Uncle Joe
Red House Painters Lyrics


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Where have all the people gone in my life
I'm looking at the ceiling with
An awful feeling of loss and of loneliness
The after late night television pain

I'm running out of strength
I'm running, running, running out of strength
And it feels so wonderful to swim in our fears
And divide inseparable, the awakening of life

Oh, Uncle Joe
Could you tell me about what you know?
Of being having mental problems
And their solutions too

I'll give anything a try once
I'll try anything three times
I don't care, I don't care
I don't care, I don't care

But there's no company
That can stand to be with me
So my dependency on you grows
And I am not very well read

And consider I will lose my heart
And can you spare me of my pain?
Can't you spare me of my tears?

Oh, Uncle Joe, Uncle Joe
Uncle Joe, Uncle Joe

And suicide's intentional when I spin in your fear
I am over-influenced by movies
And you should've gone to the fear
To my hope, the darkest hope

Did you know? Lies become the sky
That's all gone to the fear




To my hope, the darkest hope
Do you know? Lies become the sky

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Red House Painters’ “Uncle Joe” are cryptic, but they appear to be a conversation between the singer and his Uncle Joe, who may be a therapist of some sort. The singer seems to be struggling with feelings of loneliness and loss, as evidenced by the opening lines: “Where have all the people gone in my life / I'm looking at the ceiling with / An awful feeling of loss and of loneliness.” Late-night TV seems to exacerbate these feelings, as the singer refers to “the after late night television pain.”


The singer is running out of strength and asks Uncle Joe for help with his “mental problems.” He’s willing to try anything, even if he doesn’t care about the outcome: “I'll give anything a try once / I'll try anything three times / I don't care, I don't care / I don't care, I don't care.” But he has no company, and his dependence on his uncle seems to be growing. He’s not well-read, and he fears losing his heart, his hope, and living with unbearable pain and tears.


The song appears to deal with themes of depression, suicide, fear, and hopelessness. However, it’s also possible that the lyrics are more abstract and don’t reflect the singers’ exact situation or feelings. Nevertheless, Uncle Joe seems to be the one character who can uplift the singer’s spirits, providing him with guidance, reassurance, and knowledge that he can’t find elsewhere.


Line by Line Meaning

Where have all the people gone in my life
I am feeling lonely and noticing that many people I used to know have disappeared from my life.


I'm looking at the ceiling with
I am feeling empty and disconnected.


An awful feeling of loss and of loneliness
I am experiencing intense feelings of grief and isolation.


The after late night television pain
The pain I am feeling is a result of watching late night TV and being reminded of my loneliness.


I'm running out of strength
I am feeling exhausted and unable to cope.


I'm running, running, running out of strength
I am desperately trying to find the energy to keep going but am struggling.


And it feels so wonderful to swim in our fears
There is a strange comfort in allowing ourselves to feel afraid.


And divide inseparable, the awakening of life
We are caught between two opposing forces that cannot be separated – life and death, joy and sorrow.


Oh, Uncle Joe
The artist is addressing Uncle Joe, seeking advice and guidance.


Could you tell me about what you know?
The artist is asking Uncle Joe to share his wisdom and experience.


Of being having mental problems
The singer is acknowledging that they are struggling with mental health issues.


And their solutions too
The artist is hoping that Uncle Joe can offer some solutions or guidance to help them cope.


I'll give anything a try once
The singer is willing to try any solution that Uncle Joe might suggest.


I'll try anything three times
The singer is willing to give any solution multiple attempts before giving up on it.


I don't care, I don't care
The singer is expressing a sense of hopelessness and lack of concern.


But there's no company
The artist is feeling alone and isolated.


That can stand to be with me
The artist feels that their mental health issues make them difficult to be around.


So my dependency on you grows
The singer is becoming increasingly reliant on Uncle Joe for emotional support.


And I am not very well read
The singer is acknowledging that they lack knowledge or education on how to cope with their mental health issues.


And consider I will lose my heart
The artist is afraid that they will lose hope or their ability to feel happy.


And can you spare me of my pain?
The artist is asking Uncle Joe if he can help them avoid or lessen their emotional pain.


Can't you spare me of my tears?
The artist is pleading with Uncle Joe to help them avoid crying or feeling emotional distress.


And suicide's intentional when I spin in your fear
The singer is acknowledging that suicidal thoughts are a result of feeling overwhelmed by fear and uncertainty.


I am over-influenced by movies
The artist is admitting to being influenced or affected by movies or other forms of media.


And you should've gone to the fear
The singer is suggesting that Uncle Joe should have faced his own fears and mental health issues.


To my hope, the darkest hope
The singer is holding on to the possibility that things will get better, even though it feels unlikely.


Did you know? Lies become the sky
The singer is suggesting that it can be hard to discern truth from falsehood, and that reality may be distorted.


That's all gone to the fear
The artist is acknowledging that their fears have colored their perception of reality.


To my hope, the darkest hope
The artist is holding onto hope, even in difficult and uncertain times.


Do you know? Lies become the sky
The singer is repeating the earlier line, emphasizing the idea that reality can be blurred or distorted.




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Mark Edward Kozelek

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