My Old Flame
Linda Ronstadt Lyrics


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My old flame
I can't even think of his name
But it's funny now and then
How my thoughts go flashing back again
To my old flame

My old flame
My new lovers all seem so tame
For I haven't met a gent
So magnificent or elegant
As my old flame

I've met so many who had fascinating ways
A fascinating gaze in their eyes
Some who took me up to the skies
But their attempts at love
Were only imitations of
My old flame
I can't even think of his name
But I'll never be the same
Until I discover what became
Of my old flame

My old flame
I can't even think of his name
But I'll never be the same




Until I discover what became
Of my old flame

Overall Meaning

In Linda Ronstadt's song "My Old Flame," the singer reminisces about a former lover who still holds a powerful grip on her emotions. The song begins with the singer struggling to recall her old flame's name, a poignant illustration of the ephemeral nature of memory. Despite this lapse, the singer's thoughts frequently return to the old flame, leaving her to wonder about his current whereabouts and state of mind.


As the song unfolds, the singer compares her old flame to her more recent lovers. While she has met many fascinating people, none have been able to match the charisma and charm of her old flame. Her memories of him are so potent that they make her current partners seem "so tame" in comparison. Her old flame is described as "magnificent" and "elegant," a larger-than-life figure who continues to loom large in the singer's psyche.


Ultimately, the song is a rumination on the power of memory and the way that old flames can cast a long shadow over our present lives. The singer is haunted by the idea that she will never fully move on from her old flame until she discovers what became of him. It's a wistful and melancholic meditation on the lingering effects of past relationships, and the way they can shape our present-day experiences.


Line by Line Meaning

My old flame
The person with whom I was once in a passionate romantic relationship


I can't even think of his name
I have forgotten the name of the person who used to be my old flame


But it's funny now and then
It's amusing that my thoughts still occasionally wander back to that time


How my thoughts go flashing back again
My mind frequently recalls memories of my old flame


My new lovers all seem so tame
Compared to my old flame, my new partners seem less exciting and passionate


For I haven't met a gent
I have not encountered a man who is


So magnificent or elegant
As charming, refined, or appealing as my old flame


I've met so many who had fascinating ways
I have encountered many intriguing and alluring suitors


A fascinating gaze in their eyes
They radiate captivating, enticing energy in their eye contact


Some who took me up to the skies
Some gave me intense, euphoric emotional experiences


But their attempts at love
However, they cannot match the depth and intensity of affection and passion with which


Were only imitations of
they tried to emulate my old flame's love for me, but their attempts were only poor replicas of it


But I'll never be the same
My old flame has left me with a profound impact that will never fade away or disappear


Until I discover what became
I will continue to be curious, eager, and hopeful to find out what happened to my old flame


Of my old flame
The person with whom I was once in a passionate romantic relationship




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Written by: SAM COSLOW, ARTHUR JOHNSTON

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