It's Not About You
Scouting for Girls Lyrics

She said its not about you
She is trying to communicate that the issues they are facing are not solely his fault.

It's not about you, it's me
She is acknowledging that she is also at fault and the problems are due to both of them.

And sometimes its good
The relationship sometimes meets her expectations and she feels fulfilled.

Sometimes its bad
On other occasions, the relationship falls short of her expectations and she feels unhappy.

But living with you, well it's driving me mad
Living with him has become an unbearable situation and the source of her discontent.

But living with you is, well it's becoming a drag
The situation of living with him has become more and more burdensome and unpleasant.

She's a beautiful smile, she's a gleam in your eye
She is physically attractive, and he is heavily drawn to her physical beauty.

Dresses like a princess, playing games in your mind
She behaves in a way that makes him think that she is unattainable or intentionally difficulty to impress.

Falling out of her top, runs a hand through her hair
She flirts with him and teases him with her body language to attract his attention.

Playing so hard to get, cause she knows that you care
She is playing hard to get because she knows that he is interested in her and wants to pursue a romantic relationship.

So is this how it ends? Well nobody knows
The outcome of their failing relationship is uncertain.

She'll be gone for a year and we'll see how it goes
She will be gone for a long time, and there is no guarantee that they will reconnect or rekindle their relationship in the future.

Moving out of your flat, slipping right through your hands
She is leaving their shared living space and there is nothing he can do to stop her.

She's a difficult girl and your a sillier man
She is a challenging person to be with, and he is not equipped to handle her personality.

I don't know how to love you more, how to love you more
He is unsure how to make their relationship work or how to improve their connection.

I guess we got nothing to say
There are no meaningful conversations or topics to discuss between them anymore.

It's not about you (don't you go)
She is pleading with him to not take their problems personally and not to leave her alone in this situation.

And sometimes its good, sometimes its bad
Their relationship experiences ups and downs and is not consistently positive or negative.

But living with you is, well it's making me sad
Living with him has made her unhappy and miserable.

Why I love you, but I love you so
Even though there are problems in their relationship, he still loves her deeply.

I guess we got (nothing to say)
There is nothing left to communicate between them, and there is no solution to their problems.

It's not about you (don't you go home, don't you leave me here alone)
She emphasizes again that their issues are not entirely his fault and that she is afraid of being left alone in this situation.

And sometimes its good, sometimes its bad
Their relationship is a mix of positive and negative experiences.

But living with you, well it's driving me mad
Currently, living with him has become unbearable and the root of her unhappiness.