Different Drum
The Pastels Lyrics


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You and I travel to the beat of a diff'rent drum.
Oh, can't you tell by the way I run
Ev'ry time you make eyes at me. Wo oh.
You cry and you moan and say it will work out.
But honey child I've got my doubts.
You can't see the forest for the trees.

Oh, don't get me wrong. It's not that I'm knockin'.
It's just that I'm not in the market
For a girl who wants to love only me.
Yes, and I ain't sayin' you ain't pretty.
All I'm sayin's I'm not ready for any person,
Place or thing to try and pull the reins in on me.
So Goodbye, I'll be leavin'.
I see no sense in the cryin' and grievin'.
We'll both live a lot longer if you live without me.

Oh, don't get me wrong. It's not that I'm knockin'.
It's just that I'm not in the market
For a girl who wants to love only me.
Yes, and I ain't sayin' you ain't pretty.
All I'm sayin's I'm not ready for any person,
Place or thing to try and pull the reins in on me.
So Goodbye, I'll be leavin'.




I see no sense in the cryin' and grievin'.
We'll both live a lot longer if you live without me.

Overall Meaning

The Pastels's song Different Drum is a classic example of a breakup song that highlights the need for independence in a relationship. The first verse starts with the lyrics "You and I travel to the beat of a different drum" which illustrates the couple's individuality in the relationship. The singer further explains that every time the other person makes eyes at them, they feel like running away. The second verse explains that the other person is trying to convince them that their love will work out, but they still have their doubts. The singer explains that the other person cannot see the forest for the trees, suggesting that they are lost in the small details and cannot focus on the bigger picture.


In the chorus, the singer clarifies that they are not rejecting the other person because they are not pretty or because they do not love them. Instead, they are not ready for any person or thing to try to control them or pull the reins on their life. The final verse concludes with the singer leaving the other person and tells them that both of them will live a lot longer if they live without each other. In essence, the song highlights the importance of independence and individuality in a relationship and suggests that it can be healthier to part ways when those needs are not being met.


Line by Line Meaning

You and I travel to the beat of a diff'rent drum.
We have different goals and interests, we are not moving at the same pace.


Oh, can't you tell by the way I run
I move differently and with a different rhythm, it should be apparent to you.


Ev'ry time you make eyes at me. Wo oh.
Every time you look at me with affection, it causes me concern.


You cry and you moan and say it will work out.
You express sadness and frustration, hoping things will get better.


But honey child I've got my doubts.
I am skeptical that our differences can be overcome.


You can't see the forest for the trees.
You are too focused on the details, and cannot see the bigger picture.


Oh, don't get me wrong. It's not that I'm knockin'.
I am not criticizing you, just clarifying my own position.


It's just that I'm not in the market
I am not currently interested


For a girl who wants to love only me.
For someone who wants a monogamous relationship with me.


Yes, and I ain't sayin' you ain't pretty.
I am not denying your physical attractiveness.


All I'm sayin's I'm not ready for any person,
What I am saying is that I am not prepared for any individual


Place or thing to try and pull the reins in on me.
To control my actions or limit my freedom.


So Goodbye, I'll be leavin'.
I am saying goodbye and leaving.


I see no sense in the cryin' and grievin'.
I do not see the value in being sad and upset.


We'll both live a lot longer if you live without me.
It would be better for both of us if you moved on without me.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Michael Nesmith

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