Be My Man
Jill Barber Lyrics


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If I promise to be good
And do everything that I should
And be the best woman that I can
Will you promise to be my man

If I swear all my love to you
If I swear always to be true
To be the one that you’ll know will understand
Will you promise to be my man

What on earth did I do to deserve
This little piece of heaven above
Where did you get the nerve
are you trying to spoil me with love

If I promise to be good
And do everything, everything that I should
You could make me the happiest woman in the land
If you promise to hold me tight
If you promise to treat me right




If you promise to be my man
To be my man...

Overall Meaning

In "Be My Man," Jill Barber sings to a potential partner about her willingness to be the best woman she can if he commits to being her man. She promises to be good and do everything she should, swear her love to him and always be true to him. She wonders what she did to deserve this wonderful man in her life and speculates if he's trying to spoil her with love, because she feels so lucky to have him.


The lyrics reflect a classic desire for commitment and partnership, with Barber offering her all in return for her man's promise to be faithful and treat her right. She emphasizes the importance of both partners understanding and supporting one another. The song has a upbeat, jazzy tempo and Barber's smooth, sultry voice adds an extra layer of enchantment to the message of the lyrics.


Overall, "Be My Man" is a timeless love song that speaks to the hopes and dreams of finding a lasting connection with a special person.


Line by Line Meaning

If I promise to be good
If I make a commitment to be kind, loyal and dependable


And do everything that I should
And if I fulfill all of my responsibilities and duties


And be the best woman that I can
And strive to fulfill my highest potential as a woman


Will you promise to be my man
Would you be willing to be my partner in life and love?


If I swear all my love to you
If I make a solemn promise to love only you wholeheartedly


If I swear always to be true
If I make a vow to always be honest and sincere


To be the one that you’ll know will understand
To be the one who comprehends you deeply and fully


Will you promise to be my man
Would you be willing to commit to be my partner in life and love?


What on earth did I do to deserve
What actions or deeds did I do that earned me this incredible blessing?


This little piece of heaven above
A metaphorical reference to the person who brings so much happiness and joy


Where did you get the nerve
What gave you the audacity or boldness to shower me with such love?


Are you trying to spoil me with love
Are you deliberately spoiling me or making me feel too good with your affection?


You could make me the happiest woman in the land
You have the potential to bring me overwhelming joy and contentment


If you promise to hold me tight
If you commit to embracing and comforting me


If you promise to treat me right
If you assure me of your respectful, honorable and loving conduct


If you promise to be my man
If you give me your word to be my partner in love and life


To be my man...
To be the significant other I long for and desire




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