Macy Gray was originally hesitant to record a studio album due to what is, arguably, her most recognizable feature -- her voice. She started her music career as a songwriter. Her first album was actually a mistake; she was at the studio waiting for the person who was supposed to be singing her song, and the producer wanted to hear what one of the songs was supposed to sound like. Once she started singing, the producer liked the rough sound of her voice so much he offered her a record deal.
Love & War
Macy Gray Lyrics
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Problems that I didn't see
We got caught up in tangle
Then you tried to swing on me
How could I justified
Mistreating the love of my life
I ain't too proud to beg for better, baby
Tried to be good to you
Even stood there by you
And you ran out on me anyway
I must have been a fool
'Cause all is fair in love and war
So when your fighting someone you love, you better be careful
There no feelings, there's low blows, just in case you didn't know
'Cause in the morning it will be alright, alright, alright
Here comes him again
Streaking in my back door
Bruised heart torn from trampling
From years of my past
I'm painless and I'm angry
No time to catch feeling
I've been done wrong so I'm stone cold
And down to get even
Loves a gamble
And I ain't winning
Torn up from my past
Love don't live here no more
All is fair in love and war
So when your fighting someone you love, you better be careful
There no feelings, there's low blows, just in case you didn't know
'Cause in the morning it will be alright, alright, alright
All is fair in love and war
So when your fighting someone you love, you better be careful
There no feelings, there's low blows, just in case you didn't know
'Cause in the morning it will be alright, alright, alright
All is fair in love and war
All is fair in love and war
So why you wanna hate me?
(All is fair in love and war)
I tried to hurt you 'cause you tried to play me out
So why you so cruel to me?
(All is fair in love and war)
You took my heart and you tried to play me soft?
You took my heart and stoned it
(All is fair in love and war)
I didn't want you take and tried to lead you on
All I was, was good to you
(All is fair in love and war)
I didn't want you take and tried to lead you on
So why you wanna hurt me?
(All is fair in love and war)
I tried to hurt you 'cause you tried to play me out
Why you run around on me?
(All is fair in love and war)
You took my heart and you tried to play it soft
How long can this last?
(All is fair in love and war)
I didn't want you take and tried to lead you on
You took the best of me
(All is fair in love and war)
I took the best of you
ain't too many more days, I'm gonna be treated this way
(In love and war)
And it ain't too many more lies, I'm gonna listen to my baby
(In love and war)
If you listen to me, things will go a little bit better
(In love and war)
Why would I listen to you?
Willing to give you a chance yes I am
(In love and war)
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In Macy Gray's song "Love & War", the lyrics describe a situation where the singer and her partner are fighting, and the situation keeps escalating, leading her to become angrier and more determined to "get even." She acknowledges that they have both made mistakes and mistreated each other, but the fight persists. She compares the situation to a war, where there are no rules and anything goes, and she warns her partner that they should be careful about the "low blows" they throw, as they might regret it later. Despite the anger and hurt, there is a sense that things will eventually get better, as the morning always brings new hope.
The lyrics of "Love & War" express a lot of frustration and pain, but also a sense of resilience and determination. The singer is not willing to back down or give up, even in the face of adversity. One interesting aspect of the song is the repeated use of the phrase "all is fair in love and war," which is often used to justify immoral or violent actions. The song turns this idea on its head, suggesting that even though love and war can be brutal and unpredictable, there are still lines that shouldn't be crossed. Another interesting aspect of the song is the way it blends different genres and styles, with elements of R&B, rock, and soul all coming together to create a unique sound.
Line by Line Meaning
Got my back against the wall now
Feeling trapped and surrounded by problems
Problems that I didn't see
Being blindsided by issues or conflicts
We got caught up in tangle
Getting stuck in a complex and difficult situation
Then you tried to swing on me
Encountering hostility or aggression from someone
How could I justified
Questioning one's own actions or behavior
Mistreating the love of my life
Not treating someone you love with the respect and care they deserve
I ain't too proud to beg for better, baby
Admitting that you want something better than your current situation
That's what I deserve
Believing that you deserve to be treated well and with respect
Tried to be good to you
Making an effort to be kind and supportive to someone
Even stood there by you
Offering support and loyalty to someone, even when it's difficult
And you ran out on me anyway
Being abandoned or betrayed by someone you trusted
I must have been a fool
Feeling foolish or naive for trusting someone who let you down
'Cause all is fair in love and war
Acknowledging that, in difficult situations, people may act in ways that are not always kind or fair
So when your fighting someone you love, you better be careful
Recognizing that arguments or conflicts with loved ones can be especially challenging and emotionally charged
There no feelings, there's low blows, just in case you didn't know
Implying that people may resort to hurtful or underhanded tactics during arguments or conflicts
'Cause in the morning it will be alright, alright, alright
Hoping that things will eventually work out, despite present difficulties
Here comes him again
Encountering someone who caused pain or difficulty in the past
Streaking in my back door
Returning unexpectedly or unwelcomed
Bruised heart torn from trampling
Feeling hurt or damaged from past experiences with this person
From years of my past
Implying that the damage was done awhile ago and is still felt today
I'm painless and I'm angry
Feeling numb or detached yet still harboring anger or resentment
No time to catch feeling
Being too overwhelmed or preoccupied to process one's emotions
I've been done wrong so I'm stone cold
Becoming hardened or closed off after being hurt
And down to get even
Feeling motivated to seek revenge or make things right
Loves a gamble
Implying that love involves taking risks and is not always a sure thing
And I ain't winning
Feeling like one has lost a lot in the realm of love and relationships
Torn up from my past
Hurt or damaged from previous experiences that are difficult to forget
Love don't live here no more
Implying that love has died or gone away due to past hurts or difficulties
So why you wanna hate me?
Asking why someone is still holding onto negative feelings or resentment
I tried to hurt you 'cause you tried to play me out
Admitting to trying to get revenge and hurt someone who hurt you
So why you so cruel to me?
Asking why someone is acting cruel or unfair despite what has happened between them
You took my heart and you tried to play me soft?
Feeling like someone took advantage of your love and trust
You took my heart and stoned it
Feeling like someone hurt or damaged your heart or emotions
I didn't want you take and tried to lead you on
Suggesting that you never intended to hurt or deceive someone despite how things turned out
All I was, was good to you
Feeling like you were kind and loving despite ultimately being let down
Why you run around on me?
Asking why someone cheated or betrayed your trust
How long can this last?
Questioning how much pain or difficulty one can continue to endure
You took the best of me
Feeling like someone took everything good and valuable from you
ain't too many more days, I'm gonna be treated this way
Feeling like the situation is becoming intolerable and cannot continue
And it ain't too many more lies, I'm gonna listen to my baby
Implying that one is willing to forgive and move past things if there is honesty and genuine communication
If you listen to me, things will go a little bit better
Hoping that there can be constructive dialogue and compromise to resolve tensions or issues
Why would I listen to you?
Feeling cynical or dismissive of the idea of reconciliation or compromise
Willing to give you a chance yes I am
Hoping that things can work out and that there can be a renewed sense of trust and love
Lyrics ยฉ Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: MARK SPARKS, ANTHONY HAMILTON, RON FEEMSTER, ERICK COOMES, ERIC WALLS
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
LINDA GOINS
ALL IS FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR?
OR IS IT? JUST BECAUSE WE EXCEPT THINGS AND TRY TO HOLD ON LOOKING/ WANTING THINGS TO GET BETTER ...
AND WHEN CHILDREN ARE INVOLVED IT GETS EVEN TOUGHER TO DEAL WITH .
SO DEPENDENT ON THE LOVE AND PROTECTION OF PARENTS / ADULTS TO KEEP THEM SAFE FROM THINGS IN THIS WORLD.
ITS SAD THAT ITS EASIER TO THROW A CHILD OVERBOARD AND TAKE AWAY ITS CHANCES OF A BETTER LIFE ....THAN AN ADULT , WHO DECIDED LIVING A DESTRUCTIVE LIFE IS OKAY.
WHAT MUST GO ON IN THE MINDS OF THESE INNOCENT CHILDREN ๐ท THATS SICK AND SHOULD BE SUFFOCATED FROM THIS WORLD
Kia Henry
I love this song. I love me some Anthony Hamilton and Macy Gray. What a wonderful duet.
Tenoria Madison
Enchanment
MookB 98
This song brings back memories for me. You know how certain songs remind you of certain people you been in love with.
MookB 98
Coming back looking at this comment after years. Love don't live here no more.
King Smoove
Hey boo boo ๐ป Iโm bout to get back back home safe
MrJduzit
Uhhhh I love this collaboration. A soothing and rasby duet.
Abornewords
You can never get tired of this beautiful song. ย Great collabo.
Dan Vaughn
God Bless The Both OF These Artist I, Love Them Very Much!!!!!๐๐ฝ๐๐ฝ๐๐ฝ
Kelley Wooden-Stanley
It will remind you of certain people, certain places, and situations. Music is really tied to our soulds
Roland Hatch
This song reminds me of all the love I've lost...."ain't too many more days I'm going be treated this way"