelings if I were to possess you


I've been holding on for what feels like forever
I have clung onto this longing for an indefinite period of time


I can't seem to let it all go
I find myself incapable of releasing these emotions


Picking up the pieces that we put together
Attempting to salvage and reconstruct the fragments of our connection


Learning things we already know
Gaining knowledge and insights that we are already familiar with


But something else is going on I can't see right through
There is an underlying situation or dynamic that eludes my comprehension


I don't know if it's right or wrong
Uncertainty regarding the moral or ethical nature of the situation


I don't know what to do
Feeling lost and unsure of the appropriate course of action


And I can't stop your eyes from saying things we always knew
Unable to prevent the messages conveyed by your eyes, which reflect truths we have long been aware of


So look at me and tell me what to do
Directing a plea to you to provide guidance and clarity


(If I had you) I'd know all the answers
Having you by my side would grant me complete understanding


(If I had you) the questions wouldn't even matter
The presence of your love would render any uncertainties insignificant


I've been living a lifetime I'm dying to know if it's true
I have spent a lifetime yearning to ascertain the authenticity and truthfulness of this longing


(If I had you) I'd know all the answers
Your presence would provide me with comprehensive understanding


(If I had you) the questions wouldn't even matter
The doubts and inquiries would lose their significance


I've been living a lifetime I'm dying to know if it's true
My entire existence has been consumed by the desire to uncover the veracity of these emotions




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: DEBORAH HARRY

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@weggmyegg5459

It had to be you, it had to be you.
I wandered around and finally found the somebody who
Could make me be true, could make me feel blue,
And even be glad just to be sad thinkin' of you.

Some others I've seen might never be mean
Might never be cross or try to be boss,
But they wouldn't do.
For nobody else gave me a thrill.
With all your faults, I love you still,
It had to be you, wonderful you,
It had to be you.



@triplejazzmusicisall1883

The music especially piano is incredible but I also love the fact that this was pre the modern era of tattoos and huge body piercings etc...Harry brought class and style back into fashion. I like his new Christmas album but strangely unlike the vast majority was not keen on his album, 'Alone with my Faith', which made me feel bad as obviously that one would be very personal to him. It remains the only album though I don't care for.

For me Harry Connick brought great accessible swing and jazz, then funk, to the masses. He recaptured the style and sophistication of an earlier time when the likes of Audrey Hepburn was the epitome of beauty.

My 5 favourite albums: When Harry Met Sally, We Are in Love, When My Heart finds Christmas, Come By Me and My NOLA. Songs I Heard honourable mention.
Obviously I prefer his earlier jazzier days.

My favourite Harry compositions: Come By Me (A++++), I Pray on Christmas, Recipe for Love, Promise Me You'll Remember, Nowhere With Love, Heavenly.

Check out Drifting it's a beautiful song. Like A wink and a SMile it was written by the incredible Marc Shaiman. What are others favourite Connick albums?



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@elizabethmarinas2475

This is my favorite music video of all time especially when Harry connick jr sings it’s like magic

@alexginzo1246

This was the soundtrack that made me an all time fan.

@BaileySEA

Oh My God! Harry Connick Jr. was so good looking when he was that young.

@tombrown1898

This cover by Harry brings back the happiest time of my life.

@Kbb1957

I love Harry's version of this classic. He added a freshness and excitement without compromising the feel of the original. I love everything about this! Bravo, Harry!!!

@just-another-face-in-the-crowd

He looks like Luke Perry and James Dean had a baby. So young! :)😍

@makeupboss9812

When Harry Met Sally ! Totally forgot about that movie, it’s a good one . And that song is perfect for it .

Harry , darl’n, your voice is “ GOLD “ - pure talent and charisma. I’ll bet you are a hopeless romantic .

@harryconnickjr6444

Thanks for the great love and support you show me as a special fan of mine,I hope you won’t stop listening to my music, and thanks for sincere,

Kindly text me on my email address for more updates on my upcoming show(harryconnickjr50@gmail.com)

@pauldavid8445

Hello beautiful lady, how are you doing?

@rebekah518

I just saw Harry met Sally for the first time….I’m in love, oh and You’ve Got Mail, 😍

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