So Goes Love
The Monkees Lyrics


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Girl, this is goodbye for us
I'm afraid there's no two ways about it
Now you say you need my love, But you'll just have to learn to live without it
So goes love
Don't try to understand it
So goes Love
It never goes the way you planned it
When you meant the world to me
that's the time you said you didn't want me
You played around in front of me
Yeah, you did everything you could to taunt me

So goes love
Don't try to understand it
So goes Love
When it dies you can't disguise it

It's been said you've made your bed
And now you have to lie in it
there's no denying its a shame
But there's really no one else for you to blame

So goes love
Don't try to understand it




So goes love
It never goes the way you planned it

Overall Meaning

The Monkees' song "So Goes Love" is a reflective piece on the unpredictability and often heart wrenching nature of love. The lyrics recount a devastating breakup, at a time when the singer's significant other seems to be reconsidering their involvement in the relationship. However, despite pleas for love and understanding, the singer makes it clear that it is over, and that they will have to learn to live without each other. The song then goes on to describe the pain of witnessing a former lover move on with someone else. The lyrics express the idea that love is an elusive and often cruel force that never truly goes the way we plan, and that it always comes with consequences that are difficult to predict.


The song's poignant lyrics are supported by soaring melodies and catchy hooks, which have made it a fan favorite over the years. Interestingly, the song was not initially released as a single, but it became popular among fans and was eventually released on The Monkees' 1987 album "Then & Now... The Best of The Monkees". The song has since become a staple of their live performances and a beloved classic among fans.


Overall, "So Goes Love" is a haunting ballad about the bittersweet nature of love, and a reminder that we can never truly control the course of our heart's desires.


Line by Line Meaning

Girl, this is goodbye for us
The singer is telling his girlfriend that they are breaking up


I'm afraid there's no two ways about it
The singer believes that the breakup is unavoidable


Now you say you need my love, But you'll just have to learn to live without it
His girlfriend wants his love but he knows she will have to move on without it


So goes love
Love is unpredictable and can end without warning


Don't try to understand it
Trying to understand why love ends is futile


It never goes the way you planned it
No matter how hard you try, love doesn't always turn out the way you hoped it would


When you meant the world to me
The singer was deeply in love with his girlfriend


that's the time you said you didn't want me
At the height of his love, his girlfriend rejected him


You played around in front of me
His girlfriend tried to make him jealous by flirting with other guys


Yeah, you did everything you could to taunt me
His girlfriend intentionally tried to hurt him by making him jealous


When it dies you can't disguise it
When love ends, it's obvious and cannot be hidden


It's been said you've made your bed
His girlfriend is responsible for how the relationship ended


And now you have to lie in it
She has to accept the consequences of her actions


there's no denying it's a shame
The singer acknowledges that the breakup is a sad thing


But there's really no one else for you to blame
His girlfriend can't blame anyone else for the end of their relationship




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: CAROLE KING, GERRY GOFFIN

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