Mother
Siouxsie and the Banshees Lyrics


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The word you learn to love (The disapproval that you hate)
That's Mother (From Mother)
They teach you to respect... (Makes you always want to please)
Mother (Mother)

The one who keeps you warm (The one who keeps you warm)
And shelters you from harm (And shelters you from harm)
Watch out she'll stunt your mind (She'll open up your mind)
'Til you emulate her kind (To make you good and make you kind)
Is that Mother? (Mother)

Downstairs I don't know (Downstairs I don't know)
If it's the springs in her bed (Why I feel safe in my bed)
Or her joints I hear (When I know I'm alone)
Creaking overhead (She must be watching overhead)
Mother (Mother)

She'll twist the words you speak (She'll kiss and say goodbye)
If she thinks you're near escape (If you want to go away)
Mother (Mother)
So she clutches at her brood (So she gathers up her brood)
And sits across its face (And smiles into their face)
She sucks up all its energy (She beams down vital energy)
And smothers their last breath (She gave us our first breath)
Oh Mother (Mother)





The thing you grow to hate (The love you won't forget)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Mother/Oh Mein Papa" by Siouxsie and the Banshees explore the complex relationship between a mother and her children. The song reflects on the contradictory nature of a mother's love, both nurturing and stifling. The first verse highlights the paradox of a mother's influence, as she teaches her children to respect and love her while also disapproving of their choices. The chorus questions whether this is truly what motherhood should be.


The second verse describes the protective role of a mother, keeping her children safe and warm. However, the lyrics also suggest that the mother's overbearing nature can stifle her children's development and creativity. The third verse describes the unease and paranoia that can stem from being under a mother's watchful eye, with the lines "I don't know if it's the springs in her bed or her joints I hear creaking overhead" painting a picture of someone constantly on edge.


The final verse is perhaps the most chilling, with the lyrics suggesting that a mother will go to great lengths to keep her children under her control and drain them of their energy. The line "she sucks up all its energy and smothers their last breath" implies that a mother's love can be overwhelming and destructive.


Overall, the lyrics of "Mother/Oh Mein Papa" convey a sense of unease and complexity surrounding the relationship between a mother and her children. While the love of a mother can be a powerful and positive force, it can also have darker undertones of control and manipulation.


Line by Line Meaning

The word you learn to love (The disapproval that you hate)
Mother is the embodiment of authority but her disapproval can be tough to bear


That's Mother (From Mother)
The word 'Mother' carries immense weight and expectation


They teach you to respect... (Makes you always want to please)
The teachings of respect from Mother is so that you will constantly aim to satisfy her expectations


Mother (Mother)
The title and subject of the song is Mother and its impact on the band's lives


The one who keeps you warm (The one who keeps you warm)
Mother provides love and safety


And shelters you from harm (And shelters you from harm)
Mother's protection extends beyond bodily harm


Watch out she'll stunt your mind (She'll open up your mind)
Mother's influence can inhibit or facilitate creativity


Til you emulate her kind (To make you good and make you kind)
Her mannerisms and habits become your own


Is that Mother? (Mother)
The cyclical nature of the relationship between Mother and child inspires introspection


Downstairs I don't know (Downstairs I don't know)
Suspicious activity from Mother taints the environment


If it's the springs in her bed (Why I feel safe in my bed)
The noises from Mother's bed make you feel reassured of her presence


Or her joints I hear (When I know I'm alone)
Mother's creaks and groans scare the band as it implies she's watching or listening


Creaking overhead (She must be watching overhead)
The sound from above feels omniscient and unsettling


She'll twist the words you speak (She'll kiss and say goodbye)
Mother can manipulate words to distort and suit her own agenda


If she thinks you're near escape (If you want to go away)
Mother can sense when someone wants to leave and will use all tactics necessary to prevent this


Mother (Mother)
The title and chorus of the song is a haunting repetition that hints at the inescapable presence of Mother


So she clutches at her brood (So she gathers up her brood)
Mother will seek to bring her children back into her fold despite their will


And sits across its face (And smiles into their face)
Mother views her children as objects that she can manipulate and influence


She sucks up all its energy (She beams down vital energy)
The energy balance is in her favour as she holds all the power over her children


And smothers their last breath (She gave us our first breath)
Her influence is all-encompassing, right up to the end of her children's lives


Oh Mother (Mother)
The song ends with a final, desperate plea for Mother to let go


The thing you grow to hate (The love you won't forget)
The internal conflict of love and hate towards Mother is difficult to reconcile




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