Love Him I Don’t
Maisie Peters Lyrics


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Ooh-ooh-ooh
Ooh-ooh
Ooh-ooh-ooh
Ooh-ooh
Ooh-ooh-ooh
Ooh-ooh
Ooh-ooh-ooh
I could see a bloodbath coming
Playing checkers as the flat was flooding
I wasn't eating and you still said nothing
Better should've known, should've known better
But I dug my heels in
Got really good at underwater breathing
Guess that was my stubborn season
Better should've known, should've known better

Baby, it's sad, you're bad in the bones
So I just went home

Now it's coming up roses
Kicking up snow
What a long winter
What a bad joke
Shady when we held hands
Everyone else can have him, but I won't

Love him, I don't
Love him, I won't
Love him, I did for a minute
But I'm finished 'cause I've learnt
Loving him hurts
Loving him don't work
So love him, I don't

Met you through my favorite cousin
Lighting cigarettes off an oven
Fell for you and got a bad concussion
Should've better known, should've known better
What a state, what a waste of your twenties
Couple lies, couple times, that's plenty

Oh, you're bad in the bones so I'm just going home
Don't text me

Now it's coming up roses
Kicking up snow
What a long winter
What a bad joke
Shady when we held hands
Everyone else can have him, but I won't

Love him, I don't
Love him, I won't
Love him, I did for a minute
But I'm finished 'cause I've learnt
Loving him hurts
Loving him don't work
So love him, I don't

Oh, love him, I don't
Love him, I won't
Love him, I did for a minute
But I'm finished 'cause I've learnt
Loving him hurts
Loving him don't work
So love him, I don't

Baby, it's sad, you're bad in the bones
So I just went home

Now it's coming up roses
Kicking up snow
What a long winter
What a bad joke
Shady when we held hands
Everyone else can love ya, but I won't

Loving you hurts
And I loved you first
It didn't work out, and I wanted it to work
Loved you I swear




Loving you is not fair
So love you, I don't

Overall Meaning

In the song "Love Him I Don't" by Maisie Peters, the lyrics convey a sense of regret and realization after a failed relationship. The repetition of the opening lines, "Ooh-ooh-ooh" and "Ooh-ooh," creates an atmosphere of contemplation and introspection.


The first verse describes the singer's awareness of an impending disaster in their relationship. They metaphorically compare it to playing a game of checkers while their home is flooding. Despite the signs of trouble, the other person remains silent and does not address the issue. The singer acknowledges that they should have known better, but they stubbornly persisted in the relationship, becoming adept at enduring difficult situations.


The chorus signifies a shift in perspective. The singer acknowledges that their feelings towards the person they were once in love with have changed. They describe them as "bad in the bones," suggesting that they have negative qualities or a questionable character. The singer decides to distance themselves and "just went home." The lines "Now it's coming up roses, kicking up snow" symbolize a fresh start and a new season in their life after enduring a long and difficult winter. They assert that others can have the person they used to love, but they themselves have chosen not to.


In the second verse, the lyrics reveal that the initial encounter with the person was through a mutual cousin. The singer reminisces about falling for them but also experiencing a metaphorical "bad concussion," indicating that the relationship was emotionally harmful. The singer reflects on wasting their twenties in such a state and acknowledges that they should have known better.


The chorus is repeated, emphasizing the singer's resolve and determination not to love this person anymore. The lines "Loving you hurts, and I loved you first" reveal the pain and disappointment the singer feels, indicating that despite their initial love, the relationship did not work out. They confess that it is not fair to themselves to continue loving someone who has caused them pain and decides that they don't love the person anymore.


Overall, "Love Him I Don't" explores themes of regret, growth, and self-preservation. The lyrics highlight the importance of recognizing toxic relationships, learning from past mistakes, and choosing to prioritize one's own well-being.


Line by Line Meaning

I could see a bloodbath coming
I could sense a disastrous and chaotic situation approaching


Playing checkers as the flat was flooding
Engaging in a trivial activity while the situation was worsening


I wasn't eating and you still said nothing
Despite my obvious struggle, you remained indifferent and silent


Better should've known, should've known better
I should have had more wisdom and foresight about the situation


But I dug my heels in
I stubbornly resisted and persisted


Got really good at underwater breathing
I adapted and became skilled in surviving in difficult circumstances


Guess that was my stubborn season
That phase of my life was defined by my unwavering determination


Baby, it's sad, you're bad in the bones
Darling, it's unfortunate that you have a fundamentally flawed nature


So I just went home
Therefore, I chose to leave and return to where I felt safe


Now it's coming up roses
Now things are turning out positively


Kicking up snow
Creating a flurry of excitement and adventure


What a long winter
What an extended period of hardship and emotional coldness


What a bad joke
What a cruel and unpleasant trick or circumstance


Shady when we held hands
Dishonest and deceitful when we were in a close relationship


Everyone else can have him, but I won't
Others may choose to be with him, but I refuse to do so


Love him, I don't
I don't harbor any affection towards him


Love him, I won't
I am determined not to love him


Love him, I did for a minute
I did love him briefly at some point


But I'm finished 'cause I've learnt
But I have now ended it because I have gained understanding


Loving him hurts
Having feelings for him causes emotional pain


Loving him don't work
Being in love with him does not result in a successful relationship


So love him, I don't
Therefore, I don't love him


Met you through my favorite cousin
I first encountered you due to my close relationship with my beloved cousin


Lighting cigarettes off an oven
Engaging in risky behavior, using unconventional methods


Fell for you and got a bad concussion
I fell deeply in love with you and experienced a metaphorical injury or harm


Should've better known, should've known better
I should have had more wisdom and awareness about the situation


What a state, what a waste of your twenties
What a sad situation, what a squandering of your youthful years


Couple lies, couple times, that's plenty
A few instances of deception were more than enough


Oh, you're bad in the bones so I'm just going home
Oh, you have a fundamentally flawed nature, which is why I am choosing to leave


Don't text me
Please refrain from sending me any messages


Loving you hurts
Having feelings for you causes emotional pain


And I loved you first
I was the one who fell in love with you initially


It didn't work out, and I wanted it to work
Our relationship was not successful, despite my strong desire for it to be


Loved you I swear
I truly loved you, I promise


Loving you is not fair
It is unfair to myself to continue loving you


So love you, I don't
Therefore, I don't love you




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: Joe Rubel, Jonathan Ian Green, Maisie Hannah Peters

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Comments from YouTube:

Ashley Bakers

This is so beautiful. It hits me in so many ways specially the chorus part "It's comming up roses, kicking up snow. What a bad winter, what a bad joke."

Ballet Swiftie

That’s my favorite part too!

Analía Camelo

long* winter

Aaliyah Patel

Omg wow! Ok Maisie is officially the queen of sad, floaty, breakup songs that get you majorly In your feels. Like if you close your eyes it feels like you’re in a movie- aahhh how does some write lyrics this good?! I’m obsessed it’s unhealthy- saved all your songs to my playlist cause I can’t pick a fave! And that’s unusual- you’re have a unique talent Maisie but are so underrated! Xxxx

StrangeAttractor

I'm 41, I can't necessarily relate to the experiences in Maisie's songs but that doesn't matter when the songwriting is this good. The rhyme schemes and clever use of colloquialisms even put me in mind of greats like Cole Porter...

Isabella

I know what you mean sometimes I brush my teeth while listening to her and I really do imagine myself as the main character in a movie :D I mean what is that talent How do you do it Maisie

Isabella

I’m making my mark on this song as a proof I was there from the start when she’ll get even more famous 🥺

Adam A-K

Same

Ballet Swiftie

Same!

Alison

“better should’ve known, should’ve known better”
ahh, this song is sooooooo good !!!

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