The Guy You're Fucking
System Syn Lyrics


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Yes I know I'm not your boyfriend
So I have no hold on you
But wasn't I something more
Than just the guy you're fucking

I have a pool of emotions
Swirling in my head right now
And I'm trying not to be so dramatic
But wasn't I something more
Than just this boy you're fucking

Everything is bright and backwards
And I'm slipping down lower and lower
Breaking down further and further
With every hour I don't sleep
With every secret that you keep
But wasn't I just a little something more
Than the guy you're fucking

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to System Syn's "The Guy You're Fucking" express the singer's feelings of confusion and frustration in his casual relationship with someone who he wants to be more than just a sexual partner. He acknowledges that he has no hold over the person and that he understands the nature of their arrangement, but he can't help feeling like there was something more to their connection. He has a "pool of emotions" swirling in his head, trying not to be dramatic but unable to shake the feeling that he was more than just a disposable sexual object.


The chorus of the song takes on a dreamy quality, with the singer feel like everything is "bright and backwards," slipping lower and lower but unable to let go of his feelings. He's literally losing sleep over the situation and feels like every secret that she keeps is driving them further apart.


The lyrics could be interpreted as a commentary on how societal expectations around gender and sexuality can affect the way we relate to others. The singer clearly wants more emotional attachment from their sexual partner, but they feel like they're not allowed to express those feelings or risk being seen as "clingy" or "needy." Meanwhile, their sexual partner is able to maintain a certain emotional distance because they're not expected to be emotionally invested in the same way.


Overall, "The Guy You're Fucking" is a melancholy exploration of the confusing, painful gray area that can exist in casual sexual relationships. It's a reminder that even when both parties understand the rules going in, emotions aren't always easy to control.


Line by Line Meaning

Yes I know I'm not your boyfriend
I am aware that we are not in a committed relationship


So I have no hold on you
I do not possess any power or influence over your decisions or actions


But wasn't I something more
Did we not share a deeper connection or intimacy beyond just physical pleasure?


Than just the guy you're fucking
Did my significance in your life only extend to being a casual sexual partner?


I have a pool of emotions
I am experiencing an overwhelming amount of feelings at this moment


Swirling in my head right now
These emotions are circulating in my mind and causing mental turmoil


And I'm trying not to be so dramatic
I am attempting to avoid being overly theatrical or exaggerated in my behavior


Everything is bright and backwards
I am feeling disoriented or perplexed by my current situation


And I'm slipping down lower and lower
I am progressively descending into a negative or distressed state


Breaking down further and further
My mental and emotional state is deteriorating rapidly


With every hour I don't sleep
My lack of restful sleep is exacerbating my already distressed state


With every secret that you keep
The concealment of information from me is further complicating the situation


But wasn't I just a little something more
Did our relationship not have any significance or value beyond being solely based on physical intimacy?


Than the guy you're fucking
Did my role in your life solely pertain to being a casual sexual partner?




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@alexavier233

eing part of the promo team, I certainly hope no body was upset this song was shared here!!  More bands like System Syn or Cesium137 are needed!!  /Alexavier  d.j.Strangerz

@Pzychonoir

Alexavier Strangerz yes, and if you find out they are upset let me know and I'll delete it, I was trying to spread their music so hopefully they get more popular because they deserve it. Uhm... Cesium137 I used to know someone who liked them but never got round to check them out I will check them out now, thanks for the reminder of the existance of that other band. ;D

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