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Put your sweet lips a little closer to the phone.
Let's pretend that we're together, all alone.
I'll tell the man to turn the jukebox way down low,
And you can tell your friend there with you he'll have to go.

Whisper to me, tell me do you love me true,
Or is he holding you the way I do?
Tho' love is blind, make up your mind, I've got to know,
Should I hang up, or will you tell him he'll have to go?

You can't say the words I want to hear
While you're with another man,
If you want me, answer "yes" or "no,"
Darling, I will understand.

Put your sweet lips a little closer to the phone.
Let's pretend that we're together, all alone.




I'll tell the man to turn the jukebox way down low,
And you can tell your friend there with you he'll have to go.

Overall Meaning

Ry Cooder's "He'll Have to Go" is a song that reveals the complexity of love and the painful process of making difficult decisions. The song starts with a request to put the sweet lips closer to the phone and pretend to be together, all alone. The singer then tells the man to turn the jukebox way down low, indicating a desire for privacy. However, there is someone with the person being called, and the singer asks to tell the friend they will have to go.


The song communicates the dilemma of someone caught in a love triangle. The singer asks if the person loves them truly or whether the person being called is being held like the way they hold the significant other. The singer acknowledges that love is blind, but they still want to make up their mind, they need the assurance to hang or continue. The difficult decision is to either hang up, or the person being called must tell the friend that he has to go because the singer cannot take it anymore.


The lyrics evoke a sense of yearning, sadness, and hopefulness. It's a song that's easy for someone to relate to, particularly when faced with a painful decision. Love is never simple, and the lyrics present the reality of unavoidable difficult choices.


Line by Line Meaning

Put your sweet lips a little closer to the phone.
Come closer to the phone and talk to me as if we're right beside each other.


Let's pretend that we're together, all alone.
Imagine that we're in each other's company without any interference from anyone or anything else.


I'll tell the man to turn the jukebox way down low,
I'll ask the person in charge to reduce the volume of the background music so we can talk better.


And you can tell your friend there with you he'll have to go.
Inform the person who's accompanying you that he has to leave because we want to have private conversations.


Whisper to me, tell me do you love me true,
Quietly speak about your feelings towards me and tell me if it's honest love or not.


Or is he holding you the way I do?
Is he holding you the way I do when we're together or better than me?


Tho' love is blind, make up your mind, I've got to know,
Even if love is irrational, please decide whether you love me or not because I need to know.


Should I hang up, or will you tell him he'll have to go?
Should I end this call or are you going to ask your companion to leave so we can continue talking?


You can't say the words I want to hear
You can't say 'I love you' like how I want to hear it.


While you're with another man,
If you're with another man, it's impossible for me to hear what I want to hear.


If you want me, answer 'yes' or 'no,'
If you want to be with me, answer directly with a 'yes' or 'no.'


Darling, I will understand.
I will comprehend what you're going through and respect whatever decision you make.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Joe Allison, Audrey Allison

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Comments from YouTube:

Peter McFadden

Gorgeous version of a lovely song. Thanks.

Jaynee Harpe

I've loved Ry Cooder's version for years! Thanks!

Seriannie H

Oldies never last...Bravo and Kudos for you Ry....Awesome and brilliant to play this song on ur own

michael burke

The pleading in his voice is exquisite and Flaco Jiminez adds to the experience. 10/10

gloria tatsapaugh

I LOVE this music, I am using it in my line dance class and teaching a cha cha line dance to it.  So much fun!

Paul Pellicci

love this rendition...first heard it on Saturday Night Live....I heard the name from Album covers but never actually knew anything.....

John Benn

WOW
This guy is so,so brilliant!!!!!!!
From a 71yo Aussie fan.

Peter Rech

totally agree with you, listened to ry cooder since 70's, im 64 yr old aussie.

B Cascadas Crane

Ry is a great one for us elders and would love the world to listen to him today!

diane krstulovich

Big in Hollywood most recently

Awesome, as USUAL!

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