How Can I Tell You
Madness Lyrics


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Communication is a skill you must acquire,
it will help you through your life, it is essential
You have to walk into this world with your head held high,
be fluid child, don't become crystalline,
you're gonna have to swim with the molecules

How can I tell you, you have to open up your heart
How can I tell you, be honest from the very start
How I feel, make a stand for what is true
Try to be decent in all that you do.
How can I tell you, you've got to give to get support
How can I tell you, a little effort & a lot more thought
How I feel, check the wonder in all that you see
You've got to get loving unconditionally.

You're gonna have to walk that road, you're gonna bear some heavy loads
You'll make mistakes & you'll come close
You're gonna get hurt by the one you love most
You're gonna have to take some pain, accept the loss to live again
Forgive yourself as you'll be free,
there's more to love than just loving you see.

How can I tell you, the laughter on a crowded bus
How can I tell you, making space when you're being crushed
How I feel, a letter I receive from you
A hug & a kiss when you're feeling blue
How can I tell you, the last chocolate in the box
How can I tell you, a pair of mittens & some cotton socks
How I feel, I'll make a fire when you are cold
Don't worry darling I'll love you when you grow old

How can I tell you, 6 candles on your birthday cake
How can I tell you, a Christmas card that I helped you make
How I feel, when you ran in your first race
The time I stuck an ice cream in your face
How can I tell you, the last chocolate in the box
How can I tell you, a pair of mittens & some cotton socks




How I feel, I'll make a fire when you are cold
Don't worry darling I'll love you when you grow old

Overall Meaning

The song How Can I Tell You by Madness is all about communication and the importance of being honest and open in relationships. The lyrics suggest that communication is a skill that is essential in life and can help you through difficult times. The first verse advises the listener to enter the world with their head held high, encouraging them to be flexible rather than rigid, and to swim with the molecules, embracing change and progression.


The chorus repeats the phrase "How can I tell you," which sets the tone of the song as a plea to communicate honestly and openly. The lyrics encourage the listener to be decent in all that they do, and to give support in order to receive it. The second verse explains that mistakes and hardships are a part of life, but it is important to forgive oneself and others in order to move forward. The final verse takes a more personal turn, with the singer suggesting that communication can be expressed through small gestures, memories, and experiences. The message of the song is that communication is essential to healthy relationships and personal growth, and can be achieved through honesty, effort, and unconditional love.


Line by Line Meaning

Communication is a skill you must acquire,
Learning to communicate well is crucial for success and happiness in life.


it will help you through your life, it is essential
Communication is so important that it can make or break your life.


You have to walk into this world with your head held high,
Confidence is key when facing the challenges of life.


be fluid child, don't become crystalline,
Stay open-minded and adaptable so that you can respond to any situation that comes your way.


you're gonna have to swim with the molecules
Life is unpredictable and chaotic, so you need to be able to go with the flow and adapt to changing circumstances.


How can I tell you, you have to open up your heart
Being emotionally vulnerable and open is necessary for forming deep connections with others.


How can I tell you, be honest from the very start
Honesty is the foundation of any healthy relationship or endeavor.


How I feel, make a stand for what is true
Sticking to your beliefs and values is important even when it's difficult or unpopular.


Try to be decent in all that you do.
Treat others with kindness and respect, and strive to do what's right in all situations.


How can I tell you, you've got to give to get support
To get help and support from others, you need to be willing to give of yourself and offer help to others.


How can I tell you, a little effort & a lot more thought
Achieving success and making a positive impact in the world requires not just hard work, but also careful planning and thoughtful decision-making.


How I feel, check the wonder in all that you see
Take time to appreciate the beauty and wonder in the world around you.


You've got to get loving unconditionally.
True love means accepting and supporting someone unconditionally, without expecting anything in return.


You're gonna have to walk that road, you're gonna bear some heavy loads
Life is full of challenges, struggles, and hardships that you will need to face and overcome.


You'll make mistakes & you'll come close
Making mistakes is a natural and unavoidable part of life, but it can also be a valuable learning experience.


You're gonna get hurt by the one you love most
Even those closest to us can sometimes hurt us deeply.


You're gonna have to take some pain, accept the loss to live again
Sometimes we have to experience pain and loss in order to heal and move forward.


Forgive yourself as you'll be free,
Holding onto guilt and shame can prevent you from growing and healing, so it's important to learn to forgive yourself.


there's more to love than just loving you see.
Love is more than just an emotion or feeling, it's a way of being and interacting with the world.


How can I tell you, the laughter on a crowded bus
Joy can be found in the most unexpected places and situations.


How can I tell you, making space when you're being crushed
Sometimes we need to make sacrifices or move out of our comfort zone in order to help or accommodate others.


How I feel, a letter I receive from you
Written words can be powerful tools for expressing emotions and connecting with others.


A hug & a kiss when you're feeling blue
Physical affection and comfort can provide much-needed support during difficult times.


How can I tell you, the last chocolate in the box
Small gestures and simple pleasures can bring great joy and happiness.


How can I tell you, a pair of mittens & some cotton socks
Sometimes the most practical and mundane gifts can be the most thoughtful and meaningful.


How I feel, I'll make a fire when you are cold
Love means taking care of each other and providing comfort and warmth when it's needed most.


Don't worry darling I'll love you when you grow old
True love is steadfast and enduring, lasting through all the ups and downs that life brings.




Lyrics Β© CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC
Written by: CATHAL JOSEPH SMYTH, CHRISTOPHER JOHN FOREMAN, DANIEL MARK WOODGATE, GRAHAM MCPHERSON, LEE JAY THOMPSON, MICHAEL BARSON

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Comments from YouTube:

AdamMcwadam

This is just a lovely song, really lovely.

jedi on board

Classic Madness song,,love it,,,, its april 2020,,,, listening to this wonderful song 7 yrs later,, at the madness year EVER !!!. love the lyrics.

arugiflizab

Madness is and always will be pure class

georgethebear1812

Inspirational Gold, try to be decent in all that you do!

Christine Martindale

Love it! Love it! Love it!

WHUFC71

Dang I love this song!!! Madness at their best....Nutty Boys...They never go out of style.Watch them on their itunes video...Bloody brilliant.

Neol Davies

Not only one of their best but one of the best tunes by anyone. Just fantastic.

Adele Wiles

Loving the new album, this song is my favourite closely followed by Misery.

Louise Marshall

Maddeness is my favrioute band love it !

Dean Jones

Great band great song

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