The People That You Never Get to Love
Rupert Holmes Lyrics


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You're browsing through a second hand bookstore
And you see her in non-fiction V through why
She looks up from World War II
And then you catch her, catching, you catching her eye

And you quickly turn away your wishful stare
And take a sudden interest in your shoes
If you only had the courage but you don't
She turns and leaves and you both lose

And you think about
The people that you never get to love
It's not as if you even have the chance
So many worth a second life
But rarely do you get a second glance
Until fate cuts in on your dance

And you'll see her on a train that you've just missed
At a bus stop where your bus will never stop
Or in a passing Buick
When you've been pulled over by a traffic cop

Or you'll share an elevator, just you two
And you'll rise in total silence to the floor
Like the fool you are, you get off
And she leaves your life behind a closing door

And you think about
The people that you never get to love
The poem you intended to begin
The saddest words that anyone has ever said are
'Lord, what might have been'
But no one said you get to win

Still you're never gonna miss what you don't know
And you don't know who you'll meet at half past three
It could be a total stranger
Who looks something just exactly much like me

One of the people that you never get to love




One of the people that you never get to love
The people that you never get to love

Overall Meaning

The song "The People That You Never Get to Love" by Rupert Holmes is a poignant ballad about missed opportunities and the regret that follows. The lyrics describe a seemingly chance encounter at a second-hand bookstore where the singer sees a woman browsing through non-fiction books. As he tries to catch her eye, he becomes self-conscious and looks away. Sadly, the two never get to engage in conversation or even share a moment, and the singer laments the missed opportunity. He goes on to describe how these missed connections happen in life, stating that you might see someone you're attracted to on a train you just missed, at a bus stop where your bus will never stop, or in a car that you have been pulled over by a traffic cop. The song ends with the singer acknowledging that while it is easy to regret what might have been, it is important to remember that you never miss what you don't know.


Through this song, Holmes touches on the universal human experience of missed connections and lost opportunities that many people can relate to. The song captures the sadness and wistfulness that comes with missed opportunities, as well as the longing that lingers even long after the moment has passed. While the singer expresses regret that he never got to talk to the woman in the bookstore, he also acknowledges that there are countless other opportunities he has yet to experience in life. It's a reminder to cherish the moments we have and to take risks when opportunities arise.


Line by Line Meaning

You're browsing through a second hand bookstore
You are casually looking through used books in a store


And you see her in non-fiction V through why
You notice a woman browsing through the non-fiction section of the books, from the alphabetical range of V through Y


She looks up from World War II
She takes a break from reading a book about World War II and looks around


And then you catch her, catching, you catching her eye
She notices you looking at her, and you both make eye contact for a brief moment


And you quickly turn away your wishful stare
You try to hide the fact that you were staring at her by looking away quickly


And take a sudden interest in your shoes
You pretend to suddenly find your shoes interesting to avoid looking back at her


If you only had the courage but you don't
You wish you had the bravery to approach her, but you lack the confidence


She turns and leaves and you both lose
She walks away, and you miss the opportunity to meet her, causing both of you to miss out


And you think about
You reflect on


The people that you never get to love
The individuals you never had the chance to fall in love with


It's not as if you even have the chance
You never had the opportunity to pursue them


So many worth a second life
There are many people who are worthy of a chance to love again


But rarely do you get a second glance
However, these individuals often do not notice or consider you in the same way


Until fate cuts in on your dance
Until a chance encounter which seems serendipitous


And you'll see her on a train that you've just missed
You might catch a glimpse of her on a train you have just missed


At a bus stop where your bus will never stop
You could also see her at a bus stop where your bus doesn't halt


Or in a passing Buick
You might see her pass by in a nearby car


When you've been pulled over by a traffic cop
Even while being pulled over by a police officer, she could be in sight


Or you'll share an elevator, just you two
You might find yourself alone in an elevator with her


And you'll rise in total silence to the floor
Both of you silently rise to your destination floor


Like the fool you are, you get off
You make the foolish choice of getting off the elevator before her, even if it's not your floor, thus losing the chance to talk to her


And she leaves your life behind a closing door
She walks away from you, and the opportunity to know her, as the elevator door closes


The poem you intended to begin
The creative work you envisioned starting, but never did


But no one said you get to win
There is no guarantee that you will succeed or achieve your goals


Still you're never gonna miss what you don't know
You cannot miss opportunities you never had or were unaware of


And you don't know who you'll meet at half past three
You never know who you might encounter unexpectedly


It could be a total stranger
The person you might meet could be someone you don't know or have never met before


Who looks something just exactly much like me
Or it could be someone who happens to have similar physical features and maybe even personality traits as you


The people that you never get to love
Those who you never had the chance to fall in love with


One of the people that you never get to love
Specifically, one of those people you missed the chance to love


One of the people that you never get to love
Again underscored the idea that there are many people that you might never get the chance to love




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: RUPERT HOLMES

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