Casualty
Missy Higgins Lyrics


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Give me my dream and give me a scene
Where you have a past of which you are clean
Oh, give me a lie
Tell me you fell 'cause of my grace and not to help you erase her face
And oh, make it your best lie
'Cause I'm holding up a crystal glass dove in my hands and if it does
Fall, if you do fall, it's my fault
So I don't want to be with one more casualty
'Cause all you're gonna give me is pain
And I'm not gonna be with one more casualty
'Cause all you see's a human bandage

Tell me I'd find you're happy inside and if I end this you'll be fine
Oh, tell me a lie

Just look at me and say honestly that I'm all you want, not what you need
And oh, make it your best lie, love
'Cause I'm holding up a crystal glass dove in my hands
And if it does fall, if it does fall it's my fault

So I don't want to be with one more casualty
'Cause all you're givin' me is pain
And I'm not gonna be with one more casualty
'Cause all you see's a human bandage

And I've been playing games
And now I've change my ways
The character I always played
Helped me to forget my name
But now I know,
So get out of my way!

'Cause I'm not gonna be one more casualty
It's been too long since I looked after me...
I'm not gonna be with one more casualty
'Cause all you're givin' me is pain
And I'm not gonna be with one more casualty
'Cause all you see's a human bandage
I'm not gonna be with one more casualty
'Cause all you're givin' me is pain
And I'm not gonna be with one more casualty




'Cause all you seem to give me is your pain
I'm not gonna be, no...

Overall Meaning

In "Casualty," Missy Higgins sings about the pain of being in a toxic relationship and the desire to break free from the cycle. She is looking for honesty from her partner, who she believes is not genuine with her. She wants them to confess that they are not over their past and are using her as a casual rebound. Missy does not want to be a casualty of love any longer and is tired of being used as a human bandage to heal her partner's wounds. She wants to put an end to the games they play and take control of her life.


The crystal glass dove in her hands represents her delicate heart and her vulnerability. She fears that her partner's lies and emotional baggage might shatter her heart like the glass dove. Missy realizes that she needs to prioritize her own emotional well-being and not sacrifice herself in a relationship that only causes her pain. She has played the role of a character for too long, and now she wants to be true to herself and find someone who loves and respects her.


Overall, "Casualty" is a powerful song about self-love, healing, and resilience. Missy Higgins' heartfelt vocal delivery and the meaningful lyrics make it a relatable anthem for anyone who has been in an unhealthy relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

Give me my dream and give me a scene
I want to have the perfect scenario in my mind to live out.


Where you have a past of which you are clean
I want you to have a spotless history.


Oh, give me a lie
I want you to tell me something that isn't true.


Tell me you fell 'cause of my grace and not to help you erase her face
Tell me that you fell for me and not just to forget your past love.


And oh, make it your best lie
If you're going to lie, make it believable.


'Cause I'm holding up a crystal glass dove in my hands and if it does Fall, if you do fall, it's my fault
I'm taking a risk by trusting you, so if you let me down it will be devastating.


So I don't want to be with one more casualty
I don't want to be with someone who will ultimately hurt me again.


'Cause all you're gonna give me is pain
You haven't changed, and you will only bring me heartache.


And I'm not gonna be with one more casualty
I refuse to be with another person who will harm me.


'Cause all you see's a human bandage
You only view me as a temporary solution to your problems.


Tell me I'd find you're happy inside and if I end this you'll be fine
Tell me that you'll still be okay if I leave you.


Just look at me and say honestly that I'm all you want, not what you need
Assure me that I am your true desire, and not just a necessity.


And I've been playing games
I admit that I've been playing foolish games with love.


And now I've change my ways
I'm different now, and I won't tolerate being treated poorly anymore.


The character I always played helped me to forget my name
My previous personas have made me forget who I really am.


But now I know, so get out of my way!
I'm no longer going to let you or anyone else hold me down.


It's been too long since I looked after me...
I've neglected my own well-being for far too long.


'Cause all you seem to give me is your pain
You only bring me your own emotional baggage.


I'm not gonna be, no...
I refuse to accept this treatment anymore.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: MELISSA HIGGINS, KEVIN GRIFFIN

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Comments from YouTube:

@ilkelaoh

it´s always great to hear Missy sing with this jazzy edge in her voice

@allansmith9482

Missy, would like to hear more jazz music from you; you are so good at it.

@harmony8811

Absolutely brilliant song
Love this strong woman 😚

@dinaredmon3361

Why are you not all over every media known to mankind? You are incredibly talented! Why must we put up with fake barbie dolls that can't sing when You are here???

@chinogringo08

Love! Love! Love!  Missy is the best!

@shelparks988

Sorry I'm late! This is amazing... Imagine a concert of MISSY HIGGINS & FIONA APPLE... Just saying.

@johnussss

Wow!

@kaylene2508

Geez, that drummer looks familiar #TheWhitlams

@waitingisfun

thank you