She Says
Howie Day Lyrics


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Sweet is the sight
Of her room
Window open, lit by candle light
How would you know
Cold winter on the shore
Chills the dress she wore
It's on the floor
Still it feels so warm today

And that's why I'm wondering
Why you had to tell me
What's going on in your head
What's wrong
Come around another time
When you don't have to run

And when she says she wants somebody else
I hope you know that she doesn't mean you
And when she breaks down and makes a sound
You never hear her the way that I do
And when she says she wants someone to love
I hope you know that she doesn't mean you
And when she breaks down and let's you down
I hope you know that she doesn't mean you
Yeah yeah no no
Swing into flight
Over hills
Over her hills it's twilight
Yeah I guess that's right now
And why won't you tell me
Why it's so funny
That you're so funny
When you're mad
'Cause it's mad, so mad

And that's why I'm wondering
Why you had to tell me
What's going on in your head
What's wrong
Come around to another time
When you don't have to run

And when she says she wants somebody else
I hope you know that she doesn't mean you
And when she breaks down and makes a sound
You'll never hear her the way that I do
And when she says she wants someone to love
I hope you know that she doesn't mean you




And when she breaks down and let's you down
I hope you know that she doesn't mean you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Howie Day's "She Says" paint a picture of a girl whom the singer is attracted to. The opening lines depict her room, with its window open and lit by candlelight, evoking a warm and inviting atmosphere. However, as the lyrics go on, we hear a note of sadness and detachment in the singer's voice. He talks of the winter chill on the shore and how it makes her dress fall to the floor. Despite this, he says, "still it feels so warm today."


The second stanza of the song goes deeper into the singer's emotions. He is clearly bothered by something going on in the girl's head but is frustrated because she won't tell him what it is. He implores her to come around another time when she doesn't have to run from whatever is bothering her. The chorus of the song is repeated three times throughout, each time with a slightly different variation, each time the singer expressing hope that the girl's desires and actions don't have anything to do with him. He also describes what he observes as she swings into flight over "her" hills in twilight.


One interpretation of "She Says" is that the singer is in love with this girl who is either unavailable or ambivalent towards him. His pining after her is causing frustration and confusion for both of them, and the chorus speaks to his fears that she is not talking about him when she talks about wanting love or looking for someone else. The song captures the bittersweet feeling of longing for someone you can't have and feeling like you're not quite able to connect with the person you're drawn to.


Line by Line Meaning

Sweet is the sight
The sight of her room with the window open and lit by candle light is lovely.


Of her room
The sight is specifically of her room.


Window open, lit by candle light
The window is open and there is light coming from candles that provide a warm and inviting atmosphere.


How would you know
The artist questions if the listener would know what it feels like to be in the presence of the woman in question.


Cold winter on the shore
The winter is cold and the location is near the shoreline.


Chills the dress she wore
The woman is likely cold and her dress is not enough to keep her warm.


It's on the floor
The dress is on the floor, potentially indicating that the woman has changed into something warmer.


Still it feels so warm today
Despite the cold weather, the artist is reminded of the warmth of being near the woman.


And that's why I'm wondering
The artist is questioning something due to the thoughts and feelings he is experiencing.


Why you had to tell me
The artist is questioning why the listener shared something with him.


What's going on in your head
The listener shared what is happening in their mind with the singer.


What's wrong
The artist is questioning what is causing the listener to feel upset or unhappy.


Come around another time
The singer suggests the listener come back at a later time when they are not in a rush or upset.


When you don't have to run
The singer wants the listener to come back when they are not in a hurry or feeling anxious.


And when she says she wants somebody else
The woman expressed a desire for someone else.


I hope you know that she doesn't mean you
The artist wants to make sure the listener does not misinterpret the woman’s statement as being about them.


And when she breaks down and makes a sound
The woman becomes emotional and cries.


You never hear her the way that I do
The singer has a unique understanding of the woman’s emotions and feelings that the listener might not understand.


And when she says she wants someone to love
The woman expressed a desire for someone to love.


I hope you know that she doesn't mean you
The artist wants to clarify that the woman is not referring to the listener as the person she wants to love.


And when she breaks down and let's you down
The woman becomes emotional and disappoints the listener.


I hope you know that she doesn't mean you
The artist wants to make sure the listener doesn’t take the woman’s actions personally.


Swing into flight
The singer is in a carefree and lighthearted mood.


Over hills
The artist is flying over hills in a carefree manner.


Over her hills it's twilight
The singer is flying over hills that belong to the woman as it is becoming dark outside.


Yeah I guess that's right now
The singer is confirming the accuracy of something that was just stated.


And why won't you tell me
The singer is once again asking the listener to share something with him.


Why it's so funny
The artist wants to know why the listener finds something humorous.


That you're so funny
The artist is acknowledging that the listener has a good sense of humor.


When you're mad
The listener has a tendency to exhibit humor even in tense or negative situations.


'Cause it's mad, so mad
The situation has escalated and become tense or negative.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: HOWIE DAY

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@revilz

Sweet is the sight
Of her room
Window open, lit by candle light
How would you know
Cold winter on the shore
Chills the dress she wore
It's on the floor
Still it feels so warm today
And that's why I'm wondering
Why you had to tell me
What's going on in your head
What's wrong
Come around another time
When you don't have to run
And when she says she wants somebody else
I hope you know that she doesn't mean you
And when she breaks down and makes a sound
You never hear her the way that I do
And when she says she wants someone to love
I hope you know that she doesn't mean you
And when she breaks down and let's you down
I hope you know that she doesn't mean you
Yeah yeah no no
Swing into flight
Over hills
Over her hills it's twilight
Yeah I guess that's right now
And why won't you tell me
Why it's so funny
That you're so funny
When you're mad
'Cause it's mad, so mad
And that's why I'm wondering
Why you had to tell me
What's going on in your head
What's wrong
Come around to another time
When you don't have to run
And when she says she wants somebody else
I hope you know that she doesn't mean you
And when she breaks down and makes a sound
You'll never hear her the way that I do
And when she says she wants someone to love
I hope you know that she doesn't mean you
And when she breaks down and let's you down
I hope you know that she doesn't mean you



All comments from YouTube:

@MrAerialsound

So refreshing to hear this song today....

@ryandagas

How did I forget not only this song but this singer .. i miss your voice man .. and I didn’t forget the lyrics even after 12 years 😂❤

@yehorkauvarov

Я тож часто пою эту песню) особенно в душе.

@bcscollectibles2718

Howie had this amazing album and then disappeared!!

@cupcakequeen0617

He's such an extremely underrated artist. I wonder why I haven't heard of this song till 11 years too late.

@martasilva4084

💜💜

@ahhwe-any7434

Let's leave the underated artists exactly where they're at tho. .. 🤗

@joedd215

Not too late. He still tours

@karenwalkersginglass

He seems to be a complete jerk irl, though. Read up about his multiple arrests.

@charlenemack7040

@@karenwalkersginglass That was a long time ago he’s cleaned up his act

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