Oxford Girl
Oysterband Lyrics


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I met a man whose brother said he knew a man who knew the Oxford girl
Is it true what you hear, did he do it out of fear?
Was the day drawing near when a child would start to show?
Was it rage or shame or damage to his name?
Was it something worse, does anybody know?

Did she pay a price for making them look twice?
Like a glimpse of paradise across a dull and bitter land?
Did she pass them by, did she dare to meet their eye?
Did she scorn them all and did they understand?

A grief to her father -did she really leave him?
a lover to her brother -yes we all believe him
temptation to her betters -no better than she should be
unfaithful to her lover -he always new she would be

She says: I never had a chance to prove them wrong
My time was short, the story long
No I never had a chance to prove them wrong
It's always them that write the song

Did he go to ground, was the suitcase ever found?
Did the police come swarming round on a trail already cold?
Did he lead them a dance, did he run away to France?
Or did he shop himself before the day was old?

O she was bound to loose if she set her face to choose
They never could excuse her for stirring up their fears
She was much to young, the earth has stopped her tongue
You can hear the voices calling down the years

She says: I never had a chance to prove them wrong
My time was short, the story long
No I never had a chance to prove them wrong
It's always them that write the song





I met a man whose brother said he new a man who knew the Oxford girl

Overall Meaning

The song Oxford Girl by Oysterband speaks about the rumored scandal around an Oxford girl. The song starts with the singer talking about how he met a man who claimed to know a man who knew the Oxford girl. The lyrics question whether the rumors surrounding the girl are true. Did she get pregnant? Was it due to fear or anger? Was it due to her being disloyal or her reputation being smeared? There are many questions that arise regarding what really happened to the Oxford girl.


The song delves into the judgments and accusations made against the Oxford girl. She is portrayed as someone who was being judged and looked down upon by the society. The singer questions whether the Oxford girl was judged because she was caught in the act of doing something that was forbidden, putting her family's reputation at risk. This is evident in the line "A grief to her father -did she really leave him? A lover to her brother -yes we all believe him. Temptation to her betters -no better than she should be unfaithful to her lover -he always knew she would be."


The song reveals how the society was quick to criticize her actions and passed judgments on her without knowing the true story. The Oxford girl was not given a chance to prove her innocence or state her truth, and in the end, she was silenced. The song's melancholic tune and poetic lyrics build a sense of sadness and tragedy, as the story of the Oxford girl remains incomplete.


Line by Line Meaning

I met a man whose brother said he knew a man who knew the Oxford girl
I heard a story about the Oxford girl from a very distant source


Is it true what you hear, did he do it out of fear?
Was the rumor true, did he commit the act out of fear?


Was the day drawing near when a child would start to show?
Was the timing right for her to have a child?


Was it rage or shame or damage to his name?
What motivated him to commit the act? Was it pride or embarrassment?


Was it something worse, does anybody know?
Was it a more serious issue, and did anyone ever find out what it was?


Did she pay a price for making them look twice?
Did she face consequences for attracting attention?


Like a glimpse of paradise across a dull and bitter land?
Did she appear as a symbol of hope within a hopeless world?


Did she pass them by, did she dare to meet their eye?
Did she try to face the consequences of her actions?


Did she scorn them all and did they understand?
Did she reject their judgment, and did they eventually accept her?


A grief to her father -did she really leave him?
Was her presumed departure a source of great pain for her father?


a lover to her brother -yes we all believe him
Her brother believed that she had a romantic relationship before the incident occurred


temptation to her betters -no better than she should be
She was condemned for attracting people deemed of higher social standing


unfaithful to her lover -he always knew she would be
Her lover was aware of her presumed infidelity


She says: I never had a chance to prove them wrong
She never had a chance to challenge the accusations against her


My time was short, the story long
Her life was short-lived, but the story of her actions persisted


No I never had a chance to prove them wrong
She felt helpless in the face of judgment


It's always them that write the song
Others will always shape the narrative, even if it's not accurate


Did he go to ground, was the suitcase ever found?
Was the culprit ever caught or did he go into hiding? Was there any evidence found?


Did the police come swarming round on a trail already cold?
Did the investigation start too late, after crucial evidence was lost?


Did he lead them a dance, did he run away to France?
Did he try to mislead authorities or escape to another country?


Or did he shop himself before the day was old?
Did he turn himself in before it was too late?


O she was bound to lose if she set her face to choose
If she made a decision, it was inevitable that she would face negative consequences


They never could excuse her for stirring up their fears
Her actions made people feel uncomfortable, and they refused to forgive her for it


She was much too young, the earth has stopped her tongue
Her youth robbed her of the opportunity to defend herself, and she is now deceased


You can hear the voices calling down the years
Her legacy continues to be remembered and debated over time




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: IAN TELFER, JOHN JONES

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