Recording mostly live, the band released its debut, Almost Killed Me, on French Kiss Records in March 2004 and Separation Sunday a year later. In April 2006 the band signed to Vagrant Records and entered the studio on the 1st of May to begin work on their third record, Boys and Girls in America. Released in October, it was one of the most critically acclaimed records of 2006 and reached a much larger audience than its predecessors.
The band released their fourth album, Stay Positive, recorded again with Boys and Girls in America producer John Agnello. Nicolay left the group and on May 4, 2010 the band released their fifth studio album, Heaven Is Whenever, recorded with producer Dean Baltulonis.
On July 15, 2008, Stay Positive was released. It debuted at #30 on the Billboard 200. It debuted on the UK Album Chart at #15 on July 20, the third-highest new entry. It ranked #1 on the UK Indie Chart. The album was named the best of 2008 by Entertainment Weekly. The song "Constructive Summer" was number 56 on Rolling Stone's list of the 100 Best Songs of 2008.
Their seventh album, Thrashing Thru the Passion, was released in 2019. Among its songs, "Entitlement Crew" and "Confusion in the Marketplace," were considered standouts.
You Can Make Him Like You
The Hold Steady Lyrics
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Let your boyfriend deal with the dealers
It only gets inconvenient
When you wanna get high alone
You don't have to know how to get home
Let your boyfriend tell the driver the best way to go,
It only gets kinda weird when you wanna go home alone,
You don't have to know the inspiring people
You can hang in the kitchen
Talk about the stars in the upcoming sequel
If you get tired of your boyfriend's things
There's always other boys,
There's always other boyfriends
If you get tired of your boyfriend's scene
There's always other scenes
There's always other boyfriends
You don't have to deal with the dealers
Let your boyfriend deal with the dealers
It only gets inconvenient
When you wanna get high alone
You don't have to go to the right kind of schools,
Let your boyfriend come from the right kind of school
You can wear his old sweatshirt
You can cover yourself like a bruise
But if you get tired of your boyfriend's things
There's always other boys
There's always other boyfriends
If you get tired of your football pranks
There's always other boys
There's always other boyfriends
If you get tired of the car he drives,
There's always other boys
And you can make him like you
If you get tired of the music he likes
There's always other boys
And you can make him like you
They say you don't have a problem
Until you start to do it alone
They say you don't have a problem
Until you start bringing it home
They say you don't have a problem
Until you start sleeping alone
There's always other boys
There's always other boyfriends
There's always other boys
And you can make him like you
There's always other boys
There's always other boyfriends
There's always other boys
And you can make him like you
There's always other boys
There's always other boyfriends
There's always other boys
And you can make him like you
There's always other boys
There's always other boyfriends
There's always other boys
And you can make him like you
The Hold Steady's "You Can Make Him Like You" is a song about a girl who relies on her boyfriend for everything, from dealing with drug dealers to making all of her decisions. The lyrics convey a sense of dependency, with the suggestion that the girl is aware of her reliance on her boyfriend but is willing to overlook it in order to maintain the relationship.
The repeated lyrics "there's always other boys, there's always other boyfriends" indicate that the girl is aware of her other options, but is choosing to stay with her current boyfriend despite his flaws. The song highlights the idea that people often settle for less than they deserve in order to avoid being alone.
The lyrics also suggest a sense of aimlessness, with the girl having no real sense of direction or purpose in life beyond her relationship. The line "you can hang in the kitchen, talk about the stars in the upcoming sequel" conveys a sense of superficiality and lack of depth to the girl's interests and passions.
Overall, the song is a commentary on the dangers of losing oneself in a relationship and forgetting to pursue one's own goals and dreams. It serves as a warning to listeners not to let their relationships define them and to remember to maintain their own sense of identity and purpose.
Line by Line Meaning
You don't have to deal with the dealers
You don't have to worry about buying drugs or interacting with drug dealers.
Let your boyfriend deal with the dealers
Your boyfriend can handle the task of obtaining drugs and dealing with drug dealers.
It only gets inconvenient
When you wanna get high alone
Dealing with drug dealers becomes inconvenient only if you want to use drugs alone and can't obtain them without your boyfriend's help.
You don't have to know how to get home
You don't need to know the route to get home as your boyfriend can take care of making arrangements for your transportation.
Let your boyfriend tell the driver the best way to go,
Your boyfriend can instruct the driver on the best route to take to get home.
It only gets kinda weird when you wanna go home alone,
It becomes awkward only when you try to go home by yourself, without your boyfriend.
You don't have to know the inspiring people
You don't have to know the inspirational people as your boyfriend can introduce you to them.
Let your boyfriend know the inspiring people
Your boyfriend can bring you in touch with the inspiring people.
You can hang in the kitchen
Talk about the stars in the upcoming sequel
You can engage in casual conversations about topics you are interested in, like the stars in an upcoming movie or series, while hanging out in the kitchen.
If you get tired of your boyfriend's things
There's always other boys,
There's always other boyfriends
In case you get bored with your current boyfriend, there will always be other guys available.
If you get tired of your boyfriend's scene
There's always other scenes
There's always other boyfriends
If you get bored with the lifestyle of your current boyfriend, you can always find another lifestyle and boyfriend.
You don't have to go to the right kind of schools,
You don't have to attend a particular school to be part of a certain lifestyle.
Let your boyfriend come from the right kind of school
Your boyfriend can belong to the right kind of school and you can still be part of that lifestyle through him.
You can wear his old sweatshirt
You can cover yourself like a bruise
You can wear your boyfriend's clothes, even if they're old or worn out, to show you're part of the same group as him.
But if you get tired of your boyfriend's things
There's always other boys
There's always other boyfriends
If you get tired of your football pranks
There's always other boys
There's always other boyfriends
If you get tired of the car he drives,
There's always other boys
And you can make him like you
If you get tired of the music he likes
There's always other boys
And you can make him like you
No matter what aspect of your boyfriend you get bored with, there will always be other guys with similar interests or characteristics, and even if they don't, you can always try to mold him to become like you.
They say you don't have a problem
Until you start to do it alone
People say that you don't realize how bad something is until you start doing it alone.
They say you don't have a problem
Until you start bringing it home
People say that you don't realize how bad something is until you start bringing the consequences of your actions home.
They say you don't have a problem
Until you start sleeping alone
People say that you don't realize how bad something is until you start experiencing its negative effects alone, like insomnia or loneliness.
There's always other boys
There's always other boyfriends
And you can make him like you
No matter what happens, there will always be other guys interested in you, and you have the power to shape your boyfriend's interests or personality to better match yours.
Lyrics © RESERVOIR MEDIA MANAGEMENT INC
Written by: CRAIG FINN, TAD JASON KUBLER
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Gabriel Perez
I love this so much. This is a great acoustic version of a song that is near and dear to my heart.
Jeff Cunningham
You can’t take away from this song for being wonderful and true, however I suggest not playing it for your girlfriend when you’re fighting with her. Cheers.
Brendan Munday
Best band for anyone late 20's early 30's
Ann Pagano
Kit Lightning or mid-to late 40s...