Ex-Girlfriend )
No Doubt Lyrics


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I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend
I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend

I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend
I hope I hold a special place with the rest of them
And you know it makes me sick to be on that list
But I should have thought of that before we kissed
You say you're gonna burn before you mellow
I will be the one to burn you
Why'd you have to go and pick me?
When you that we were different, completely

I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend
I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend
I hope I hold a special place with the rest of them
I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend

I'm another ex-girlfriend on your list
But I should have thought of that before we kissed

Your wildness scares me
So does your freedom
You say you can't stand the restrictions
I find myself trying to change you
If you were meant to be my lover I wouldn't have to

And I feel so mean, I feel in between
'Cause I'm about to give you away

I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend
(for someone else to take)
I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend
(am I making a mistake?)
I hope I hold a special place with the rest of them
(all the time that we spent)
I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girl, friend

I'm another ex-girlfriend on your list
But I should have thought of that before we kissed
I'm another ex-girlfriend on your list
But I should have thought of that before we kissed

I'm about to give you away for someone else to take
I'm about to give you away for someone else to take

We keep repeating mistakes for souvenirs
And we've been in between the days for years
And I know that when I see you I'm going to die
I know I'm going to want you and you know why
It's going to kill me to see you with the next girl
'Cause I'm the most gorgeously jealous kind of ex-girl

But I should have thought of that before we kissed

I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend
I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend
I hope I hold a special place with the rest of them
I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend

I'm another ex-girlfriend on your list
But I should have thought of that before we kissed




I'm another ex-girlfriend on your list
But I should have thought of that before we kissed

Overall Meaning

In "Ex-Girlfriend," No Doubt lead singer Gwen Stefani reflects on the demise of a relationship she knew was doomed from the start. From the very beginning, she believed that she would eventually become just another ex-girlfriend, and she laments her painful place amongst the rest of them. Stefani openly admits to feeling conflicted about the breakup, acknowledging that she should have thought about the repercussions of kissing her partner before diving headfirst into the doomed relationship.


The song delves into the complicated emotions that come with heartbreak and the realization that the person you once loved is moving on to someone new. Stefani describes the jealousy and pain she feels when imagining her ex with another woman, even though she knows their relationship was doomed from the start. She acknowledges her own faults in the relationship, particularly her desire to change her partner in order to fit her expectations of what love should be. Ultimately, the song is a reflection on the difficulty of moving on from a past relationship, even when you know it's for the best.


Line by Line Meaning

I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend
I had a feeling that we wouldn't last and I would become another one of your exes


I hope I hold a special place with the rest of them
I hope my time with you was memorable and significant enough to stand out among your other exes


And you know it makes me sick to be on that list
I feel upset and embarrassed to be just another one of the names on your list of exes


But I should have thought of that before we kissed
I regret not considering the possible consequences before we became romantically involved


You say you're gonna burn before you mellow
You anticipate causing problems and arguments before getting comfortable in a relationship


I will be the one to burn you
I will be the one hurt and disappointed in the end


Why'd you have to go and pick me?
Why did you choose me as a partner when we were so different?


When you that we were different, completely
When you knew we were complete opposites and incompatible


Your wildness scares me, So does your freedom
I'm intimidated by your impulsive behavior and your desire for independence


You say you can't stand the restrictions, I find myself trying to change you
You claim to dislike limitations, but I keep attempting to mold you into the person I want you to be


If you were meant to be my lover I wouldn't have to
If you were truly meant to be with me, I wouldn't have to work so hard to change you


And I feel so mean, I feel in between, 'Cause I'm about to give you away
I feel guilty and unsure because I am about to end the relationship and let someone else have you


We keep repeating mistakes for souvenirs, And we've been in between the days for years
We keep making the same mistakes and staying in the same uncertain state for years, as if they are just memorable keepsakes


And I know that when I see you I'm going to die, I know I'm going to want you and you know why
I am going to be filled with regret and longing when I see you, knowing that I still have feelings for you


It's going to kill me to see you with the next girl, 'Cause I'm the most gorgeously jealous kind of ex-girl
I will be devastated to see you with another girl because I am the type of ex who gets insanely jealous and upset


I'm about to give you away for someone else to take
I am about to end this relationship and allow someone else to become your partner


I'm another ex-girlfriend on your list
I am just another name on your long list of ex-girlfriends


Am I making a mistake?
I am uncertain if ending our relationship is the right thing to do


All the time that we spent
I cherish the time we spent together, despite our differences


But I should have thought of that before we kissed
I regret not considering the possible consequences before we became romantically involved




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ANDREENA MILLER, CASEY ZACHARIAH BOGIN

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@popnikki573

I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend
I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend
I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend
I hope I hold a special place with the rest of them
And you know it makes me sick to be on that list
But I should have thought of that before we kissed

You say you're gonna burn before you mellow
I will be the one to burn you
Why'd you have to go and pick me?
When you knew that we were different, completely

I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend
I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend
I hope I hold a special place with the rest of them
I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend

I'm another ex-girlfriend on your list
But I should have thought of that before we kissed

Your wildness scares me
So does your freedom
You say you can't stand the restrictions
I find myself trying to change you
If you were meant to be my lover I wouldn't have to

And I feel so mean, I feel in between
'Cause I'm about to give you away

I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend (for someone else to take)
I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend (am I making a mistake?)
I hope I hold a special place with the rest of them (all the time that we wasted)
I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girl, friend

I'm another ex-girlfriend on your list
But I should have thought of that before we kissed
I'm another ex-girlfriend on your list
But I should have thought of that before we kissed

I'm about to give you away for someone else to take
I'm about to give you away for someone else to take

We keep repeating mistakes for souvenirs
And we've been in between the days for years
And I know that when I see you I'm going to die
I know I'm going to want you and you know why
It's going to kill me to see you with the next girl
'Cause I'm the most gorgeously jealous kind of ex-girl

But I should have thought of that before we kissed...

I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend
I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend
I hope I hold a special place with the rest of them
I kinda always knew I'd end up your ex-girlfriend

I'm another ex-girlfriend on your list
But I should have thought of that before we kissed
I'm another ex-girlfriend on your list
But I should have thought of that before we kissed



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@fhxs

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