My Own Space
Liza Minnelli Lyrics


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One thing I know
And I've always known
I am my own best friend
Baby's alive
But baby's alone
And baby's her own best friend

Many's the kind
Who told me he cares
But they were scratchin' my back
'Cause I was scratchin' theirs

And trusting too
That's only for fools
I play the game
When I make the rules
And rule number one
From here to the end
Is I am my own best friend

I am my own best friend
Baby's her own best friend
Three musketeers
Who never said die
Are standing here this minute
Me, myself, and I

Life is a school
I'll pass every test
If life is a game
I'll play it the best
'Cause I won't give in




And I'll never bend
And I am my own - best friend

Overall Meaning

In Liza Minnelli's song "My Own Best Friend," the lyrics speak to a strong sense of self-reliance and independence. The opening lines convey a deep understanding that the singer is their own best friend, a sentiment that has been solidified over time. The use of the term "baby" in reference to oneself creates a sense of vulnerability and introspection, suggesting that despite being alive and present, the singer often feels alone, relying on themselves as their own source of comfort and support.


The following lines highlight the singer's realization that many people may claim to care for them, but ultimately their motivations may be self-serving. The idea that others scratched the singer's back only because the singer scratched theirs portrays a transactional nature of relationships, leading the singer to prioritize their own well-being and boundaries. This skepticism towards trust is further emphasized, implying that trust is a risky endeavor reserved for those who may be perceived as naive or foolish.


The declaration that the singer plays the game of life by their own rules reinforces the theme of self-empowerment. By establishing rule number one as being their own best friend, the singer establishes a boundary that asserts their autonomy and self-sufficiency. This sentiment is echoed in the repetition of the affirmation "I am my own best friend," reinforcing a sense of inner strength and resilience in the face of external pressures or expectations.


The final verses of the song celebrate the singer's triumvirate of "Me, myself, and I," likening themselves to the legendary three musketeers who never back down from a challenge. The comparison to these iconic figures underscores the singer's determination to face life's obstacles head-on and emerge victorious. The lyrics suggest that life is a journey of self-discovery and growth, where the singer is determined to excel and remain true to themselves, refusing to compromise their values or principles. The defiant stance of refusing to give in or bend showcases a fierce independence and a steadfast commitment to self-preservation, culminating in the resounding affirmation that the singer is indeed their own best friend, capable of conquering any adversity that comes their way.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: FRED EBB, JOHN KANDER

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