Cold and Intimate
Nitin Sawhney Lyrics


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You see me walk
You see me fall
You touch the tears upon my face
I taste your words
I smell you fear
I feel your bitter sweet embrace
Nothing mentioned, nothing gained
You're here and then your gone
Your complications keep me sane
We're cold and intimate
I watch the news
I hear your words
I smell the lies beneath your smile
You hesitate, you deviate
From pictures filled with silence
Nothing mentioned, nothing gained

We're here and then we're gone
A simple world appears insane
But we're cold and intimate
We search within
We search without
We touch the corners of our minds
We play our lives
Deceive our friends
We taste the fruit of our own lies
Pointless ventures
Endless games
We were never here at all




Nothing in this world could change
Are we cold and intimate

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Nitin Sawhney's song Cold and Intimate are a reflection on the complexities and contradictions of human relationships. The song describes a situation in which two people are emotionally close, yet distant at the same time. The first verse describes the physical closeness between the two people, with the singer describing how his partner touches his tears and embraces him in a way that is both bitter and sweet. Yet in the next lines, he acknowledges that "nothing mentioned, nothing gained," suggesting that there is a lack of communication between them that prevents them from truly understanding each other.


The second verse suggests that the singer is aware of his partner's duplicity, describing how he "smells the lies beneath [her] smile." He also acknowledges that they both deceive themselves and others, playing a game in which they taste the fruit of their own lies. The lines "pointless ventures, endless games" suggest a sense of futility and desperation in their relationship, as they both struggle to find meaning and purpose.


The chorus of the song asks a question that is not fully answered: "Are we cold and intimate?" The contradiction between these two words captures the paradox of their relationship, which is both emotionally remote and physically close. Ultimately, the song presents a picture of human relationships that is complex, contradictory, and ultimately elusive.


Line by Line Meaning

You see me walk
You observe me moving on with my life


You see me fall
You witness my failures and setbacks


You touch the tears upon my face
You comfort me in my moments of sadness and tears


I taste your words
I deeply comprehend your expressions and thoughts


I smell your fear
I perceive your vulnerability and apprehension


I feel your bitter sweet embrace
I sense your love but also the complications that it brings


Nothing mentioned, nothing gained
Unless we speak up, there is nothing to be achieved or obtained


You're here and then your gone
You come and go, leaving me uncertain and unsure


Your complications keep me sane
Your difficulties and complexities are what make me feel normal


We're cold and intimate
Our relationship has a detached closeness that is hard to define


I watch the news
I keep up with current events


I hear your words
I listen to what you have to say


I smell the lies beneath your smile
I perceive the falsehoods in your smiles and friendly expressions


You hesitate, you deviate
You ponder and wander from the traditional paths of life


From pictures filled with silence
From images that convey no meaning or message


Nothing mentioned, nothing gained
Without any communication, nothing can be achieved or gained


We're here and then we're gone
We arrive and depart leaving behind an impermanent existence


A simple world appears insane
The trivialities of life appear overwhelming and crazed


But we're cold and intimate
Our connection is a cool, comfortable aloofness that is alluring


We search within
We try to understand our own thoughts and feelings


We search without
We explore the world and seek out new experiences


We touch the corners of our minds
We explore the deeper, uncharted reaches of our consciousness


We play our lives
We live our lives as if it is a game or an act


Deceive our friends
We are not always truthful with our acquaintances and loved ones


We taste the fruit of our own lies
We experience the consequences of our own deceitful actions


Pointless ventures
Journeys or undertakings that have no purpose or aim


Endless games
Actions or events that repeat themselves with no resolution in sight


We were never here at all
Our existence is transient and ultimately inconsequential


Nothing in this world could change
The state of the world or our own lives cannot be changed by anyone or anything


Are we cold and intimate
Is our relationship distant and detached, yet still strong?




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: NITIN SAWHNEY

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Comments from YouTube:

@miloslavpopov3926

Masterpiece.

@ajmetz82

Thanks for having this up here. I remember checking this out circa 2002. This and The Pilgrim, =).

@MichelleTorez

Clever song

@karstjohanson9784

Is it real. We dont know. Seems fake to me. Writer hates internet. This sounds good but timing sucks. Not real to me.