Playing house
Katy Perry Lyrics


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We can?t keep playing house
With such a big world outside
How do we shut it out?
At a fork in the road
Should I stay or should I go?
I?ll keep the cat
Leave a spare under the mat
If you need to crash one day

Cause I know we swore forever
But it seems so far away
Don?t you think we?re just too young
To play these grown up games?

Cause you know me too well
It?d be like me lying to myself
But I?m so scared to be alone
And go back to sleeping with the lights on

Cause I can be myself
Drunk or sober fat proactive poster
Wouldn?t it be nice
If we were older

Cause I know we swore forever
But it seems so far away
Don?t you think we?re just too young
To play these grown up games

Some days I wanna take my chances

Not live so modernized
Some day I wanna be a Mrs.
But it?s not yet quite right
No it?s not yet quite right

So there go our future children?s names
I put the rest of us in a box in the closet
That I cannot open without getting full
Full of emotion
Because you know I loved you
You know I loved you
You know I loved you
You know I loved you
You know I loved you

Cause I know we swore forever
But it seems so far away
Don?t you think we?re just too young
To play

One day I wanna take my chances
Not live so modernized
One day I wanna be a Mrs.
But it?s not yet quite right




No it?s not yet quite right
No it?s not yet quite right

Overall Meaning

"Playing House" by Katy Perry is a nostalgic reflection on a relationship that has run its course. The lyrics are centered around the idea that the singers had pledged to be together forever, but over time they learnt that it might have been a hasty promise. The first verse, "We can’t keep playing house/ With such a big world outside/ How do we shut it out?", shows the singers trying to figure out how they can isolate themselves from the pressing issues of the world, which are getting between them. The next line, "At a fork in the road/ Should I stay or should I go?" signifies that the singers are at a crossroads where they must decide if they need to stay together or go their separate ways.


The chorus further emphasises the idea that the singers are too young to understand the intricacies of the relationship. When Perry sings, "Don’t you think we’re just too young/ To play these grown-up games?" she estimates that maintaining a long-term, serious relationship requires more maturity than she currently possesses. The second verse explains that Perry is afraid of being alone and the security that her partner provides, yet at the same time, she wants to be herself, "drunk or sober fat proactive poster." Additionally, in the bridge, Perry reflects on her yearning for a more traditional life but admits that she is not there yet.


Line by Line Meaning

We can?t keep playing house
We cannot pretend to be a family anymore


With such a big world outside
There's a whole world outside of our make-believe home


How do we shut it out?
How can we ignore the real world and stay in this fantasy?


At a fork in the road
We have a decision to make


Should I stay or should I go?
Should I keep pretending or move on?


I?ll keep the cat
I'll keep a small connection to you


Leave a spare under the mat
In case you need a place to stay


If you need to crash one day
If you need a place to stay


Cause I know we swore forever
We made a promise to each other


But it seems so far away
That promise feels distant and unattainable now


Don?t you think we?re just too young
We're too young to be playing house and making forever promises


To play these grown up games?
To pretend to be adults with a family when we're not ready


Cause you know me too well
You know me intimately


It?d be like me lying to myself
It would be a lie to pretend I am someone I am not


But I?m so scared to be alone
I am afraid of being alone


And go back to sleeping with the lights on
I am afraid of the dark, and being alone in it


Cause I can be myself
I am comfortable being myself


Drunk or sober fat proactive poster
I am comfortable being myself, even if that means being imperfect or vulnerable


Wouldn?t it be nice
It would be pleasant


If we were older
If we were more mature and able to handle our make-believe family


Some days I wanna take my chances
Sometimes I want to live without fear


Not live so modernized
Not fall victim to modern-day expectations


Some day I wanna be a Mrs.
Someday I want to be married


But it?s not yet quite right
But it doesn't feel right yet, it feels forced


So there go our future children?s names
We had planned our future together, including children's names


I put the rest of us in a box in the closet
I put away our pretend family


That I cannot open without getting full
It brings up emotions that are difficult to handle


Full of emotion
Filled with strong feelings


Because you know I loved you
Because I really did love you


No it?s not yet quite right
It's not right to keep pretending when we're not ready




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Comments from YouTube:

@StephanieRne

Omg this is one of the best songs I've ever heard her sing and the lyrics are amazing WHHHHYYYY was this not released!?!?!? Could see her doing this at the Grammys or vmas SO GOOD KATY!!!! hope this comes out in the future too good not to. <3

@deshnyvincent1368

Really wish she released this, it's amazing.
She was still good even though she had flu, you can tell she gave it her all.
#KatyKatFuhLyfe

@cicocice

12 years waiting for this song

@cdub722

wow this is the first time i heard this song..what an incredible song,absolutely LOVE katy,shes never stops amazing me with her songs and lyrics :)

@1um1n0us975

i absolutely love this. hope she comes back this, cannot wait for her new album

@TNA02

i miss this katy perry so much

@vanessa02porto

one of her best live performances, one of her best songs, i love her since 2009 and i always will, THANK YOU FOR PUTTING THIS ON YOUTUBE

@RelyaVoy

same here, I watch this video from time to time again since 2009, and I still love this song so much. i wish there'd be a studio version of it.

@vanessa02porto

@@RelyaVoyyessssssss plus kp5 is coming and im here for it

@RelyaVoy

@@vanessa02porto omg yes! i can't believe, you're like the second OG KatyCat I saw here on YouTube who knows songs like "Playing House" but still also is a fan of her latest stuff! can't wait to hear Daisies :D! I don't want to spam but today I just released a song with a video ("Take Me Back", on my channel) and I wanted to mix the PRISM sound with a One Of The Boys chorus, maybe you'd like to check it out :)!

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