B.S.U.R.
James Taylor Lyrics


Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴  Line by Line Meaning ↴

She's been holding on too long
Hoping I'm gonna change
Giving it up just a little bit more
Each time I come home
Looking and acting strange
Putting her down for putting up with me

(Chorus)
Be as you are
As you see as I am I am
Be as you are
As you see as I am I am

Do you think you might improve me
Trying to take control
Watching every little thing I do
Just like a bleeding movie
Just like a leading role
Mama, this ain't me and I don't
Believe that's you

- Chorus -

First you make believe
I believe the things
That you make believe
And I'm bound to let you down
Then it's I who have been deceiving
Purposely misleading
And all along you believed in me

So we circle around one another
Playing I guessing game
Strangers at this masquerade
Pretending to know each other
We strain to catch a name
And never see the mistakes we must have made





- Chorus -

Overall Meaning

In James Taylor's song "B.S.U.R.", the singer reflects on a troubled relationship with his partner. He acknowledges that she has been holding on for too long, hoping that he will somehow change, however, he continues to behave strangely and put her down for sticking with him. The chorus of the song suggests that they should both accept each other as they are, flaws and all, and stop trying to change or control each other.


The second verse sees the singer questioning whether his partner is actually trying to help him improve or is just trying to control him. He feels like he is constantly being watched and judged, like he is in a movie being directed by her. He then turns the mirror around and acknowledges that he has been deceiving her and leading her on, all while she truly believed in him.


In the final verse, the singer describes the relationship as a masquerade, where they both pretend to know each other but are really just strangers. They both make mistakes but never acknowledge them, and the cycle of pretending continues. Taylor's lyrics offer a poignant reflection on the challenges of relationships and the importance of accepting each other for who we are.


Line by Line Meaning

She's been holding on too long
She has been waiting for me to change for a long time


Hoping I'm gonna change
She keeps hoping that I will change


Giving it up just a little bit more
She compromises a bit more every time I come home


Each time I come home
Every time I return home


Looking and acting strange
She seems different and behaves strangely


Putting her down for putting up with me
I criticize her for tolerating my behavior


Be as you are
Just be yourself


As you see as I am I am
I am who I am, just like you


Do you think you might improve me
Are you trying to change me for the better?


Trying to take control
Attempting to have power over me


Watching every little thing I do
Observing every single action I take


Just like a bleeding movie
Like a dramatic movie that hurts to watch


Just like a leading role
As if I am starring in the movie


Mama, this ain't me and I don't
Mom, this is not who I truly am and I'm not sure why


Believe that's you
I don't think that's who you are either


First you make believe
At first, you pretend


I believe the things
I actually start to believe what you pretend


That you make believe
What you are pretending


And I'm bound to let you down
I will inevitably disappoint you


Then it's I who have been deceiving
Then I realize that I have also been lying


Purposely misleading
Deliberately giving false information


And all along you believed in me
And throughout it all, you had faith in me


So we circle around one another
We keep going around in circles


Playing I guessing game
Playing a game of trying to figure each other out


Strangers at this masquerade
We are like strangers at a costume party


Pretending to know each other
Acting as though we know everything there is to know about each other


We strain to catch a name
We try hard to remember each other's names


And never see the mistakes we must have made
We fail to recognize the errors we've both made


- Chorus -
Repeats the chorus




Contributed by Elena W. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
To comment on or correct specific content, highlight it

Genre not found
Artist not found
Album not found
Song not found

More Versions