Mistress
Paul McCartney Lyrics


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She Said
Come In My Dear,
You're Looking Tired Tonight.
Your Bath Is Drawn, Let Me Loosen Your Tie
And Fix You Your Usual Drink.

He Settles Back,
Takes A Magazine,
Kicks Off His Shoes, As He Studies The Form
Of Every Appealing Soubrette.
But Where Are The Flowers That He Used To Bring?
Every Endearing Remark
Reminds Her Of Passionarte Promises,
That He Only Made In The Dark.

In Her Bed,
She Wants To Shout At The Back Of His Head
Look At Me, Look At Me, Look At Me I'm Afraid
See What It's Come To,
I'm Just Your Mistress And Maid.

The Wine Is Warm
But The Dinner Is Cold.
The Look In His Eye Tells Her It Won't Be Long
'Till The Girls On The Page Come To Life.
And They'll Get The Flowers That He Used To Bring
With Every Endearing Remark,
And All Of The Passionate Promises
He'll Never Fulfil In The Dark.

In Their Bed,
She Wants To Shout At The Back Of His Head
Look At Me, Look At Me, Now That I'm Not Afraid.
See What It's Come To,
I'm Not Your Mistress And Maid.





See What It's Come To,
I'm Not Your Mistress And Maid.

Overall Meaning

The song "Mistress and Maid" by Paul McCartney is a melancholic reflection on the decaying relationship between two people. The verses depict a scene of a man coming home tired, settling back with a magazine, and drinking his usual drink while his partner, who is referred to as a mistress and maid, draws him a bath and serves him dinner. The man seems disinterested in his partner and is more focused on the Soubrettes in his magazine. The woman feels neglected and forgotten, reminiscing on the days when her partner used to bring her flowers and make passionate promises. However, those promises remained unfulfilled, and she is now just his mistress and maid.


The chorus attests to her suppressed frustration and disappointment with her partner as she wants to shout at him to look at her but instead reiterates how she is just his mistress and maid. The second verse is similar to the first as the man's focus remains on the magazine and the woman's on their decaying relationship. Although the dinner is cold, the wine is warm, and the man seems to be enjoying himself with the girls in the magazine, the woman knows that he will never fulfill the promises he made to her in the dark. The song's final chorus mirrors the first chorus, emphasizing the woman's realization that she is not his mistress and maid, and the relationship's deterioration is inevitable.


Overall, "Mistress and Maid" is a poignant song about the difficulties of maintaining a relationship and how promises can remain unfulfilled, leading to disappointment and the eventual end of a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

She Said
His mistress invites him in.


Come In My Dear,
His mistress welcomes him inside.


You're Looking Tired Tonight.
His mistress notices his exhaustion.


Your Bath Is Drawn, Let Me Loosen Your Tie
His mistress prepares a bath and offers to help him relax.


And Fix You Your Usual Drink.
His mistress makes him his favorite drink.


He Settles Back,
He relaxes in his mistress's company.


Takes A Magazine,
He occupies himself with the magazine she gave him.


Kicks Off His Shoes, As He Studies The Form
He gets comfortable as he admires the women in the magazine.


Of Every Appealing Soubrette.
He is drawn to the alluring actresses in the magazine.


But Where Are The Flowers That He Used To Bring?
His mistress misses the romantic gestures he used to make.


Every Endearing Remark
His mistress recalls his sweet words.


Reminds Her Of Passionarte Promises,
His mistress remembers the passionate promises he made.


That He Only Made In The Dark.
His mistress realizes that those promises were only made in private.


In Her Bed,
His mistress thinks to herself in bed.


She Wants To Shout At The Back Of His Head
His mistress wishes he would pay attention to her.


Look At Me, Look At Me, Look At Me I'm Afraid
His mistress is afraid he doesn't love her anymore.


See What It's Come To,
His mistress realizes what their relationship has become.


I'm Just Your Mistress And Maid.
His mistress feels like nothing more than his servant.


The Wine Is Warm
The wine has been sitting out for too long.


But The Dinner Is Cold.
The meal his mistress prepared is no longer warm.


The Look In His Eye Tells Her It Won't Be Long
His mistress senses that he wants to leave soon.


'Till The Girls On The Page Come To Life.
He becomes so caught up in the magazine that he forgets his surroundings.


And They'll Get The Flowers That He Used To Bring
He will give the actresses in the magazine attention yet neglect his mistress.


With Every Endearing Remark,
He will compliment the actresses yet not show affection toward his mistress.


And All Of The Passionate Promises
He will continue to make false promises to his mistress.


He'll Never Fulfil In The Dark.
He won't keep his promises to his mistress in private.


In Their Bed,
His mistress thinks to herself in bed again.


She Wants To Shout At The Back Of His Head
His mistress wishes he would love her again.


Look At Me, Look At Me, Now That I'm Not Afraid.
His mistress is no longer afraid to confront him and wants him to see her.


See What It's Come To,
His mistress realizes the crux of their relationship.


I'm Not Your Mistress And Maid.
His mistress no longer wants to be treated as his servant.


See What It's Come To,
The repetition of this line emphasizes his mistress's realization.


I'm Not Your Mistress And Maid.
His mistress doesn't want to be just a servant in his life anymore.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: ELVIS COSTELLO, PAUL MCCARTNEY

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