You Don'T Look The Same
Jet Lyrics


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speak so that she could understand
your taking to long dad
weep cause she needs to see you can
before you fell you ran
all I hear are the same excuses
all you do is complain

she... she's like a cancer on my brain
a fever with no name
no... nobodys's going to explain
the thoughts which you contain

all I hear are the same excuses all you do is complain
cause you don't look the same
cause you don't seem the same
cause you don't see what's going on
And I don't know why you can't lose, you lose
the rest of us we have to choose, we do
but you don't look the same
you don't seem the same
cause in my dreams you fall apart
you come and tell me who are you
the past is overdue
all I hear are the same excuses
all you do is complain

cause you don't look the same




and you don't seem the same
cause you don't see what's going on

Overall Meaning

In "You Don't Look the Same," Jet sings about a father who is distant and unwilling to connect emotionally with his daughter. The song opens with the daughter begging her father to speak plainly to her so that she can understand what he's feeling, but he is taking too long to do so. He needs to weep and show vulnerability so that his daughter can see that he's capable of feeling emotions before he falls apart. However, all he does is make the same excuses and complain, which indicates that he's unwilling to confront his problems.


The daughter, in turn, feels like a "cancer" on her father's brain. She is a constant source of worry and stress for him, but he doesn't communicate with her or seek help from anyone else. The daughter realizes that nobody is going to explain why her father is behaving this way, and she feels trapped by the negative thoughts that he's harboring. The song then repeats the central refrain that the father doesn't look, seem, or see the same as he used to.


Overall, "You Don't Look the Same" is a haunting reflection on the emotional distance that can grow between family members over time. It highlights the importance of honest communication and the dangers of bottling up one's feelings.


Line by Line Meaning

speak so that she could understand
Speak in a clear and concise way that she can comprehend because she needs to hear and comprehend your message


your taking to long dad
Your delay in action is making it harder for her to see that you are sincere and taking things seriously


weep cause she needs to see you can
Emote and show that you are capable of being there for her in her time of need because she needs to see that strength from you


before you fell you ran
Before you stumbled and lost your way, you were making progress by moving forward and taking action


all I hear are the same excuses
All I hear from you are the same reasons why you can't or won't make progress, and it is frustrating


all you do is complain
All you do is express dissatisfaction and negativity instead of actively seeking solutions


she... she's like a cancer on my brain
She is causing me mental anguish and emotional distress that feels like an insidious disease in my mind


a fever with no name
Her presence and emotional impact on me feels like an unidentifiable and persistent fever that won't go away


no... nobody's going to explain
No one can give me a clear or reasonable explanation for why I feel this way or why she has this effect on me


cause you don't look the same
Because your attitude and behavior have changed and become negative and complacent, you are not the same person I used to know


cause you don't seem the same
Because you are not making progress and actively taking care of yourself, you do not appear or feel like the person I once knew


cause you don't see what's going on
Because you are not aware or acknowledging the reality of the situation, you are not able to help or make positive changes


And I don't know why you can't lose, you lose
And I don't understand why you are unable to let go of whatever is holding you back, because in doing so, you are missing out on opportunities and losing


the rest of us we have to choose, we do
The rest of us have to make difficult decisions and take action in order to make progress and move forward


but you don't look the same
But your lack of progress and negative attitude are making you appear and feel like you are not the same person we once knew


you don't seem the same
You are not making progress and actively taking care of yourself, so you are not feeling or appearing like the person you once were


cause in my dreams you fall apart
Because of my worry and concern for you, in my dreams, I see you losing control and falling apart


you come and tell me who are you
In these dreams, I question and don't recognize who you are as a person anymore


the past is overdue
The time for dwelling on the past and using it as an excuse is over and it is time to move forward and make progress


all I hear are the same excuses
All I hear from you are the same reasons why you can't or won't make progress, and it is frustrating


all you do is complain
All you do is express dissatisfaction and negativity instead of actively seeking solutions




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Comments from YouTube:

Lake Markham

This is pretty good. I gotta say I miss the "Get Born" JET, though...that hard nosed rock & roll band that could still dip their toes into the indie/acoustic rock pool every now and then. They were one of my favorite bands.

Sloer Meutel

Amazing song.

poorguyfromharlem gaming

it's funny Jet being an Australian band released there album first in the US xD, this was a demo song by the way.

Andy Ferguson

Have you heard "Shaka Rock"? It's pretty hard nosed too. can't figure out which of the three albums is my favorite

Mia Fariha108

Nicee

felipepodlasinski

This could be a in "The Bends" album from Radiohead.

ekim tachibana

john lennon voice...:)

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