Girl
Matchbox Twenty Lyrics


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Well you would think this life would make me bolder
But I'm running scared is all
Well I hang on everything about you
You think I'd settle down 'cause I'm older
But I roll with the changes is all
Well I'm same old trailer trash in new shoes

She gets sad when there's nothing going on
She says it makes her feel damn worthless

Well you got to think with a girl like that
Any love at all, is better than nothing
It's better than nothing

I put my hands around your shoulder
You're saying you're scared is all
I think I know too much about you
You think this life would make me colder
I'd give in to the alcohol
I put my loving arms around you, child

You knew damn well there was nothing going on
Is that what makes you feel damn worthless

Well you got to think with a girl like that
Any love at all is better than nothing
It's better than nothing
You got to think, with a girl like that
Any love at all, is better than nothing
It's better than nothing

Yeah well she drags you down and she pulls you up
She pulls you up
Says that she's sorry now but it's not enough
To pull you up
She's sorry

I wake up quick just like I want to
Yeah but I stay out much too late
You think this life can get a bit unkind but she stays
Down till the worth is gone
And pulls you up, she pulls you up,
She pulls you up and over, over

You got to think with a girl like that
Any love at all is better than nothing
It's better than nothing
You got to think, with a girl like that
Any love at all, is better than nothing
It's better than nothing
Well you got to think with a girl like that
Well you got to think with a girl like that




You got to think with a girl like that
Well, thank her.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Matchbox Twenty's song "Girl Like That" describe a tumultuous relationship between two people. The singer is running scared and hanging onto everything about the girl, despite the fact that she gets sad when there's nothing going on and feels damn worthless. The chorus asserts that any love at all is better than nothing, suggesting that the singer is willing to settle for less than he deserves because of his intense feelings for this girl.


The second verse reveals that the singer knows too much about the girl and worries that this knowledge will make him colder towards her. He contemplates giving in to alcohol but instead puts his loving arms around her. The bridge describes the girl as someone who drags the singer down but also pulls him up, apologizing for her actions but sometimes falling short. The final verse suggests that the singer enjoys partying but the girl stays down until the worth is gone before pulling him up and over. The song ends by repeating the chorus and thanking the girl.


Overall, the lyrics of "Girl Like That" depict a toxic and co-dependent relationship. Despite the girl's negative impact on the singer's life, he is unable to let go and values any amount of love, no matter how small or unhealthy, over nothing.


Line by Line Meaning

Well you would think this life would make me bolder
Despite the life experiences that I've gone through, I still find myself too scared to take risks.


But I'm running scared is all
My fear is causing me to avoid taking the necessary steps forward in life.


Well I hang on everything about you
I am emotionally dependent on you in every way imaginable.


You think I'd settle down 'cause I'm older
You may assume that because of my age, I would be ready to settle down, but that is not the case.


But I roll with the changes is all
Regardless of the changes happening around me, I find myself adapting to them.


Well I'm same old trailer trash in new shoes
Despite trying to mask it, I am still the same person I've always been, regardless of any superficial changes.


She gets sad when there's nothing going on
Her own thoughts and feelings make her feel dejected when there isn't enough stimulation.


She says it makes her feel damn worthless
Her self-worth is heavily tied to external factors, rather than her own inherent value as a person.


Well you got to think with a girl like that
When dealing with a person who struggles with emotional turbulence, any form of affection is far better than nothing at all.


Any love at all, is better than nothing
Even expressions of love that are flawed in some way are still valuable, because they demonstrate a desire to connect with the other person.


I put my hands around your shoulder
I try to comfort you the best I can.


You're saying you're scared is all
Your own fears are making it hard for you to find peace.


I think I know too much about you
My familiarity with you makes it hard for me to look past your flaws.


You think this life would make me colder
You might expect me to become more jaded and callous over time, but I still try to maintain my warmth.


I'd give in to the alcohol
If I let myself succumb to addiction, life would become even more difficult for me.


I put my loving arms around you, child
I try to embrace you with a genuine love and caring.


You knew damn well there was nothing going on
You were well aware that there was nothing happening to justify your sadness.


Is that what makes you feel damn worthless
The realization that your negative emotions are unfounded can be a heavy burden to bear.


Yeah well she drags you down and she pulls you up
Though she can be a negative influence, she is also capable of lifting you back up.


Says that she's sorry now but it's not enough
She may express remorse for her actions, but ultimately it cannot erase the consequences of her behavior.


To pull you up
Despite the times where she lets you down, she is still a source of support in your life.


I wake up quick just like I want to
I try to be proactive in my approach to life.


Yeah but I stay out much too late
Though I strive to be responsible, I still struggle with excess and impulsiveness.


You think this life can get a bit unkind but she stays
Though life can be tough, she remains steadfast and persistent.


Down till the worth is gone
She perseveres even when it becomes difficult and draining to do so.


She's sorry
She may not always act in the best way, but she does regret causing harm.


You got to think with a girl like that
When dealing with an individual prone to emotional volatility, it's important to approach situations with a great deal of empathy and patience.


Well, thank her.
Despite her flaws and negative tendencies, she still deserves recognition and appreciation for what she contributes to your life.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: ROB THOMAS

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Lyrics

I kn-kn-know a girl
She gets what she wants all the time
'Cause she's fine
But for an angel, she's a hot, hot mess
Make you so blind
But you don't mind

'Cause she's an uptown, get-around, anything-goes girl
She's a hardcore, candy-store, give-me-some-more girl

She'll make you take her to the club, but then she leaves with her friends
She likes to stay late at the party cause the fun never ends
And all her clothes are on the floor, and all your records are scratched
She's like a one-way ticket cause you can't come back

Sayin' yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)
Yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)

You kn-kn-know that if you don't shut your mouth
She'll freak out
You better get your shit together
'Cause she's bringing you down, now
Yeah, boy, you better, you better

'Cause she's an uptown, get-around, anything-goes girl, girl
She's a hardcore, candy-store, give-me-some-more girl, girl

She's got a wicked sense of humor, can't believe what she says
She drinks Bacardi in the morning till it goes to her head
And all you want is just to hold her, but she don't go for that
She has a hard time coming when she can't hit back

Sayin' yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)
Yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)

Every now and then she makes you just a little bit crazy
She'll turn the knife into your back and then she's calling you 'baby'
Crazy

She'll make you take her to the club, but then she leaves with her friends
She likes to stay late at the party cause the fun never ends
And all her clothes are on the floor, and all your records are scratched
She's like a one-way ticket cause you can't come back

Sayin' yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)
Yeah, and you want her
But she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)
Yeah, and you want her
Yeah, you want her
Yeah, I know how you want her, but she's so mean
(You'll never let her go, why don't you let her go?)



All comments from YouTube:

@johnflynn4932

Rob Thomas is one of the most underrated vocalist in music. Be it solo or MB20 his vocals are 🔥🔥🔥

@chancock4222

I once heard a voice coach say Rob Thomas doesn't actually sing his lyrics, he bites them. It sounds like an insult but she was a huge fan of him. She says he is effortless in his style and no one can do what he does quite the way he does it. She said she tried it and was out of breath by the end of the song. She was like, "you just can't breathe doing it how he does it."

@ivanzinn6391

He's up there with our lady peace and eve 6

@amandahenry9207

Just seen him tonight in ohio... 🔥. Gonna have a hard time getting to bed. 😂 got rained on too

@amandahenry9207

​@C Hancock just seen him tonight and he killed it, so she lieddddd

@chancock4222

@@amandahenry9207 If he killed it I'd say she was spot on.

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@Vzla-bg6pd

Matchbox 20 will forever be a LEGENDARY band. Their songs have always saved me from bad days. Thank you guys. Really. Greetings from Venezuela!

@alfredaramouni5884

wow do venezuela still have intenet ??


(it is a joke pls don't kill me :p )

@Vzla-bg6pd

Hey Alfred! I won't hahaha it's a sad reality. I am in Mexico now but home will be Venezuela in my heart.

@amandadixon905

This song rocks

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