Bittersweet
James Taylor Lyrics


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No I don't know how to love you
The way you want me to
'Cause every time I try
Something always changes with you
First it's cold baby
And then there's too much heat
One minute I'm up in heaven
And the next I'm down in the street

'Cause we got a love
That's bittersweet
I said we got a love
It's bittersweet, yeah

Sometimes when I'm with you
It's like you're just not there
When I look into your eyes
I see that thousand yard stare
Then you're back in love with me
Like you can't get enough
Rough into smooth
And the smooth back into the rough

Oh help me now
We got a love
That's bittersweet
We got a love, oh darlin'
That's bittersweet

I don't know anybody
Anybody like you
I never met anybody
Could make me feel the way you do
I wish that I could love you
The way you want me to
So scared you'll pull out the rug
Darling if I do

It's cold it's cold
And now there's too much heat
One minute I'm up in heaven
And the next, I'm walking the street, oh

We got a love
That's bittersweet
You know we got a love
That's bittersweet
We got a love, we got a love, we got a love
That's bittersweet
You know, we got a love, oh darlin'
That's bittersweet

Flamin' hot
Then not
Oh, bitter memory




I said we got, we got a love, oh
We got a love

Overall Meaning

James Taylor's "Bittersweet" is a song about the ups and downs of a romantic relationship. Throughout the song, Taylor sings about how he wishes he could love his partner the way they want him to, but he always seems to fall short. The lyrics depict the conflicting emotions that come with being in love with someone who is sometimes there and sometimes not. At times the relationship is like a rollercoaster, with one minute they are up in heaven and the next they are down in the street. The song refers to the love between the two characters as "bittersweet" because it can be both wonderful and painful at the same time.


The chorus repeats the phrase "We got a love that's bittersweet" several times throughout the song, emphasizing the mixed feelings that come with being in a love like this. Taylor's vocals are filled with emotion, capturing the highs and lows of the relationship. The song ends with Taylor singing "Flamin' hot, then not, oh, bitter memory," which speaks to the way the relationship is fleeting and unpredictable.


Overall, "Bittersweet" is a poignant depiction of a relationship that is both beautiful and difficult. It speaks to the universal experience of loving someone who has the power to both uplift and devastate us.


Line by Line Meaning

No I don't know how to love you
I am uncertain about how to love you


The way you want me to
As you prefer


'Cause every time I try
Whenever I attempt


Something always changes with you
A change in you always happens


First it's cold baby
It begins cold, my dear


And then there's too much heat
Then it progresses with excessive warmth


One minute I'm up in heaven
Occasionally, I feel ecstatic


And the next I'm down in the street
But then I feel crushed and dejected


'Cause we got a love
The love we have


That's bittersweet
Is both pleasant and painful


I said we got a love
I repeat, we have


It's bittersweet, yeah
It's both joyful and agonizing, yes


Sometimes when I'm with you
Certain times when I'm with you


It's like you're just not there
It's as though you're absent


When I look into your eyes
As I gaze into your eyes


I see that thousand yard stare
I detect a distant look


Then you're back in love with me
But you soon love me again


Like you can't get enough
Like you crave me


Rough into smooth
The turbulent turns into the calm


And the smooth back into the rough
But soon, the calm becomes turbulent again


Oh help me now
I plead for your assistance right now


We got a love
The love we share


That's bittersweet
Is both pleasurable and unpleasant


We got a love, oh darlin'
Yes, my dear, we have a love


That's bittersweet
That's both happy and sad


I don't know anybody
I don't know anyone


Anybody like you
Anyone similar to you


I never met anybody
I never encountered anyone


Could make me feel the way you do
Who could arouse the emotions you bring about in me


I wish that I could love you
I yearn to love you


The way you want me to
As per your desire


So scared you'll pull out the rug
I am frightened that you will leave me heartbroken


Darling if I do
My love, if I do leave you heartbroken


It's cold it's cold
It turns frigid, it's frigid


And now there's too much heat
And then it's overly warm


One minute I'm up in heaven
Sometimes, I feel overjoyed


And the next, I'm walking the street, oh
But then I feel sad again


You know we got a love
My love, you know we have


That's bittersweet
A love that's both happy and sorrowful


We got a love, we got a love, we got a love
We have a love


That's bittersweet
Both pleasant and unpleasant


You know, we got a love, oh darlin'
You know, we have a love, my dear


That's bittersweet
That's joyful and distressing


Flamin' hot
Burning hot


Then not
Then not as much


Oh, bitter memory
A painful recollection


I said we got, we got a love, oh
I said we have a love


We got a love
A love that we share




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Cecil Phillip

No I don't know how to love you
The way you want me to
Coz everytime I try
Something always changes with you
First it's cold baby
And then there's too much heat
One minute I'm up in heaven
And the next I'm down in the street

Coz we got a love
That's bittersweet
I said we got a love
It's bittersweet

Sometimes when I'm with you
It's like you're just not there
When I look into your eyes
I see that thousand yard stare
Then you're back in love with me
Like you can't get enough
Rough into smooth
And the smooth back into the rough

Ohhhh help me now
We got a love
That's bittersweet
We got a love, oh darlin'
That's bittersweet

I don't know anybody
Anybody like you
I never met anybody
Could make me feel the way you do
I wish that I could love you
The way you want me to
So scared you'll pull out the rug
Darling if I do

It's cold it's cold
And now there's too much heat
One mnute I'm up in heaven
And the next, I'm walking the street

We got a love
That's bittersweet
You know we got a love
That's bittersweet
We got a love
That's bittersweet
You know, we got a love, oh darlin'
That's bittersweet.

Flamin' hot
Then not.
Ooooooooh, bitter memory
I said we got a love, oooh,
We got a love.



All comments from YouTube:

Sarah Graham

Such beautiful lyrics, and beautifully sung.

Kaleb Schulz

This song in my opinion is on par with some of Taylor's best I love it so so much

Leslie Shaw

Agreed!

Daniel Hetue

Favorite modern James Taylor song of all time

Kris Kiritsis

I love this song!!!

Jacqueline Ganem

Que melodia delicinha de ouvir é igual a chicletes cola no juízo não esquece mais amo demais inspiradora prazerosa um brinde 🍹💋♥️🌷👍

Sherry Brookshire

This is a old song, becoming my new favorite songs. I just love JT

colin berg

It should also note that the co-writer is John Sheldon, formerly of the Van Morrison Controversy (1968) and then Bead Game with two LPs by that band.

Martin gardner

@colin berg also JT’s old friend and the brother of phoebe Sheldon?

ORIONBNASTY

My favorite james Taylor song

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