Ben Ik Je Kwijt
Karin Bloemen Lyrics


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Wow haha hee
Praat dan met me, maak geluid hehehe
Smijt met deuren, scheldt me uit
En gooi maar borden op de grond
Maar alsjeblieft hou niet je mond
Want liever heb ik dat je gaat
Dan dat je niet meer praat
Vecht dan met me, val me aan
Maar laat me hier niet smekend staan
Vloek maar, trek maar aan mijn haar
Duw me dan je woede maar
Want liever heb ik dat je vecht
Dan dat je niets meer zegt

Refr.:
Ben ik je kwijt
Is alles nu voltooid verleden tijd
Ik mis je warmte en geborgenheid
Waarom die grote onverschilligheid
Is het voorbij
Is het dan over
Tussen jou en mij
Is dit het beste voor ons allebei
Is het voorbij?

Wow

Ga dan weg als je dat wilt
Jij bent toch allang verkild
Nee er is niets meer aan te doen
Geef me maar een laatste zoen
Want liever heb ik dat je gaat
Dan dat je hier zo staat

Refr.

Je maakt me gek, ik kan dit niet
Ik heb zo geen bestaan
Je bent al bij mij weg
Je hoeft alleen nog maar te gaan

Ben ik je kwijt
Is alles nu voltooid verleden tijd
Ik mis je warmte en geborgenheid
Waarom die grote onverschilligheid
Is het voorbij
Is het dan over
Tussen jou en mij




Is dat het beste voor ons allebei
Is het voorbij?

Overall Meaning

The song "Ben Ik Je Kwijt" by Karin Bloemen is about the pain of losing someone and the frustration of being left in the dark about the reasons for their departure. The singer begs the person to speak up, even if it means throwing things and screaming, because anything is better than the silence and ambiguity of their current situation. The singer would rather have a fight and a definitive end to the relationship than be left guessing and wondering what went wrong. The refrain of the song emphasizes the singer's feelings of loss and confusion, asking if the relationship is really over and if the best thing for both parties is to go their separate ways.


The song is a powerful exploration of the emotions and conflicts that arise from the end of a relationship. The lyrics convey the singer's desperate desire for closure and the pain of being left behind by someone they loved. The song is characterized by a strong sense of emotional intensity, with the singer's raw honesty and vulnerability shining through in every line.


Line by Line Meaning

Wow haha hee
The singer seems to be amused by the situation and is inviting the other person to communicate with her.


Praat dan met me, maak geluid hehehe
The singer is asking the other person to talk to her and make some noise to resolve the situation.


Smijt met deuren, scheldt me uit
The singer is okay with the other person expressing their anger and frustration by slamming doors and using foul language towards her.


En gooi maar borden op de grond
The singer is okay with the other person throwing items in anger, even if it means breaking things.


Maar alsjeblieft hou niet je mond
The singer is more concerned with the other person communicating with her, rather than keeping silent.


Want liever heb ik dat je gaat
The singer would rather have the other person leave than continue in silence and distance.


Dan dat je niet meer praat
The singer values the other person's communication and does not want them to stop talking completely.


Vecht dan met me, val me aan
The singer is open to physical conflict if it means addressing the situation and working towards a resolution.


Maar laat me hier niet smekend staan
The singer does not want to be left pleading and begging for the other person to communicate with her.


Vloek maar, trek maar aan mijn haar
The singer is willing to endure physical aggression and verbal abuse to address the issues between them.


Duw me dan je woede maar
The singer is open to the other person expressing their anger and frustration towards her physically.


Want liever heb ik dat je vecht
The singer would prefer the other person to be physically aggressive towards her than to cut off communication entirely.


Dan dat je niets meer zegt
The singer values the other person's communication and does not want them to stop talking entirely.


Ben ik je kwijt
The singer is questioning if she has lost the other person.


Is alles nu voltooid verleden tijd
The singer is expressing that everything is now in the past and finished if the other person is lost to her.


Ik mis je warmte en geborgenheid
The singer is expressing that she misses the comfort and safety of the other person's presence.


Waarom die grote onverschilligheid
The singer is questioning why the other person has become so indifferent towards her.


Is het voorbij
The singer is asking if their relationship is over.


Is het dan over
The singer is asking again if their relationship has really ended.


Tussen jou en mij
The singer is specifically referring to their relationship and not other possible meanings of the word 'it.'


Is dit het beste voor ons allebei
The singer is wondering if it is really for the best for both of them to separate.


Ga dan weg als je dat wilt
The singer is giving permission for the other person to leave if that is what they want.


Jij bent toch allang verkild
The singer implies that the other person has already emotionally checked out.


Nee er is niets meer aan te doen
The singer has accepted that their situation is unchangeable at this point.


Geef me maar een laatste zoen
The singer wants a final kiss before the other person leaves.


Want liever heb ik dat je gaat
The singer would rather the other person leave than stay in a relationship without communication and affection.


Dan dat je hier zo staat
The singer does not want the other person to stay in a relationship where they are no longer present or affectionate.


Je maakt me gek, ik kan dit niet
The singer is expressing that the situation is driving her crazy and she cannot handle it anymore.


Ik heb zo geen bestaan
The singer feels like she does not have an identity or existence without the other person in her life.


Je bent al bij mij weg
The singer has accepted that the other person is already emotionally gone from their relationship.


Je hoeft alleen nog maar te gaan
The singer is urging the other person to leave and end their relationship for good.


Is dat het beste voor ons allebei
The singer is questioning if separating is really the best option for them as individuals.


Is het voorbij?
The singer, once again, questions if their relationship is really over.




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