Can't We Be Friends
Linda Ronstadt Lyrics


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I thought I found the man of my dreams
Now it seems
This is how the story ends
He's going to turn me down
And say "Can't we be friends?"

I thought for once it couldn't go wrong
Not for long
I can see the way this ends
He's going to turn me down
And say "Can't we be friends?"

Never again
Through with love
Through with men
They play their game without shame
And who's to blame?

I thought I found a man I could trust
What a bust
This is how the story ends
He's going to turn me down
And say "Can't we be friends?"

Why should I care
Though he gave me the air?
And why should I cry?
Even sigh
Or wonder why?

I thought for once it couldn't go wrong
Not for long
I can see the way this ends
He's going to turn me down
And say "Can't we be
Can't we be
Can't we be
Can't we be




Can't we be
Can't we be friends?"

Overall Meaning

Linda Ronstadt's "Can't We Be Friends" expresses the disappointment and hurt that comes with unrequited love. The song starts with a hopeful tone, with the singer thinking she has found the man of her dreams. However, the song takes a sad turn when the man decides to reject her and be friends instead. The singer feels let down and wonders why she should care or cry when he asks for friendship instead of a romantic relationship.


The chorus of "Can't We Be Friends" is both wistful and ironic. The singer is still hoping for a romantic relationship with the man, but instead of that, she is left with the consolation of being friends. The chorus repeats the phrase "Can't we be friends?" six times, highlighting the singer's desperation and resignation. The repetition of the phrase also emphasizes the gap between the singer's expectations and reality.


The lyrics of "Can't We Be Friends" are universal, as most people have experienced unrequited love or disappointment in romance. The song's mournful melody and Linda Ronstadt's emotive vocals add to the poignancy of the lyrics, making it a classic torch song.


Line by Line Meaning

I thought I found the man of my dreams
I believed that I had found the man who would fulfill my dream of having a blissful relationship


Now it seems This is how the story ends
Unfortunately, it appears that this relationship is not meant to be and is coming to an end


He's going to turn me down And say 'Can't we be friends?'
He is going to reject me romantically and suggest that we remain friends instead


I thought for once it couldn't go wrong Not for long
I believed that this relationship was destined to succeed, but it did not take too long to realize it might go wrong


I can see the way this ends He's going to turn me down And say 'Can't we be friends?'
It is evident to me now that this relationship is doomed to fail and end with him suggesting a friendship instead


Never again Through with love Through with men
I am through with love and men, as they always play games without any shame, leaving me heartbroken


They play their game without shame And who's to blame?
Men engage in the game of love and leave women hurt, but who is to blame for this pattern of behavior?


I thought I found a man I could trust What a bust
I trusted this man but he turned out to be a disappointment and it feels like a complete failure


Why should I care Though he gave me the air? And why should I cry? Even sigh Or wonder why?
There is no reason for me to care or cry over him ending things and walking away when he was not the man he portrayed himself to be


He's going to turn me down And say 'Can't we be Can't we be Can't we be Can't we be Can't we be Can't we be friends?'
In the end, I know that he will reject me and suggest a friendship, repeating the line over and over again




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Kay Swift, Paul James

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