Not The Only One
Jill Paquette Lyrics


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Everyone keeps saying this is only a phase
I got so much on my mind I don't know what I should take to heart
Where's my heart?
Had too much fun in high school and in college the same
Never living up to my potential, trying to live life my way
What's my way?
I can't pretend that life is fair everyday
Or that faith comes easy
I'm wondering what it is you're so afraid to say
'Cause I'm not the only one
Who thinks so
I'm not the only one
Who thinks so
It's never ending; stop pretending you're not afraid
The human condition your ambition so quickly steals away, everyday
But God I know you're listening God I know you can see
All the things that war inside us all the things we're trying to believe
You got me on my knees
And I can't pretend that life is fair everyday
Or that faith comes easy
I'm wondering what it is you're so afraid to say
Looking in the eyes of the people passing me by
I know I'm not the only one who thinks so
But I'm caught between faith and a hard place
What's with the long face
'Cause I'm not the only one
Who thinks so




I'm not the only one
Who thinks so

Overall Meaning

Jill Paquette's song "Not The Only One" is a deeply personal exploration of the challenges and doubts that come with adolescence and early adulthood. The lyrics reveal a speaker who is struggling with the pressures of growing up, trying to find their place in the world, and grappling with questions of faith and purpose. The repeated refrain of "I'm not the only one who thinks so" creates a sense of community and shared experience, and suggests that the song is meant to connect with others who may be going through similar struggles.


The first verse sets the tone for the song, with the singer reflecting on the conflicting messages they are receiving from the people around them. They are told that their struggles are just a phase and that they should not take them too seriously. However, the singer's experience is much more complex and nuanced than that, and they are grappling with questions of identity, purpose, and destiny. They feel like they are not living up to their potential, and they are not sure what path they should follow. The second verse takes a more introspective turn, with the singer acknowledging their own feelings of fear and doubt. They recognize that life is not always fair and that faith is not always easy, but they are determined to keep trying.


Line by Line Meaning

Everyone keeps saying this is only a phase
People keep telling me that what I'm going through is temporary and will pass.


I got so much on my mind I don't know what I should take to heart
I am overwhelmed with thoughts and don't know which ones to believe in or trust.


Where's my heart?
I am questioning my own feelings and emotions, and trying to locate where my true passions lie.


Had too much fun in high school and in college the same
I got caught up in the excitement and social aspects of school and didn't focus on my own potential or personal growth.


Never living up to my potential, trying to live life my way
I feel like I have not yet achieved my full potential and am still trying to figure out my own path in life.


What's my way?
I am questioning what direction I should take in life and what path is the right one for me.


I can't pretend that life is fair everyday
I acknowledge that life can be difficult and unfair at times, and I cannot ignore or deny this fact.


Or that faith comes easy
Believing in something greater than myself can be challenging and requires effort and dedication.


I'm wondering what it is you're so afraid to say
I am curious about what others may be afraid to express or reveal to me and why they feel this way.


'Cause I'm not the only one Who thinks so I'm not the only one Who thinks so
I realize that others share similar thoughts and feelings to mine, and I am not alone in my struggles or doubts.


It's never ending; stop pretending you're not afraid
The challenges and fears in life are continuous, and pretending they do not exist is not helpful or productive.


The human condition your ambition so quickly steals away, everyday
Our natural human tendencies and desires can often interfere with our goals and aspirations, and we must be mindful of this.


But God I know you're listening God I know you can see All the things that war inside us all the things we're trying to believe You got me on my knees
I have faith in a higher power and trust that they are aware of the struggles and conflicting beliefs within myself and others. I turn to prayer in seeking guidance.


Looking in the eyes of the people passing me by I know I'm not the only one who thinks so
Observing others and their actions makes me realize that I am not alone in my thoughts and feelings.


But I'm caught between faith and a hard place What's with the long face
I am struggling to reconcile my faith with the obstacles and challenges in my life, and am puzzled by the somber expressions I see around me.




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Abby Moore

Jill is my mom's friend and my piano teacher! Isn't she great?

Mary Ann Sedorovitz

She is excellent. She should re-release this CD. This is the best CD I ever purchased!! She is God's messenger. Sooo blessed. I can't wait to sing and play music with her around the throne!!

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