lighthouse
Kelly Clarkson Lyrics


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I need a do-over, how did we end up this way?
I'm so confused lover did I mistake love and pain
Ain't got no shine left I couldn't hide it
I almost lost all my light, and

I didn't choose sober but my eyes can't look away
I see our true colors lately, we've been lookin' grey
I can't turn back now
'Cause you'd take me back down
That road that always seems to come right back around

(Remember when) we had dreams to fly away
(But that was then) and now our story's just a page

Like a wave you're always crashing into me, crashing into me
And these days are harder than they used to be, and they used to be
No shooting stars can, fix what we aren't and
What good's a lighthouse when the light is burning out?

It's such a shame when your wants and needs they don't align
Which road to take cause your hand's no longer holdin' mine
I guess that's life and sometimes you fight and
Sometimes you walk away in order to survive

(Remember when) there was nowhere to throw blame
(But that was then) and now it's when you use my name

Like a chill in my bones when you say to me, what you say to me
I thought I found home, but hidden underneath we were crumbling
No shooting stars can fix what we are and
What good's a lighthouse when the light is burning out?

And I feel what we were washing over me, questioning everything, all that time (i feel)
And I keep all the ways that you wanted me to be different fresh in my mind (i keep)
What you loved, what you wanted, what you held so high when we first met in hindsight (ooh)
Were the things that you tried and asked me to change
As if I could do that (ooh)

Like a wave you're always crashing into me, crashing into me
And these days are harder than they used to be, and they used to be




No shooting stars can fix what we are and
What good's a lighthouse when the light is burning out?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Kelly Clarkson's song "Lighthouse" explore a relationship that has lost its way and is now filled with confusion, pain, and a sense of feeling lost. The singer expresses a desire for a fresh start, a "do-over," as they question how they ended up in this troubled state. They admit to mistaking love for pain, indicating that the relationship has become toxic.


The metaphor of the lighthouse is used to symbolize hope and guidance, but in this case, the light is burning out. The singer feels that there is no longer any shine or light left within them, implying a loss of their inner strength and positivity. They are unable to turn back and escape the destructive cycle that keeps repeating itself.


The lyrics also touch upon the idea of changing oneself to fit someone else's expectations. The singer reflects on the ways they were asked to be different and the pressure they felt to conform to their partner's desires. However, they realize that trying to change themselves was futile, and it only led to their own unhappiness.


Overall, "Lighthouse" portrays a relationship that has lost its spark and direction. The metaphor of the lighthouse fading represents the loss of hope and the struggle to find guidance in the midst of a troubled connection.


Line by Line Meaning

I need a do-over, how did we end up this way?
I desire a fresh start, questioning the circumstances that led us to this point.


I'm so confused lover did I mistake love and pain
I am deeply perplexed, wondering if I misunderstood the distinction between love and suffering.


Ain't got no shine left I couldn't hide it
I have lost all my radiance, unable to conceal it.


I almost lost all my light, and
I nearly extinguished all of the brightness within me.


I didn't choose sober but my eyes can't look away
I did not opt for clarity, yet I am unable to divert my gaze.


I see our true colors lately, we've been lookin' grey
Recently, I perceive our authentic nature, discovering that we appear dull and lifeless.


I can't turn back now
I am unable to reverse course at this moment.


'Cause you'd take me back down
Because you would lead me back to the same negative path.


That road that always seems to come right back around
That familiar path that continuously reemerges.


(Remember when) we had dreams to fly away
Recall when we used to envision escaping together.


(But that was then) and now our story's just a page
However, that was in the past, and now our relationship is merely a fleeting chapter.


Like a wave you're always crashing into me, crashing into me
Similar to an unrelenting wave, you consistently collide with me.


And these days are harder than they used to be, and they used to be
Presently, these days are more challenging compared to how they once were.


No shooting stars can fix what we aren't and
No extraordinary occurrences can mend what we lack and what we aren't.


What good's a lighthouse when the light is burning out?
In what way does a lighthouse serve its purpose when its light is diminishing?


It's such a shame when your wants and needs they don't align
It is truly regrettable when your desires and necessities no longer synchronize.


Which road to take cause your hand's no longer holdin' mine
Uncertain of the path to follow since we are no longer connected.


I guess that's life and sometimes you fight and
I suppose that is the nature of life, where conflicts arise.


Sometimes you walk away in order to survive
At times, survival requires walking away from a situation.


(Remember when) there was nowhere to throw blame
Recall when no one could be held accountable for our circumstances.


(But that was then) and now it's when you use my name
However, that was in the past, and now you invoke my name to assign blame.


Like a chill in my bones when you say to me, what you say to me
Similar to a shiver running down my spine when you utter those words to me.


I thought I found home, but hidden underneath we were crumbling
I believed I had discovered a place of belonging, but beneath the surface, we were falling apart.


No shooting stars can fix what we are and
No extraordinary occurrences can rectify our current state.


What good's a lighthouse when the light is burning out?
In what way does a lighthouse serve its purpose when its light is diminishing?


And I feel what we were washing over me, questioning everything, all that time (i feel)
I experience the impact of what we used to be, causing me to doubt everything throughout that period of time.


And I keep all the ways that you wanted me to be different fresh in my mind (i keep)
I retain vividly in my memory all the expectations you had for me to change.


What you loved, what you wanted, what you held so high when we first met in hindsight (ooh)
Upon reflection, the things you cherished, desired, and regarded highly when we initially crossed paths.


Were the things that you tried and asked me to change
Ironically, those were the aspects you attempted to alter and requested me to modify.


As if I could do that (ooh)
As if it were within my capabilities to fulfill those requests.


Like a wave you're always crashing into me, crashing into me
Similar to an unrelenting wave, you consistently collide with me.


And these days are harder than they used to be, and they used to be
Presently, these days are more challenging compared to how they once were.


No shooting stars can fix what we are and
No extraordinary occurrences can mend what we lack and what we aren't.


What good's a lighthouse when the light is burning out?
In what way does a lighthouse serve its purpose when its light is diminishing?




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Aben Eubanks, Jesse Samuel Shatkin, Kelly Briannne Clarkson

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@lilyraiyne9225

This is beautifully put together! Kelly makes me feel every emotion, and I am here for every moment of it! Love you , Kelly!!! ❤

@bethclark8088

"Remember when there was nowhere to throw blame, but that was then and now it's when you use my name.
Like a chill in my bones when you say to me what you say to me , i thought I found home, but hidden underneath, we we're crumbling" How raw and real that part is😢😢😢

@cherylolczak3190

Just got back from Vegas hearing Kelly sing this in person. Tears streaming! She is phenomenal!!!

@justcallmesuzzie

Those lyrics are so powerful. I always feel every feeling in Kelly's lyrics. Her songs are so raw and powerful. Incredibly, realistic, emotional, and truth to it's core. She has shown throughout her musical journey these last 3-4 years the entire stages of grief. She lost someone/something, it was her love. Loosing the love that defines "in love" for someone is a huge loss. People do not take the time to understand love and the different types of love. You can love someone for your entire life and they can be your "great life love" and still not be with them. It happens, people, and we have to move on. Not what we want, not what we dreamed off, not what we expected but what has to be done for our health.

@s_m43

Unfortunately, I find this really hitting home. Sometimes you just can’t stop the hurt.
“It’s such a shame when your wants and needs, they don’t align”

@brianverkennis2421

You are so correct. I'm going through a break up and the hurt keeps coming back as much I try to block it.

@spiraljoe1273

STUNNING! Simply one gorgeous song - already in my all time top 10 from this amazing lady!!!!!! 💯❤️💯❤️💯❤️

@cassreader1991

You know I think we finally got her best work. I just hate that it took heartbreak to get there.

@dawn6954

Holy smokes this song is my life life in entirety right now 😢

@amyjordan1694

Girl same

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