On My Own
Trijntje Oosterhuis Lyrics


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I'm wiser now
I'm not the foolish girl you used to know
So long ago
I'm stronger now
I've learned from my mistakes which way to go
And I should know
I put myself aside to do it your way
But now I need to do it all alone

And I am not afraid to try it on my own
I don't care if I'm right or wrong
I'll live my life the way I feel
No matter what I'll keep it real you know
Time for me to do it on my own
Yeah yeah, mmm, yeah yeah

It's over now
I can't go back to living through your eyes
Too many lines
And if you don't know by now
I can't go back to being someone else
Not anymore
I never had a chance to do things my way
So now it's time for me to take control

And I am not afraid to try it on my own
I don't care if I'm right or wrong
I'll live my life the way I feel
No matter what I'm gonna keep it real you know
Time for me to do it

Oh I start again go back to one
I'm running things my way
Can't stop me now, I've just begun
Don't even think about it
There ain't no way about it
I'm taking names, the ones of mine
Yes I'm gonna take my turn
It's time for me to finally stand alone, stand alone

I am not afraid to try it on my own
And I don't care if I'm right or wrong
I'll live my life the way I feel
No matter what I'm gonna keep it real you know




It's time for me to do it
See I'm not afraid

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Trijntje Oosterhuis's song "On My Own" speak to the experience of finally breaking free from the shadow of someone else and embracing one's own independence. The song connects with anyone who has felt trapped, stifled, or controlled by someone else's expectations or demands. The singer is defiant and bold, declaring that she is wiser and stronger now than she was when she was under someone else's control. She has learned from her mistakes and is ready to live her life on her own terms, without fear of failure or judgment.


Throughout the song, the singer emphasizes that she is not afraid to take risks and make mistakes. She is willing to "try it on [her] own," even if she doesn't know for sure if she will succeed. She acknowledges that she may be "wrong" at times, but she also knows that she needs to live her life "the way [she] feels" in order to keep it real. The lyrics are empowering and uplifting, encouraging listeners to trust themselves and pursue their dreams without fear.


Overall, "On My Own" is a song about self-discovery, empowerment, and independence. It speaks to the universal experience of breaking free from someone else's shadow and finding one's own voice.


Line by Line Meaning

I'm wiser now
I have gained knowledge and experience over time and have become more knowledgeable than before.


I'm not the foolish girl you used to know
I have moved past my previous naive self and have gained wisdom to make better decisions.


So long ago
It has been a significant amount of time since I was last with you.


I'm stronger now
I have become emotionally stronger and can handle anything that comes my way.


I've learned from my mistakes which way to go
I have taken the lessons from my past mistakes and have figured out the right path to take in life.


And I should know
I am confident in my abilities to make the right choices in life.


I put myself aside to do it your way
I sacrificed my own desires and needs to follow your wishes.


But now I need to do it all alone
It is time for me to take control and do things on my own without anyone's help.


And I am not afraid to try it on my own
I am confident in my own abilities to succeed and am not scared to take the risk.


I don't care if I'm right or wrong
I am not concerned with the outcome of my actions, whether they will be right or wrong, as long as I follow my heart.


I'll live my life the way I feel
I will live my life based on what I truly desire and not based on what others expect from me.


No matter what I'll keep it real you know
I will always stay true to myself and not compromise my values for anyone else.


Time for me to do it on my own
It is finally my time to take the lead and do things my way.


Yeah yeah, mmm, yeah yeah
These are just ad-lib sounds that express feelings of excitement and anticipation.


It's over now
Our relationship is now over and there is no going back to the way things were.


I can't go back to living through your eyes
I cannot continue to live my life based on your perspective, desires, or expectations.


Too many lines
There were too many rules, restrictions, and requirements in our relationship that prevented me from being my true self.


And if you don't know by now
If you still do not understand or realize this after all this time...


I can't go back to being someone else
I cannot pretend to be someone else or conform to someone else's wishes anymore.


Not anymore
I have decided to break free from those expectations and live my life according to my own beliefs.


I never had a chance to do things my way
I have always been living my life according to other people's expectations and have never had the chance to do things my way.


So now it's time for me to take control
It is my turn to take control and steer my own life in the direction that I want.


Oh I start again go back to one
This line may refer to going back to the beginning of a song or a dance routine. It could also refer to starting afresh or starting from scratch.


I'm running things my way
I am in charge now and making decisions based on my own desires.


Can't stop me now, I've just begun
Nobody can hinder my progress now that I have started on this new path.


Don't even think about it
This could be seen as a warning to anyone who may try to interfere or discourage her from pursuing her own goals.


There ain't no way about it
There is no other option but for her to take control and pursue her own path.


I'm taking names, the ones of mine
She is in charge now and will make decisions based on her own beliefs and values.


Yes I'm gonna take my turn
It is now her time to shine and take the lead in her own life.


It's time for me to finally stand alone, stand alone
It is time for her to stand on her own and pursue her own goals without anyone else's help.


See I'm not afraid
She is expressing her confidence in herself and her ability to succeed.




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Carole Bayer Sager, Burt Bacharach

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