Have You Ever
Incubus Lyrics


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To get up and walk away would be too easy
So stay and stand your ground, just watch your mouth with me
On the back of every right, there's a wrong looming
So here you and I should tread as soft as these razor blades
For boots will let be

Have you ever tried to step in my shoes?
Have you ever tried to balance that beam?
And if you ever tried to fit in my shoes
They'll never be quite as soft as they seemed

(Thought) Unabashed honesty would be ideal
But a prophet did once say that honesty is a lonely word
So where do we go from here, abandon ship now?
My problem is you made me melt
And I don't want to be frozen anymore

Have you ever tried to step in my shoes?
Have you ever tried to balance that beam?
And if you ever tried to fit in my shoes
They'll never be quite as soft as they seemed

Oh, oh, ooh

Have you ever, have you ever tried to?
I have never, I have never tried to

Have you ever tried to step in my shoes?
Have you ever tried to balance that beam?
And if you ever tried to fit in my shoes




They'll never be quite as soft as they seemed
Whoa, yeah, oh now, ha, ha, woo

Overall Meaning

The opening lines of "Have You Ever" by Incubus speak about the difficulty of walking away from a problematic situation. The singer encourages the other person to stay and face the problem head-on. The line "watch your mouth with me" hints that there has been a disagreement or arguments before, and the situation is tense. The second line talks about how every action has an equal and opposite reaction. Life isn't always fair, and sometimes it's hard to make the right choices. The phrase "razorblades for boots" refers to the difficulty of treading carefully in a hostile environment.


The chorus starts by posing a question to the listener. Have you ever tried to step in someone else's shoes? Have you ever tried to balance the weight of someone else's problems? The line "They'll never be quite as soft as they seem" suggests that the singer is experiencing hardship that is invisible to the outside world. The song continues with the lines "Unabashed honesty would be ideal, But a prophet did once say that honesty's our only weapon." This line is somewhat paradoxical as honesty can be both liberating and destructive. The singer is grappling with a difficult choice and doesn't know what to do. They are torn between staying and fleeing the situation.


Overall, "Have You Ever" is a poignant and introspective song that explores the difficulty of seeing things from someone else's perspective. It's a song about empathy and understanding, and how it's not always possible to walk in someone else's shoes. The lyricist has written a beautiful song that explores some profound themes that are relevant to our everyday lives.


Line by Line Meaning

To get up and walk away will be too easy
Running away from this situation would be the easier option.


So stay and stand your ground just watch your mouth with me
Stay and face this challenge, but be careful of what you say to me.


On the back of every right, there's a wrong looming
Every right decision has the potential for negative consequences.


So here you and I should tread assault
Both of us should approach this cautiously and with care.


As these razorblades for boots will it be
This situation is tough and difficult to navigate, like walking over razor blades.


Have you ever tried to step in my shoes?
Have you ever attempted to understand my perspective and situation?


Have you ever tried to balance that beam?
Have you ever tried to handle the same challenges I face?


And if you ever try to fit in my shoes
Even if you try to empathize with me and understand my perspective


They'll never be quite as soft as they seem
You'll never fully understand my struggles, even if you try hard to empathize.


Unabashed honesty would be ideal
It would be great if we could be completely honest with each other.


But a prophet did once say, that honesty's our only word
However, we should remember that being honest is the best course of action.


So where do we go from here? Abandon ship now!
Where do we take this relationship? Should we end it now?


My problem is you made me melt and I don't want to be frozen anymore
The issue is that you've helped me open up and be vulnerable, and I don't want to go back to being cold and distant.


Oh oh no oh no
Expressing shock or disbelief.


Have you ever, have you ever tried to, I have never, I have never tried to!
Have you made an effort to understand me? I haven't tried to understand you!




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Alex Katunich, Brandon Charles Boyd, Christopher Kilmore, Jose Pasillas IiI, Michael Aaron Einziger

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