You Love Me
Kelly Clarkson Lyrics


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Thick skin, soft touch,
Heart of gold but it's na-na-na-not enough,
Forgiving arms, the higher road,
Working hard but it's na-na-na-not enough,
You say, I'm not good enough, I'm not good enough
But what you really mean is, you're not good enough, you're not good enough
You can't deliver
So you turn it around

You didn't let me down,
You didn't tear me apart
You just opened my eyes,
While breaking my heart
You didn't do it for me
I'm not as dumb as you think, you just made me cry
While claiming that you love me
You love me, you love me
You said you loved me but that I
I'm not good enough, I'm not good enough

Stronghold, but fun ride,
But roller coasters aren't just na-na-na-not enough,
I keep it in, you wear me out,
This kind of love is na-na-na-not enough,
Said I'm just a sinking ship, I'm just a sinking ship,
But what that really means, is you can't handle this, you can't handle this,
You couldn't win so you turn it around

You didn't let me down,
You didn't tear me apart
You just opened my eyes,
While breaking my heart
You didn't do it for me
I'm not as dumb as you think, you just made me cry
While claiming that you love me
You love me, you love me
You said you loved me but that I
I'm not good enough, I'm not good enough

Your love feels different it's like a blow to the head with your compliments.
Your love hurts deeper
It's like a brick in the sea and I'm drowning with it

You didn't let me down,
You didn't tear me apart
You just opened my eyes,
While breaking my heart
You didn't do it for me
I'm not as dumb as you think, you just made me cry
While claiming that you love me
You love me, you love me
You said you loved me but that I
I'm not good enough, I'm not good enough

So understand it means nothing when you say you love me
When you say you love me
When you say you love me
You love me, you love me

You didn't let me down,
You didn't tear me apart
You just opened my eyes,
While breaking my heart
You didn't do it for me
I'm not as dumb as you think, you just made me cry
While claiming that you love me
You love me, you love me




You know the truth is that
You're not good enough, you're not good enough

Overall Meaning

In Kelly Clarkson's song "You Love Me," she sings about a relationship that's not living up to her expectations, despite her partner's claims of love. The opening lines suggest that Kelly has a "thick skin" but also a "soft touch," indicating that she is someone who is sensitive and empathetic. However, the person she's with still thinks that she's "not good enough," even though they clearly have their own shortcomings that they're projecting onto her.


Throughout the song, Kelly repeats the phrase "na-na-na-not enough," highlighting the fact that no matter what she does, it's never good enough for her partner. Meanwhile, the chorus makes it clear that Kelly is not dumb enough to fall for these claims of love that are not backed up by actions. She also points out that her partner's compliments sometimes feel like a "blow to the head," emphasizing the impact that their words have on her.


Ultimately, the song speaks to the idea that love should be more than just empty words. It's not enough to say that you love someone if you're not actually willing to back that up with actions and support. Kelly's raw and vulnerable lyrics capture the pain of being in a relationship that's not living up to her expectations.


Line by Line Meaning

Thick skin, soft touch,
I may come off as tough and resilient, but my heart is sensitive and caring.


Heart of gold but it's na-na-na-not enough,
Despite my good intentions and kind nature, it seems like it's never enough for you.


Forgiving arms, the higher road,
I try to be understanding and forgiving, and take the high road in situations.


Working hard but it's na-na-na-not enough,
I put in effort and work hard, but it still seems like it's not satisfactory for you.


You say, I'm not good enough, I'm not good enough
You constantly criticize and put me down, making me feel inadequate.


But what you really mean is, you're not good enough, you're not good enough
Your constant criticisms and negativity reveal that you may have insecurities and flaws that you are projecting onto me.


You can't deliver
You cannot meet my expectations or the standards you set for yourself.


So you turn it around
You shift the blame onto me, making me feel like I'm the reason for our problems.


You didn't let me down,
You didn't actually disappoint me or fail me in any way.


You didn't tear me apart
You didn't intentionally hurt me or break me down emotionally.


You just opened my eyes,
Your behavior and words made me realize the truth behind our relationship.


While breaking my heart
Although you didn't intend to hurt me, your actions and words still caused emotional pain.


You didn't do it for me
Your actions were not driven by love or concern for me.


I'm not as dumb as you think, you just made me cry
I am not naive or easily fooled by your actions, but they still caused me emotional distress.


While claiming that you love me
Despite your negative behavior, you still insist that you love me.


Your love feels different it's like a blow to the head with your compliments.
Your love seems insincere and fake, like a harsh blow disguised as a compliment.


Your love hurts deeper
Your love causes deeper emotional harm and pain.


It's like a brick in the sea and I'm drowning with it
Your love is heavy and suffocating, making me feel trapped and overwhelmed.


So understand it means nothing when you say you love me
Your words of love are hollow and meaningless because your actions do not reflect them.


You know the truth is that
You are aware of the reality of the situation.


You're not good enough, you're not good enough
Perhaps due to your own insecurities or shortcomings, you are not capable of being the partner or person I need.




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: OLIVER ELLIOT GOLDSTEIN, JOSH ABRAHAM, KELLY CLARKSON

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Jason Smalls

[Verse 1]
Thick skin, soft touch
Heart of gold, but it's na-na-na-not enough
Forgiving arms, the higher road
Working hard, but it's na-na-na-not enough
You said I'm not good enough, I'm not good enough
But what you really mean is you're not good enough, you're not good enough
You can't deliver, so you turn it around

[Chorus 1]
You didn’t let me down
You didn’t tear me apart
You just opened my eyes
While breaking my heart
You didn’t do it for me
I’m not as dumb as you think
You just made me cry
While claiming that you love me
You love me, you love me
You said you loved me
But that I’m not good enough, I’m not good enough

[Verse 2]
Strong hold, a fun ride
But rollercoasters are just na-na-na-not enough
I keep it in, you wear me out
This kind of love is na-na-na-not enough
You said I’m just a sinkin' ship, I’m just a sinkin' ship
But what that really means is you can’t handle this, you can’t handle this
You couldn’t win, so you turn it around


[Chorus 1]
You didn’t let me down
You didn’t tear me apart
You just opened my eyes
While breaking my heart
You didn’t do it for me
I’m not as dumb as you think
You just made me cry
While claiming that you love me
You love me, you love me
You said you loved me
But that I’m not good enough, I’m not good enough

[Bridge]
Your love (Your love) feels different
It’s like a blow to the head with your compliments
Your love (Your love) hurts deeper
Like a brick in the sea and I’m drowning with it

[Chorus 2]
You didn’t let me down
You didn’t tear me apart
You just opened my eyes
While breaking my heart
You didn’t do it for me
I’m not as dumb as you think
You just made me cry
While claiming that you love me
You love me, you love me
You said you loved me
But that I’m not good enough, I’m not good enough
So understand that it means nothing when you say you love me
You love me, you love me (When you say you love me)
When you say you love me
You love me, you love me


[Chorus 1]
You didn’t let me down
You didn’t tear me apart
You just opened my eyes
While breaking my heart
You didn’t do it for me
I’m not as dumb as you think
You just made me cry
While claiming that you love me
You love me, you love me
You know that truth is that
You're not good enough, you're not good enough



Pierre Ochoa

Thick skin, Soft touch
Heart of gold but it's na-na-na-not enough
Forgiving arms, the higher road
Working hard but it's na-na-na-not enough

You say, I'm not good enough, I'm not good enough
But what you really mean is
You're not good enough, you're not good enough
You can't deliver so you turn it around

You didn't let me down, you didn't tear me apart
You just opened my eyes, while breaking my heart
You didn't do it for me
I'm not as dumb as you think
You just made me cry
While claiming that you love me
You love me, you love me
You said you loved me but that I
I'm not good enough, i'm not good enough

Stronghold, but fun ride
But rollercoasters aren't just na-na-na-not enough
I keep it in, you wear me out
This kind of love is na-na-na-not enough
Said I'm just a sinking ship, I'm just a sinking ship
But what that really means
Is you can't handle this, you can't handle this
You couldn't win so you turn it around

You didn't let me down, you didn't tear me apart
You just opened my eyes, while breaking my heart
You didn't do it for me
I'm not as dumb as you think
You just made me cry
While claiming that you love me
You love me, you love me
You said you loved me but that I
I'm not good enough, i'm not good enough
Your love feels different
It's like a blow to the head with your compliments
Your love hurts deeper
It's like a brick in the sea and I'm drowning with it

You didn't let me down, you didn't tear me apart
You just opened my eyes, while breaking my heart
You didn't do it for me
I'm not as dumb as you think
You just made me cry
While claiming that you love me
You love me, you love me
You said you loved me but that I
I'm not good enough, i'm not good enough
So understand it means nothing when you say you love me
When you say you love me
When you say you love me
You love me, you love me

You didn't let me down, you didn't tear me apart
You just opened my eyes, while breaking my heart
You didn't do it for me
I'm not as dumb as you think
You just made me cry
While claiming that you love me
You love me, you love me
You know the truth is that
You're not good enough, you're not good enough...



All comments from YouTube:

Dee Woo

This is one of my top 3 favorite songs of Kelly Clarkson. This song was well written,well arranged,well sung and well produced. This song would have been either a #1 hit or in the top 3.

Laura Clark

Yeah, it belongs right there with the songs that were released to radio from this album, Mr. Know It All, Stronger and Dark Side. It has the same theme and it's just as good as those (love them all). Not only is it a blast to listen to, the message of this song has one of the best relationship messages... if someone plays you for a fool, play this song for yourself and that person, so amazing and true.

Chris Lee Carey

This was my favorite on the album so mad it was never released this would have been huge ❤

abbyboi88

I totally agree. You Love Me & Stronger !!!

Danyiel Says

I agree the lyrics are so relatable

@SokkaKnowsBest

She JUST sang this on her show as the kellyoke!!!

Desiree Lawver

thats funny i own it and the song is on it wonder why

Todd Case

Should've been a single, was so glad to hear her sing it on her show

David D

Yess still my favorite off this album and probably top 5 from her. Absolutely love this it should’ve been a single.

Dee Woo

I'm wondering........Ms. Kelly Clarkson can you have this masterpiece of a song released and have it on the HOT 100 charts? I think us fans would want to see it be successful as a released single. It would be a Mega #1 hit for sure. Just a thought. 🙂

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