It Comes to Me Naturally
N.R.B.Q. Lyrics


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I don't mean to be crude
I don't mean to come across as rude
I don't mean to be crass
So if I have offended you feel free to kiss my foot

I don't mean to be unkind
I don't mean to always speak my mind
I don't mean to be cruel
To be the guy who's always breaking every rule

I don't mean to take the blame
But time and time again it happens all the same
This is not how I intended to be
I guess it just comes naturally

I don't mean to be blunt
I don't mean to offend or affront
I don't mean to ignore
Every time you come a knocking at my door

I don't mean to make you cry
I don't mean to make you wonder why
I don't mean to walk away
Every single time you have something to say

I don't mean to lose the game
But time and time again it happens all the same




This is not how I intended to be
I guess it just comes naturally

Overall Meaning

"It Comes to Me Naturally" by N.R.B.Q. seems to be a song about self-awareness and the struggle to control one's natural tendencies. The lyrics acknowledge the singer's tendency to come across as crude, rude, unkind, cruel, and blunt, despite not intending to be so. The singer recognizes that they often offend and hurt others, but they also seem to imply that this behavior is innate, as it "just comes naturally." They apologize for the consequences of their actions but don't take full responsibility, stating that they didn't mean for things to turn out this way.


The song touches upon the conflict between personal expression and the consequences it can have on relationships. The singer is torn between their desire to speak their mind and break rules, and the recognition that these actions often cause harm. They struggle with the balance between being true to themselves and considering the feelings of others. Ultimately, the song suggests that the innate nature of the singer prevents them from fully controlling their behavior and the impact it has on those around them.


Overall, "It Comes to Me Naturally" dives into the complexities of human nature, acknowledging the flaws and unintended consequences that can arise from our innate tendencies.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't mean to be crude
I don't intend to be vulgar or disrespectful


I don't mean to come across as rude
I don't intend to appear impolite or offensive


I don't mean to be crass
I don't intend to be vulgar or tasteless


So if I have offended you feel free to kiss my foot
If I have hurt your feelings, you can express your anger or resentment towards me


I don't mean to be unkind
I don't intend to be lacking kindness or compassion


I don't mean to always speak my mind
I don't intend to constantly voice my opinions or thoughts without filter


I don't mean to be cruel
I don't intend to be deliberately harsh or mean


To be the guy who's always breaking every rule
To be the person who consistently disregards or defies established norms or regulations


I don't mean to take the blame
I don't intend to be held responsible for the outcome or consequences


But time and time again it happens all the same
However, repeatedly, the same outcome occurs


This is not how I intended to be
This is not the way I planned or wanted to be


I guess it just comes naturally
I suppose it is inherent to my nature or personality


I don't mean to be blunt
I don't intend to be direct or straightforward to the point of being insensitive


I don't mean to offend or affront
I don't intend to cause displeasure or insult


I don't mean to ignore
I don't intend to disregard or pay no attention to


Every time you come a knocking at my door
Whenever you seek my attention or want to communicate with me


I don't mean to make you cry
I don't intend to cause you to shed tears


I don't mean to make you wonder why
I don't intend to make you question or be uncertain about something


I don't mean to walk away
I don't intend to leave without explanation or abruptly


Every single time you have something to say
Every instance when you want to express your thoughts or opinions


I don't mean to lose the game
I don't intend to be defeated or unsuccessful in a competition or situation


But time and time again it happens all the same
However, repeatedly, the same outcome occurs


This is not how I intended to be
This is not the way I planned or wanted to be


I guess it just comes naturally
I suppose it is inherent to my nature or personality




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Written by: Robert Calvert

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Comments from YouTube:

Scott Gray

I can't help but love this song....naturally. What a treasure to have lived the late 70's early 80's of these awesome musician/songwriter/storytellers, all around full of wonder and endless fun. Best band live, hands down...

George Giatzis

My band had the pleasure & honor of warming up "The Q" on St. Patrick's Day 1991 in Poughkeepsie, NY. They were great and incredibly friendly (especially Tommy) and invite me into their dressing room to drink their beer and eat their pizza!

G Lap

I'll never forgot Big Al belting out this song at U Mass in the early 1980s. Great memories.

Dave Dzwilewski

and i was there

BlueGrassFan

ahhhhh, memories from the early 80s.    Good times.   Thanks for everything, NRBQ.

Keith Vermes

What a great song.

Dian Wilson

So what if I'm dancing around by myself on a Monday night...I can't quit it!

flea sweep

A great album, and album cover.

Kathleen Brandli

An NRBQ favorite!!

Kathleen Brandli

No.  Sorry!

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