Try a Little Tenderness
Otis Redding Lyrics


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Oh, she may be weary
Them young girls they do get weary
Wearing that same old shaggy dress, yeah-yeah
But when she gets weary
Try a little tenderness, yeah-yeah
(Oh my, not)

You know she's waiting
Just anticipating
For things that she'll never, never, never, never possess, yeah-yeah
But while she's there waiting, and without them
Try a little tenderness
(That's all you gotta do)

It's not just sentimental, no, no, no
She has her grief and care, yeah, yeah, yeah
But the soft words, they are spoke so gentle, yeah

It makes it easier
Easier to bear, yeah

You won't regret it, no, no
Some girls, they don't forget it
Love is their own happiness, yeah

But it's all so easy
All you gotta do is try, try a little tenderness, yeah
All you gotta do is, man
Hold her where you want her
Squeeze her, don't tease her
Never leave her, get to her, try, try
Just try a little tenderness, yeah-yeah-yeah
You got to rub her gentle, man
Don't got, don't bruise her, no, no
You got to love her, tease her, don't squeeze her
Got to try, now, now, now
Try, try a little tenderness, yeah
Watch her groove, you got to know what to do, man
Take this advice

Overall Meaning

"Try a Little Tenderness" is an R&B soul song first recorded by Bing Crosby in 1932. Otis Redding, the King of Southern soul music, recorded a more famous version in 1966, which became a classic of the genre. The song is a call for men to treat women with care and compassion, especially when they are feeling down. The lyrics encourage men to try a little tenderness with their partners, which can make a significant difference in improving their relationship.


The song's opening lines set the tone for its central message. When a woman is weary from the struggles of life, she needs tenderness, compassion, and understanding. Young girls, in particular, are vulnerable to exhaustion from the daily struggles of life, and tenderness can offer them the love, affection, and care they need. The chorus of the song repeats the central message that tenderness is what a woman seeks and deserves to make her life more comfortable, more relaxed, and more content.


The lyrics of "Try a Little Tenderness" emphasize the importance of treating women with respect, kindness, and compassion. The song's message was revolutionary in the 1960s, during the Civil Rights Movement when women's rights were also gaining momentum. Otis Redding's soulful performance brought the song to life, making it an anthem for love, tenderness, and empathy. The song's popularity has withstood the test of time, with several artists recording different versions over the decades, making it a classic of soul music.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh she may be weary
The woman may be tired and worn out


Them young girls they do get wearied
Young women can also get tired


Wearing that same old shaggy dress, yeah, yeah
Being stuck in a routine can add to that fatigue


But when she gets weary
But when the woman in question is tired


Try a little tenderness, yeah, yeah
Try showing a bit of care and love to her


You know she's waiting
You know she's anticipating something


Just anticipating
She's eagerly looking forward to something


The thing that you'll never, never, never, never possess, yeah, yeah
She's looking for something she knows you can never provide for her


But while she's there waiting
But while she's waiting for that unobtainable thing


Without them try a little tenderness
Try offering her a little love and affection instead


That's all you got to do
It's a simple solution


It's not just sentimental no, no, no
It's not mere sentimentality or romanticism


She has her grief and care, yeah, yeah, yeah
She has her troubles and worries as well


But the soft words they are spoke so gentle, yeah
But gentle, loving words can make things easier for her


It makes it easier, easier to bear, yeah
It can make her troubles easier to bear


You won't regret it no, no
You won't regret showing her love and compassion


Young girls they don't forget it
Young women remember when someone shows them love


Love is their whole happiness, yeah, yeah, yeah
Love is what makes them happy


But it's all so easy
But it's such an easy thing to do


All you got to do is try
All you have to do is put forth a little effort


Try a little tenderness
Try showing her a little love and care


Yeah


All you got to do is, man, hold her when you wanna
Just hold her when you feel like it


Squeeze her, don't tease her, never leave her
Embrace her, don't play games or abandon her


Get to her, got, got, got to try a little tenderness, yeah, yeah
Make a connection with her by showing love and affection


You got to know how to love her, man
You need to understand what it takes to love her


Don't be surprised, man
Don't act surprised when your efforts pay off


You got to squeeze her, don't tease her, never leave
Embrace her, don't play games or disappear from her life


You got to hold her, brother, something, man
You need to hold her close and show her love


Try a little tenderness, yeah, yeah, yeah
Try showing her a little love and care


You got to grab her gently, man
You need to gently show her affection


Don't bruise her, no, no
Don't hurt her or cause her pain


You got to love her, tease her, don't squeeze her
Show her love and affection, but don't be overbearing or controlling


You got to try, na na na na na
You need to make an effort


Try, try a little tenderness, yeah
Try showing her a little love and care


Watch her groove
Watch her move and enjoy life


You got to know what to do, man
You need to know how to show her love and affection


Take this advice
Take this guidance


You gotta love, squeeze, don't tease
Show her love by embracing her and not playing games




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Written by: Jimmy Campbell, Reg Connelly, Harry M. Woods

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@emanuellerodrigues2595

Oh, she may be weary
Young girls they do get weary
Wearing that same old shaggy dress, yeah yeah
But when she gets weary
Try a little tenderness, yeah yeah

You know she's waiting
Just anticipating
For things that she'll never, never, never, never possess, yeah yeah
But while she's there waiting, without them
Try a little tenderness (that's all you gotta do)

It's not just sentimental, no, no, no
She has her grief and care, yeah yeah yeah
But the soft words, they are spoke so gentle, yeah
It makes it easier, easier to bear, yeah

You won't regret it, no, no
Some girls they don't forget it
Love is their only happiness, yeah
But it's all so easy
All you gotta do is try, try a little tenderness, yeah
All you gotta do is, man, hold her where you want her

Squeeze her, don't tease her, never leave her
Get to her, try, try
Just try a little tenderness, ooh yeah yeah yeah
You got to know how to love her, man, you'll be surprised, man
You've got to squeeze her, don't tease her, never leave
You've got to hold her and rub her softly
Try a little tenderness, ooh yeah yeah yeah
You've got to rub her gentle man, all you gotta do, no no
You've got to love her, squeeze her, don't tease her
Gotta try nah nah nah, try
Try a little tenderness, yeah, watch her groove
You've gotta to know what to do, man
Take this advice



All comments from YouTube:

@earnestinehamilton9760

I'm 71 year old, I was bless to hear this song ๐Ÿ’•

@annahelena3277

what a legend ๐Ÿ™

@robertheintze9413

Imagine all of the music this legend could have written, had he not died so young (at only 26)?

@newengland66

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@earnestinehamilton9760

So true, love me some Otis Redding, still love it 2024๐Ÿ’•

@mrs.i.one12

Only the good die young!

@mamiemagee4939

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@drumscovertercermundista8246

For me, that man could have been singing rock or metal without problems, his version of this song in London towards the end his screams sound half metal.

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@gabrielledarwin1158

This song breathes life back into people.

@stroescurazvan

Agreed! ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿป

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