A Postcard to Nina
Jens Lekman Lyrics


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Nina I can be your boyfriend
So you can stay with your girlfriend
Your father is a sweet old man
But it is hard for him to understand
That you wanna love a woman
Nina I can be your boyfriend
If it puts an end to all this nonsense
First time I see you in Berlin
And you don't tell me anything
Until outside your dad's apartment

Ooh, ooh (ooh), bah bah bah

Oh God, Jesus Christ
I try to focus on your eyes
We're having dinner with your family now
Keep a steady look at your left eyebrow

If it's raised, it means yes
If it's not it means take a guess
Hey, you, stop kicking my legs
I'm doing my best
Can you pass the figs

Your father puts on my record
He says, "So tell me how you met her"
Uh, I get a little nervous and change the subject
And put my hand on some metal object
He jokes and tells me it's a lie detector

He takes out the booklet and starts reading
So I heard you're moving out next season
I say, "Yeah, New York is nice that time of year"
Almost as green as it is here
He says, "I thought you were moving to Sweden?" Oh

Oh God, what have I done?
I came to Berlin to have some fun
The clock on the wall strikes four, five, six
My eyes caught by a big crucifix
Guess that's why he won't let you go
His Catholic heart is big and slow
You know I'll do anything for love
But Nina what were you thinking of?

But Nina I can be your boyfriend
So you can stay with your girlfriend
Your father's mailing me all the time
He says he just wants to say hi
I send back "Out of office" auto-replies

Nina I just want to check in
'Cause I think about you every second
So I send you this postcard just to say
Don't let anyone stand in your way
Yours truly, Jens Lekman

Don't let anyone stand in your way
Don't let anyone stand in your way
Don't let anyone stand in your way




Don't let anyone stand in your way (ooh)
Don't let anyone stand in your way (ooh)

Overall Meaning

The song "A Postcard to Nina" by Jens Lekman tells the story of a man who has fallen in love with a woman named Nina, who is already in a relationship with another woman. Nina's father is also having a hard time accepting their relationship because of his religious beliefs. The singer offers to be Nina's boyfriend so she can stay with her girlfriend and not have to deal with the backlash from her family. The song is a plea to Nina to not let anyone stand in the way of her happiness and to follow her heart.


Throughout the song, the singer describes his awkward interactions with Nina's father and family as they have dinner together. He struggles to keep his cool and focus on Nina as her father asks him probing questions about their relationship. The song is full of witty and humorous lyrics, such as when the singer describes how Nina's father jokes that a metal object is a lie detector.


Overall, "A Postcard to Nina" is a thoughtful and heartfelt song that touches on themes of love, acceptance, and family. It shows the complexities of relationships and how sometimes we have to make difficult choices to be true to ourselves and our own happiness.


Line by Line Meaning

Nina I can be your boyfriend
Jens offers to be Nina's boyfriend, allowing her to stay with her girlfriend


So you can stay with your girlfriend
Jens suggests that Nina's father may not understand her desire to love a woman


Your father is a sweet old man
Jens describes Nina's father in a positive manner


But it is hard for him to understand
Nina's father might struggle to comprehend his daughter's attraction to another woman


That you wanna love a woman
Nina is romantically attracted to another woman


Nina I can be your boyfriend
Jens reiterates his offer to be Nina's boyfriend to end the confusion


If it puts an end to all this nonsense
Jens wants to end the confusion surrounding Nina's sexuality and their relationship


First time I see you in Berlin
Jens recalls the first time he saw Nina in Berlin


And you don't tell me anything
Nina doesn't tell Jens her true feelings and situation


Until outside your dad's apartment
Nina reveals her sexual orientation and relationship status to Jens outside her father's apartment


Oh God, Jesus Christ
Jens expresses his surprise and shock at Nina's revelation


I try to focus on your eyes
Jens tries to regain composure to focus on Nina's face


We're having dinner with your family now
Jens and Nina are at Nina's family dinner


Keep a steady look at your left eyebrow
Jens pays attention to Nina's raised eyebrow to interpret her feelings


If it's raised, it means yes
A raised eyebrow indicates an affirmative response


If it's not it means take a guess
If her eyebrow isn't raised, Jens has to guess what Nina is trying to say


Hey, you, stop kicking my legs
Jens asks Nina to stop kicking his legs under the table


I'm doing my best
Jens tries his best to understand Nina's emotions and signals


Can you pass the figs
Jens asks Nina to pass the figs


Your father puts on my record
Nina's father plays Jens' record


He says, "So tell me how you met her"
Nina's father asks Jens about how he met her


Uh, I get a little nervous and change the subject
Jens feels nervous and diverts the conversation to something else


And put my hand on some metal object
Jens places his hand on a metal object to calm his nerves


He jokes and tells me it's a lie detector
Nina's father jokes about the metal object being a lie detector


He takes out the booklet and starts reading
Nina's father examines the booklet of Jens' personal information


So I heard you're moving out next season
Nina's father heard Jens plans to move out next season


I say, "Yeah, New York is nice that time of year"
Jens mentions that he likes New York during that season


Almost as green as it is here
Jens compares New York's greenery to Berlin's


He says, "I thought you were moving to Sweden?" Oh
Nina's father thought Jens was moving to Sweden


Oh God, what have I done?
Jens regrets coming to Berlin and getting involved in this situation


I came to Berlin to have some fun
Jens didn't expect to get involved in this situation when he came to Berlin


The clock on the wall strikes four, five, six
The clock chimes four, five, six o'clock


My eyes caught by a big crucifix
Jens notices a big crucifix in the room


Guess that's why he won't let you go
Nina's father's religion might be why he doesn't accept Nina's sexuality


His Catholic heart is big and slow
Nina's father's Catholic faith might be limiting his views on love and sexuality


You know I'll do anything for love
Jens is willing to do anything to support Nina's happiness


But Nina what were you thinking of?
Jens wonders what Nina was thinking when she got involved in a complicated situation


Your father's mailing me all the time
Nina's father sends Jens mail frequently


He says he just wants to say hi
Nina's father claims the mail is just to say hello


I send back "Out of office" auto-replies
Jens replies to Nina's father with automatic out-of-office messages


Nina I just want to check in
Jens wants to know how Nina is doing


'Cause I think about you every second
Jens constantly thinks of Nina


So I send you this postcard just to say
Jens sends Nina a postcard to express his feelings


Don't let anyone stand in your way
Jens encourages Nina to follow her heart, despite societal pressure


Yours truly, Jens Lekman
Jens signs off the postcard with his name


Don't let anyone stand in your way
Jens repeats his encouragement for Nina to live authentically


Don't let anyone stand in your way
Jens repeats his encouragement for Nina to live authentically


Don't let anyone stand in your way
Jens repeats his encouragement for Nina to live authentically


Don't let anyone stand in your way (ooh)
Jens uses repetition to emphasize his message


Don't let anyone stand in your way (ooh)
Jens reiterates his message




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Jens Martin Lekman

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jens lekman - postcard to nina

29/1/2019

"My eyes caught by a big crucifix
Guess that's why he won't let you go
His Catholic heart is big and slow
You know I'll do anything for love
But Nina, what were you thinking of?"



All comments from YouTube:

@lexiemoss5752

jens: you know I love my gays

@ninavaldez

thank you for the postcard

@maximoplf

So, how are things going with your dad and your girlfriend?

@carmine4594

jens is so wholesome i love it

@nsatragno

This is my theme song now

@RoyFaisal17

Hello Ms. Nina : )

@smthepiclikekaoriornicolascage

live execution of this song was one of the best and funny performance i have ever seen. like standup with wonderful music, thanks jens;)

@megib901

I can tell by your pfp and the fact you're commenting on this video that you have great music taste.

@punn_mari2973

ahh, I love this song so much!! :D It has such a great tune hehe

@jzzzzm

Love this song and the story behind it. ❤

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