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Passenger Lyrics


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I turn my back on you
And as I try to, I hurt for you
I keep degrading you
And it's a feeling of healing

You are on your knees
I feel so pleased
How should I reply?
When all you say is why

I open up for you
And as I try to, I picture you




I keep degrading me
And it's a feeling of healing

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to "For You" by Passenger (Anders Fridén) are both complex and intriguing. The song appears to be about a dysfunctional and possibly abusive relationship, with one partner turning their back on the other and causing pain. The singer of the song also talks about degrading themselves and their partner, possibly as a way of dealing with their own emotional pain.


The line "And it's a feeling of healing" is particularly interesting, as it suggests that the singer may be using their behavior as a coping mechanism. They may feel that by acting out and treating their partner poorly, they are somehow releasing their own pain or trauma. However, this is clearly a problematic approach to dealing with emotions, as hurting others is never a healthy way to heal oneself.


The song's chorus is particularly disturbing, as the singer says that they feel "pleased" to see their partner on their knees. This suggests a power dynamic in which the singer enjoys seeing their partner in a vulnerable position. The repeated line "How should I reply? When all you say is why" also underscores the lack of communication and understanding in the relationship. The two partners appear to be speaking different emotional languages, unable to connect with each other on a deep level.


Overall, "For You" is a complex and emotional song that explores the painful dynamics of a dysfunctional relationship. The lyrics suggest that the singer may be using damaging coping mechanisms to deal with their own pain, while also enjoying a power dynamic with their partner. Through its haunting melody and intense lyrics, the song captures the complicated emotions that often come with love and heartbreak.


Line by Line Meaning

I turn my back on you
I walk away from our relationship


And as I try to, I hurt for you
Despite my efforts to move on, I still feel pain and sadness for what we had


I keep degrading you
I continue to belittle and criticize you, even though it's not fair or kind


And it's a feeling of healing
Although it hurts you, it makes me feel better to put you down


You are on your knees
You are begging for my forgiveness or pleading with me to stay


I feel so pleased
I enjoy having the power and control over you


How should I reply?
I don't know how to respond to your feelings or demands


When all you say is why
You keep asking me why things ended or why I'm treating you this way


I open up for you
I try to reveal my true feelings and vulnerability to you


And as I try to, I picture you
As I attempt to be honest, I imagine how you might react or feel


I keep degrading me
I am self-critical and hard on myself, even though I know I'm hurting you


And it's a feeling of healing
Although it's painful, putting myself down makes me feel better in some ways




Lyrics © Peermusic Publishing, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Universal Music Publishing Group, THIRD SIDE MUSIC INC.
Written by: MICHAEL DAVID ROSENBERG, ANDREW PHILLIPS

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Sarah Roger

our toi

For you dear, lose my tongue to talk
Pour toi ma chérie, je perdrais ma langue
Dear, no whispers in the dark
Chérie, pas de murmures dans le noir
Dear, for you I would
Chérie, pour toi je le ferai

And if you, dear
Et si tu, chérie
Found my words were unclear
Trouvais que mes mots n"étaient pas clairs
And my voice, you can't hear
Et que ma voix, tu n'entends pas
For you I would, 
Pour toi je pourrais,
Write you a poem
Écrire un poème
Just to let you know
Juste pour que tu saches
I would write you a poem, my love
Je t'écrirai un poème mon Amour

For you dear, lose my legs to walk
Pour toi, je perdrais mes jambes
Dear, no footprints in the chalk
Chérie, pas de trace dans la craie
Dear, for you I would
Chérie, pour toi je le ferai

And it's true, dear
Et c'est vrai, chérie
If your demons are near
Si tes démons sont proches
And you're drowning in tears
Et si tu te noies dans tes larmes
For you I would, 
Pour toi je pourrais,
Build you a boat
Construire un bateau
Just to keep you afloat
Juste pour te garder à flot
Yeah, I would build you a boat, my love
Ouais, je te construirai un bateau, mon amour



All comments from YouTube:

Marcia Baptista Da Silva

Não me canso de ouvir...💕

Sandra Fiedler

One of the most beautiful songs ever... Great sound and lyrics. Who would not whish to have somebody like such a man/woman?

Matheus Rios

There are some songs that are sung to be listened with the soul, not with the ears. That is one of them!

Kim Duckworth

I love this group also.

jack757

Victor Solu snap tupe

Haley Norris

this is our future wedding song it means so much to me and my love. listened to it the first time he came to my house while sitting there holding each other as we still do. it gives us the best feeling with memories flowing back. no matter how long we get seperated in different towns we will do everything we can to see each other and we will wait. its the best feeling in the world.

Jonny Colwill

Haley Norris aw that's lovely!!

Santosh Bhandari

This song is so poetic and beautiful 🥰🤩
My favourite artist ♥️

Mary 12-18

I agree so much with you...🙂

Sergio Belmonte

Chari, hoy celebramos 5 meses juntos. En esos 5 meses ha habido millones de sonrisas, millones de te quieros, millones de besos y abrazos. He sido muy feliz contigo Chari, realmente feliz, porque de verdad pienso que tú eres alguien realmente especial. Tienes que serlo, nunca antes con dos palabras me había hecho sonreír, nunca antes nadie me había apoyado tanto, ni me había hecho sentir esto. Nunca pensé que llegaría a escribir estos textos, quiero decir, quien iba a pensar que una persona tan genial como tú se iba a enamorar de mí. Han sido los 5 mejores meses de mi vida, y dejo constancia de esto con este comentario, pero confió en que van a ser muchísimos meses más, eso espero. Chari, te quiero.

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