The Real Me
The Who Lyrics


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I went back to the doctor
To get another shrink
I sit and tell him 'bout my weekend
But he never betrays what he thinks

Woo
Can you see the real me, doctor?
Doctor?
Can you see the real me, doctor?
Woah, doctor

I went back to my mother
I said I'm crazy ma, help me
She said I know how it feels son
'Cause it runs in the family

Can you see the real me, mama?
Mama?
Can you see the real me, mama?
Woah, mama

Can you see
Can you see the real me?
Can you see
Can you see the real me
The real me
The real me

The cracks between the paving stones
Look like rivers of flowing veins
Strange people who know me
Peeping from behind every window pane
The girl I used to love
Lives in this yellow house
Yesterday she passed me by
She doesn't want to know me now

Can you see the real me?
Can ya?
Can ya?
Can you see the real me?
Can ya?
Woah, yeah

I ended up with a preacher
Full of lies and hate
I seemed to scare him a little
So he showed me to the golden gate

Can you see the real me, preacher?
Preacher?
Can you see the real me, preacher?

Can you see
Can you see
Can you see
Woah

Can you see the real me, doctor?

Can you see the real me, ma?





Can you see the real me (me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me)?

Overall Meaning

"The Real Me" is a song by British rock band The Who, appearing on their sixth studio album "Quadrophenia" released in 1973. The song features the story of Jimmy, the singer in "Quadrophenia", who meets with a doctor, his mother, strange people, an ex-girlfriend, and later a preacher as he grapples with his identity crisis. In the opening verse, he visits his psychiatrist to talk about his struggles, hoping to find answers and relief from the pain. However, he wonders if the doctor can truly see through his facade and understand his true self, beyond his words and appearance. Jimmy's plea "Can you see the real me, doctor?" reflects his yearning for empathy and acceptance, and his fear of rejection and misunderstanding from the one person who is supposed to help him.


In the second verse, Jimmy goes to his mother for comfort and guidance, admitting that he is losing his mind. His mother responds with empathy, telling him that mental illness runs in their family as if to acknowledge that she too has experienced similar distress. Jimmy asks his mother the same question he asks his doctor, "Can you see the real me, mama?", hoping for a different answer, for a sense of belonging and recognition that he has been searching for. However, the repetition of the question throughout the song suggests that Jimmy's plea remains unanswered, highlighting the frustration and loneliness he feels.


The chorus, with its anthemic power chords and repeated question "Can you see the real me?", captures the urgency and desperation of Jimmy's search for identity and validation. The lyrics "The Real Me" signify not just Jimmy's character but also the band itself, with lead singer Roger Daltrey belting out the question with ferocious intensity, as if to challenge the audience to see beyond the band's reputation and image. The song ends with Jimmy meeting a hypocritical preacher who wears a mask of righteousness but is full of lies and hate. Jimmy's last plea "Can you see the real me, preacher?" echoes the same question he has been asking throughout the song, suggesting that he has yet to find someone who can truly understand and accept him.


Line by Line Meaning

I went back to the doctor
Returning to a psychiatrist for therapy


To get another shrink
To ask for a different therapist


I sit and tell him 'bout my weekend
Discussing personal matters with the psychiatrist


But he never betrays what he thinks
The therapist doesn't reveal his personal opinions


Can you see the real me, doctor?
Asking the therapist if they can see the true self


I went back to my mother
Returning to family for support


I said I'm crazy ma, help me
Admitting to struggling with mental health and seeking help


She said I know how it feels son
His mother can empathize with his struggles


'Cause it runs in the family
Mental health issues have affected other family members


Can you see the real me, mama?
Asking if his mother can see his true self


The cracks between the paving stones
Visual imagery of the world falling apart around him


Look like rivers of flowing veins
Metaphor for the feeling of anxiety or panic


Strange people who know me
Feeling like people are watching and judging him


Peeping from behind every window pane
Feeling paranoid and like he's being watched


The girl I used to love
Reflection on past relationships


Lives in this yellow house
Visual imagery of the girl's home


Yesterday she passed me by
Seeing the girl but she ignores him


She doesn't want to know me now
Realizing the relationship is over


I ended up with a preacher
Turning to religion for answers


Full of lies and hate
Realizing the faith may not be helpful


I seemed to scare him a little
Upsetting the preacher with personal struggles and doubts


So he showed me to the golden gate
The preacher referred him to a higher power


Can you see the real me, preacher?
Asking the preacher if he can see the true self


Can you see the real me?
Repeated question asking if anyone can truly understand him




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Written by: Peter Dennis Blandford Townshend

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@0megaForce

Lyrics:
Do you believe in Heaven above?
Do you believe in love?
Don't tell a lie, don't be false or untrue
It all comes back to you

Open fire!
On my burning heart
I've never been lucky in love
My defenses are down
A kiss or a frown
I can't survive on my own

If a girl walks in and carves her name in my heart
I'll turn and run away
Every day, we've all been led astray
It's hard to be lucky in love

It gets in your eyes
It's making you cry
Don't know what to do
Don't know what to do
You're looking for love
Calling Heaven above

Send me an angel
Send me an angel
Right now, right now

Send me an angel
Send me an angel
Right now, right now

Empty dreams can only disappoint
In a room behind your smile
But don't give up, don't give up
(Give up, give up, give up)
You can be lucky in love

It gets in your eyes
It's making you cry
Don't know what to do
Don't know what to do
You're looking for love
Calling Heaven above

Send me an angel
Send me an angel
Right now, right now

Send me an angel
Send me an angel
Right now, right now

Send me an angel
Send me an angel
Right now, right now

Send me an angel
Send me an angel
Right now, right now
Right now



@muhammadhafizi3548

Do you believe in heaven above
Do you believe in love
Don't tell a lie don't be false and untrue
It all comes back to you
Open fire!
On my burning heart
I've never been lucky in love
My defences are down
A kiss or a frown
I can't survive on my own
If a girl walks in and carves her name in my heart
I'll turn and run away
Everyday we've all been led astray
It's hard to be lucky in love
It gets in your eyes
It's making you cry
Don't know what to do
Don't know what to do
You're looking for love
Calling heaven above
Send me an angel
Send me an angel
Right now, right now
Empty dreams can only dissapoint
In a room behind your smile
But don't give up,
Don't give up
You can be lucky in love
It gets in your eyes
It's making you cry
Don't know what to do
Don't know what to do
You're looking for love
Calling heaven above
Send me an angel
Send me an angel
Right now, right now.



All comments from YouTube:

@douglassmith3016

'80s Music: They knew we'd need it in the future.

@sherigilmore9141

You said that right!

@jaycombs5153

so true

@voiceofreezn8018

Truer words have never been spoken 👏

@chadgietzen4295

It's just that we repeat the past. Listen to Wind of Change from Scorpions. What's old is new again.

@yankeestone8161

Well said brother!!

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@ALLOFTHEBOOST

2024 represent miss the 80s 90s music scene, when it was actual music by real artists.

@gelatinous6915

Go listen to Gunship's cover of this song. Incredible.

@ALLOFTHEBOOST

@@gelatinous6915 Paul oakenfold remix is good too.

@sionandtatev

Today's generation will never understand what 80s and 90s where like. this is forever a classic and a legend.

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