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Kelly Clarkson Lyrics


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Buried myself into somebody else
Shut out some parts of me
Did it so casually

I guess I needed that
To be able to step back
I lived my life without me
I never allowed me to

Too much I've had to live for
Put my life on hold for
I'm always pleasin' someone
Honestly, now I'm done

I don't need somebody to hold me
Don't need somebody to love me
Don't need somebody to pick these pieces up
I put together my broken
Let go of the pain I've been holdin'
Don't need to need somebody
When I got me

Loved you so much
Took an army to pull me up
But now on the other side
I remembered I could fly

I told you I wanted you
But you needed me to need you
Your insecurity
Was the death of you and me

Too many times you questioned
What were my intentions
I never gave you reasons
You're the one with secrets

I don't need somebody to hold me
Don't need somebody to love me
Don't need somebody to pick these pieces up
I put together my broken
Let go of the pain I've been holdin'
Don't need to need somebody
When I got me
When I got me
When I got me

I bet you feel the absence of my love every night
There's no one else, you are the reason I said goodbye

'Cause I don't need somebody to scold me
Don't need somebody that hurts me
Don't need somebody who feels weak standing next to me
I put together my broken
Let go of your hand I've been holdin'
Don't need to need somebody




When I got me
When I got me, yeah

Overall Meaning

In the lyrics of Kelly Clarkson's song "me," the singer reflects on a period of her life where she lost herself in a relationship, sacrificing parts of her identity and personal fulfillment to please someone else. She admits that she buried herself into somebody else and shut out certain aspects of her own personality, doing so casually as if it were an afterthought. At the time, she believed she needed to do this in order to gain perspective and distance from her own life.


However, as the song progresses, Kelly Clarkson realizes that she doesn't need someone else to hold her, love her, or pick up the pieces. She has come to a point of self-empowerment where she has put her brokenness back together and let go of the pain she had been holding onto. In the process, she discovers that she possesses the strength and resilience to stand on her own. The chorus emphasizes this realization, stating that she doesn't need to rely on somebody else when she has herself.


The lyrics also touch on the dynamics of the relationship that contributed to its downfall. The singer loved her partner deeply, and it took a significant effort to get her to a better place. However, she ultimately recognizes that her partner needed her to need them, and their own insecurities and anxieties became the cause of their separation. The song suggests that the partner constantly questioned her intentions, leading to a lack of trust and an unhealthy dynamic built on secrets.


Overall, "me" is a song of self-discovery and empowerment, as the singer triumphs over a toxic relationship and realizes that she can thrive on her own.


Line by Line Meaning

Buried myself into somebody else
I lost myself and my identity by seeking validation and fulfillment through someone else


Shut out some parts of me
I ignored and suppressed certain aspects of myself in order to maintain a relationship


Did it so casually
I engaged in these behaviors without realizing the negative impact they had on me


I guess I needed that
I thought I needed to rely on someone else to feel complete and happy


To be able to step back
In order to gain perspective and understand the consequences of my choices


I lived my life without me
I prioritized pleasing others and neglected my own desires and well-being


I never allowed me to
I never gave myself the chance to focus on my own needs and aspirations


Too much I've had to live for
I had many reasons to live and embrace my own journey


Put my life on hold for
I sacrificed my own progress and happiness for the sake of someone else


I'm always pleasin' someone
I constantly sought validation and approval from others


Honestly, now I'm done
Honestly, I have finally realized that this behavior is no longer serving me


I don't need somebody to hold me
I don't require someone else's physical embrace for comfort and reassurance


Don't need somebody to love me
I don't depend on someone else's love to define my self-worth


Don't need somebody to pick these pieces up
I am capable of picking up my own broken pieces and healing myself


I put together my broken
I took the necessary steps to mend my own heart and soul


Let go of the pain I've been holdin'
I released the emotional pain and burdens that I have been carrying


Don't need to need somebody
I no longer feel the need to depend on someone else's presence or validation


When I got me
Because I have discovered my own strength and worth


Loved you so much
I cared deeply for you


Took an army to pull me up
It required a considerable effort to free myself from the influence of our relationship


But now on the other side
Now that I have moved on and gained perspective


I remembered I could fly
I rediscovered my own ability to thrive and be independent


I told you I wanted you
I expressed my desire for a relationship with you


But you needed me to need you
You relied on me needing you in order to feel secure and validated


Your insecurity
Your lack of confidence and self-assurance


Was the death of you and me
It ultimately led to the downfall and end of our relationship


Too many times you questioned
You frequently doubted and questioned my motives


What were my intentions
You were unsure of my true intentions and doubted my sincerity


I never gave you reasons
I never provided you with valid justifications for your doubts


You're the one with secrets
You are the one withholding information and keeping secrets


I bet you feel the absence of my love every night
I believe you now realize the emptiness left by the absence of my love in your life


There's no one else, you are the reason I said goodbye
You were the main factor that led to my decision to end the relationship


'Cause I don't need somebody to scold me
Because I don't require someone to criticize or reprimand me


Don't need somebody that hurts me
I don't need someone who inflicts pain and emotional harm upon me


Don't need somebody who feels weak standing next to me
I don't want someone who feels inferior or inadequate when they are with me


Let go of your hand I've been holdin'
I released the grip on your hand that I had been tightly holding onto


Don't need to need somebody
I don't have the need or dependence on someone else for my own happiness and fulfillment


When I got me
Because I have discovered the strength and self-sufficiency within myself


When I got me, yeah
When I have myself, I have everything I need




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Josh Ronen, Kelly Briannne Clarkson, Taylor Gayle Rutherfurd

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@kellyclarkson

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@debbiec7116

Well done girl! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻💞💞💞💞

@za3741

Love you Kelly thank you for this masterpiece work of perfection to you , Jason and everyone else involved thank you very much for this beautiful piece much love xx

@slidesubs

❤🥺

@ssongs9008

This is going to be one of the standout albums of 2023!! Kelly is back and Chemistry is the project we've been waiting for, you are a queen and your honesty on this record is awesome. We love you, Chemistry is going to be another Grammy winner for sure ❤️ 👑 🥇

@KristineThomas

Yay! That is my birthday month!

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@kandykiss98

After 28 years of marriage , I feel this song in every fiber of my heart! I took his abuse emotional and physical! I have Multiple Sclerosis an adrenal tumor and possibly lupus ! I have raised his children all these years while he was on the road living another life! Ive been a stay at home mom all these years ! Our baby is autistic and about to graduate high school but I’m done ! I can’t anymore ! I will find a way to get my kids a home for when my time here on earth is done , they will have something NO ONE can take from them ! Thank you Miss Kelly I felt this to my core ! Much love , peace and happiness!

@BarbieDolll1504

God bless you 🙏🏾 stay strong 🫂

@zcsapo2125

I just left my husband after nearly 20 yrs. He was always mentally and emotionally abusive sometimes physically but for some reason I am still very sad 😢. This song gives me hope

@Maillady42

Same! After 30yrs, he was a police officer & slept with multiple CO’s at his jail & then raped one & got away with it! They gave him the option to retire or be fired!🤦‍♀️ Obviously I was done, but I was sick, w/cancer, lungs, liver & kidney failure, but once I got away from this toxic relationship my body healed!🙌🏼
Sometimes we have to look inward to move forward! ❤

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