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The Cat's In The Cradle
Signal Hill Lyrics


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A child arrived just the other day,
He came to the world in the usual way.
But there were planes to catch, and bills to pay.
He learned to walk while I was away.
And he was talking 'fore I knew it, and as he grew,
He'd say, "I'm gonna be like you, dad.
You know I'm gonna be like you."

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home, dad?" "I don't know when,
But we'll get together then.
You know we'll have a good time then."

My son turned ten just the other day.
He said, "Thanks for the ball, dad, come on let's play.
Can you teach me to throw?" I said, "Not today,
I got a lot to do." He said, "That's ok."
And he walked away, but his smile never dimmed,
Said, "I'm gonna be like him, yeah.
You know I'm gonna be like him."

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home, dad?" "I don't know when,
But we'll get together then.
You know we'll have a good time then."

Well, he came from college just the other day,
So much like a man I just had to say,
"Son, I'm proud of you. Can you sit for a while?"
He shook his head, and he said with a smile,
"What I'd really like, dad, is to borrow the car keys.
See you later. Can I have them please?"

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home, son?" "I don't know when,
But we'll get together then, dad.
You know we'll have a good time then."

I've long since retired and my son's moved away.
I called him up just the other day.
I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind."
He said, "I'd love to, dad, if I could find the time.
You see, my new job's a hassle, and the kid's got the flu,
But it's sure nice talking to you, dad.
It's been sure nice talking to you."
And as I hung up the phone, it occurred to me,
He'd grown up just like me.
My boy was just like me.

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
"When you coming home, son?" "I don't know when,
But we'll get together then, dad.
You know we'll have a good time then."

Overall Meaning

The Cat's in the Cradle is a poignant song about a father who is too preoccupied with life and work to spend time with his son, and how this neglect takes a toll on their relationship as they grow older. In the first verse, the singer talks about his son's birth but notes that he wasn't always present because he had other obligations, like bills to pay and planes to catch. He later regrets how fast his son grew up, saying he was talking before he even knew it, and that he was going to be like him when he grew older.


The chorus metaphorically represents the son's childhood through the "cat's in the cradle" and the "silver spoon," suggesting that he was well-cared-for and had everything he needed materially but lacked meaningful time with his father. The second verse describes how, as the son grew older, he asked his father to teach him how to throw a ball, but the father couldn't because he had other things to do. The third verse goes on to say that when the son has grown up and moved away, the father calls him to catch up, but the son is too busy with his own life and responsibilities.


This song is a poignant reminder of the importance of spending time with loved ones and how the lack of such quality time can damage relationships. It's crucial always to remember that our actions can have profound effects on those around us, especially our children.


Line by Line Meaning

A child arrived just the other day
Recently, my child was born


He came to the world in the usual way
My child was born in the normal manner


But there were planes to catch, and bills to pay
I had obligations to keep, such as work and expenses


He learned to walk while I was away
My child reached milestones without me being present


And he was talking 'fore I knew it, and as he grew,
My child grew up quicker than I anticipated


He'd say, "I'm gonna be like you, dad.
My child admired and aspired to be like me


You know I'm gonna be like you."
My child values and aims to emulate my behavior


And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Symbolic lyrics representing childhood and wealth


Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
Further symbols of childhood and fantasy


"When you coming home, dad?" "I don't know when,
Conversation between father and child, uncertain about reunion


But we'll get together then.
Future plans of spending time together


You know we'll have a good time then."
Anticipation of enjoying each other's company


My son turned ten just the other day.
My child celebrated his tenth birthday recently


He said, "Thanks for the ball, dad, come on let's play.
Grateful for a gift from me and eager to spend time together


Can you teach me to throw?" I said, "Not today,
I declined his request to play with him due to other priorities


I got a lot to do." He said, "That's ok.
My child's understanding of my responsibilities


And he walked away, but his smile never dimmed,
While disappointed, he remained happy and hopeful


Said, "I'm gonna be like him, yeah.
My child still looks up to me and wishes to be like me


You know I'm gonna be like him."
Reiterating his plans to imitate my actions


Well, he came from college just the other day,
My child returned home from college recently


So much like a man I just had to say,
He had matured significantly since I last saw him


"Son, I'm proud of you. Can you sit for a while?"
Expressing my pride in him and desire to spend time together


He shook his head, and he said with a smile,
Declining my request but appearing happy to see me


"What I'd really like, dad, is to borrow the car keys.
Requesting the car keys, indicating his newfound independence


See you later. Can I have them please?"
He planned to leave soon but asked politely for the keys


"When you coming home, son?" "I don't know when,
Another conversation about an uncertain reunion


But we'll get together then, dad.
Still planning on future time together


You know we'll have a good time then."
Reiterating our desire to enjoy each other's company


I've long since retired and my son's moved away.
I've retired and my child has left home


I called him up just the other day.
I recently contacted my child


I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind."
Expressing my desire to see him


He said, "I'd love to, dad, if I could find the time.
He wants to see me but is busy with work and family


You see, my new job's a hassle, and the kid's got the flu,
Explaining his current struggles with work and family life


But it's sure nice talking to you, dad.
Despite everything, he still values our conversations


It's been sure nice talking to you."
Expressing his enjoyment in our conversation


And as I hung up the phone, it occurred to me,
Reflecting on our conversation


He'd grown up just like me.
Realizing that my child has become like me


My boy was just like me.
Noting the similarities between us




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