Love & War
Macy Gray Lyrics


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Got my back against the wall now
Problems that I didn't see
We got caught up in tangle
Then you tried to swing on me

How could I justified
Mistreating the love of my life
I ain't too proud to beg for better, baby
That's what I deserve

Tried to be good to you
Even stood there by you
And you ran out on me anyway
I must have been a fool

'Cause all is fair in love and war
So when your fighting someone you love, you better be careful
There no feelings, there's low blows, just in case you didn't know
'Cause in the morning it will be alright, alright, alright

Here comes him again
Streaking in my back door
Bruised heart torn from trampling
From years of my past

I'm painless and I'm angry
No time to catch feeling
I've been done wrong so I'm stone cold
And down to get even

Loves a gamble
And I ain't winning
Torn up from my past
Love don't live here no more

All is fair in love and war
So when your fighting someone you love, you better be careful
There no feelings, there's low blows, just in case you didn't know
'Cause in the morning it will be alright, alright, alright

All is fair in love and war
So when your fighting someone you love, you better be careful
There no feelings, there's low blows, just in case you didn't know
'Cause in the morning it will be alright, alright, alright

All is fair in love and war
All is fair in love and war

So why you wanna hate me?
(All is fair in love and war)
I tried to hurt you 'cause you tried to play me out
So why you so cruel to me?
(All is fair in love and war)
You took my heart and you tried to play me soft?

You took my heart and stoned it
(All is fair in love and war)
I didn't want you take and tried to lead you on
All I was, was good to you
(All is fair in love and war)
I didn't want you take and tried to lead you on

So why you wanna hurt me?
(All is fair in love and war)
I tried to hurt you 'cause you tried to play me out
Why you run around on me?
(All is fair in love and war)
You took my heart and you tried to play it soft

How long can this last?
(All is fair in love and war)
I didn't want you take and tried to lead you on
You took the best of me
(All is fair in love and war)
I took the best of you

ain't too many more days, I'm gonna be treated this way
(In love and war)
And it ain't too many more lies, I'm gonna listen to my baby
(In love and war)

If you listen to me, things will go a little bit better
(In love and war)
Why would I listen to you?
Willing to give you a chance yes I am
(In love and war)





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Overall Meaning

In Macy Gray's song "Love & War", the lyrics describe a situation where the singer and her partner are fighting, and the situation keeps escalating, leading her to become angrier and more determined to "get even." She acknowledges that they have both made mistakes and mistreated each other, but the fight persists. She compares the situation to a war, where there are no rules and anything goes, and she warns her partner that they should be careful about the "low blows" they throw, as they might regret it later. Despite the anger and hurt, there is a sense that things will eventually get better, as the morning always brings new hope.


The lyrics of "Love & War" express a lot of frustration and pain, but also a sense of resilience and determination. The singer is not willing to back down or give up, even in the face of adversity. One interesting aspect of the song is the repeated use of the phrase "all is fair in love and war," which is often used to justify immoral or violent actions. The song turns this idea on its head, suggesting that even though love and war can be brutal and unpredictable, there are still lines that shouldn't be crossed. Another interesting aspect of the song is the way it blends different genres and styles, with elements of R&B, rock, and soul all coming together to create a unique sound.


Line by Line Meaning

Got my back against the wall now
Feeling trapped and surrounded by problems


Problems that I didn't see
Being blindsided by issues or conflicts


We got caught up in tangle
Getting stuck in a complex and difficult situation


Then you tried to swing on me
Encountering hostility or aggression from someone


How could I justified
Questioning one's own actions or behavior


Mistreating the love of my life
Not treating someone you love with the respect and care they deserve


I ain't too proud to beg for better, baby
Admitting that you want something better than your current situation


That's what I deserve
Believing that you deserve to be treated well and with respect


Tried to be good to you
Making an effort to be kind and supportive to someone


Even stood there by you
Offering support and loyalty to someone, even when it's difficult


And you ran out on me anyway
Being abandoned or betrayed by someone you trusted


I must have been a fool
Feeling foolish or naive for trusting someone who let you down


'Cause all is fair in love and war
Acknowledging that, in difficult situations, people may act in ways that are not always kind or fair


So when your fighting someone you love, you better be careful
Recognizing that arguments or conflicts with loved ones can be especially challenging and emotionally charged


There no feelings, there's low blows, just in case you didn't know
Implying that people may resort to hurtful or underhanded tactics during arguments or conflicts


'Cause in the morning it will be alright, alright, alright
Hoping that things will eventually work out, despite present difficulties


Here comes him again
Encountering someone who caused pain or difficulty in the past


Streaking in my back door
Returning unexpectedly or unwelcomed


Bruised heart torn from trampling
Feeling hurt or damaged from past experiences with this person


From years of my past
Implying that the damage was done awhile ago and is still felt today


I'm painless and I'm angry
Feeling numb or detached yet still harboring anger or resentment


No time to catch feeling
Being too overwhelmed or preoccupied to process one's emotions


I've been done wrong so I'm stone cold
Becoming hardened or closed off after being hurt


And down to get even
Feeling motivated to seek revenge or make things right


Loves a gamble
Implying that love involves taking risks and is not always a sure thing


And I ain't winning
Feeling like one has lost a lot in the realm of love and relationships


Torn up from my past
Hurt or damaged from previous experiences that are difficult to forget


Love don't live here no more
Implying that love has died or gone away due to past hurts or difficulties


So why you wanna hate me?
Asking why someone is still holding onto negative feelings or resentment


I tried to hurt you 'cause you tried to play me out
Admitting to trying to get revenge and hurt someone who hurt you


So why you so cruel to me?
Asking why someone is acting cruel or unfair despite what has happened between them


You took my heart and you tried to play me soft?
Feeling like someone took advantage of your love and trust


You took my heart and stoned it
Feeling like someone hurt or damaged your heart or emotions


I didn't want you take and tried to lead you on
Suggesting that you never intended to hurt or deceive someone despite how things turned out


All I was, was good to you
Feeling like you were kind and loving despite ultimately being let down


Why you run around on me?
Asking why someone cheated or betrayed your trust


How long can this last?
Questioning how much pain or difficulty one can continue to endure


You took the best of me
Feeling like someone took everything good and valuable from you


ain't too many more days, I'm gonna be treated this way
Feeling like the situation is becoming intolerable and cannot continue


And it ain't too many more lies, I'm gonna listen to my baby
Implying that one is willing to forgive and move past things if there is honesty and genuine communication


If you listen to me, things will go a little bit better
Hoping that there can be constructive dialogue and compromise to resolve tensions or issues


Why would I listen to you?
Feeling cynical or dismissive of the idea of reconciliation or compromise


Willing to give you a chance yes I am
Hoping that things can work out and that there can be a renewed sense of trust and love




Lyrics ยฉ Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: MARK SPARKS, ANTHONY HAMILTON, RON FEEMSTER, ERICK COOMES, ERIC WALLS

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

LINDA GOINS

ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR?

OR IS IT? JUST BECAUSE WE EXCEPT THINGS AND TRY TO HOLD ON LOOKING/ WANTING THINGS TO GET BETTER ...
AND WHEN CHILDREN ARE INVOLVED IT GETS EVEN TOUGHER TO DEAL WITH .
SO DEPENDENT ON THE LOVE AND PROTECTION OF PARENTS / ADULTS TO KEEP THEM SAFE FROM THINGS IN THIS WORLD.

ITS SAD THAT ITS EASIER TO THROW A CHILD OVERBOARD AND TAKE AWAY ITS CHANCES OF A BETTER LIFE ....THAN AN ADULT , WHO DECIDED LIVING A DESTRUCTIVE LIFE IS OKAY.

WHAT MUST GO ON IN THE MINDS OF THESE INNOCENT CHILDREN ๐Ÿ˜ท THATS SICK AND SHOULD BE SUFFOCATED FROM THIS WORLD



All comments from YouTube:

Kia Henry

I love this song. I love me some Anthony Hamilton and Macy Gray. What a wonderful duet.

Tenoria Madison

Enchanment

MookB 98

This song brings back memories for me. You know how certain songs remind you of certain people you been in love with.

MookB 98

Coming back looking at this comment after years. Love don't live here no more.

King Smoove

Hey boo boo ๐Ÿ‘ป Iโ€™m bout to get back back home safe

MrJduzit

Uhhhh I love this collaboration. A soothing and rasby duet.

Abornewords

You can never get tired of this beautiful song. ย Great collabo.

Dan Vaughn

God Bless The Both OF These Artist I, Love Them Very Much!!!!!๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ

Kelley Wooden-Stanley

It will remind you of certain people, certain places, and situations. Music is really tied to our soulds

Roland Hatch

This song reminds me of all the love I've lost...."ain't too many more days I'm going be treated this way"

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