Secret love
Vandross Lyrics
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A certain time I can call you
A letter of love
But no name did you sign
Pretending to all
That we were just friends when I saw you
I didn't know that you wanted me to be
I didn't know that you wanted me for your
Your secret love
Why can't we tell somebody
'Cause secret loves
Never last as long
Your secret love
Will never be your true love
I can't be no secret baby
It's breakin' my heart (heart, heart)
You should've let me know
from the first time baby
That you were not, were not free to love
How could you wait so long
Oh, what a waste of love, baby
I should've known that you wanted me to be
I should've known
That you wanted me for your
(You wanted me) To be
Your secret love
Why can't we tell somebody
'Cause secret loves
Never mean as much
Your secret love
Will never be your true love
I can't be no secret baby
It's breakin' my heart (heart, heart)
I won't be you secret love
'Cause it's just a waste of my love
I'm tellin' you from the start
I won't be the one who gives you love
When your other guy ain't givin' you none
Don't come now, wait for a while
Let's meet at the place downtown
It's a shame it has to be like this
But I really miss you baby
Your secret love
Why can't we tell somebody
'Cause secret loves
Never last as long
Your secret love
Will never be your true love
I can't be your secret baby
You're breakin' my heart
My heart
Your secret love
Why can't we tell somebody
'Cause secret loves
Never last as long
Your secret love
Will never be your true love
I can't be your secret baby
The lyrics of Luther Vandross's song "Secret Love" describe a clandestine affair between two individuals who are secretly in love with each other, but are unable to publicly acknowledge their feelings due to one party being involved in a committed relationship. The lyrics convey a sense of frustration, as the singer longs to be able to openly express their love for their partner, but is unable to do so. The secrecy of their relationship is damaging to the singer, who is unable to handle the emotional strain of being someone's "secret love."
Throughout the song, the lyrics describe the various ways in which the two individuals attempt to conceal their relationship, including kissing each other in the dark, exchanging love letters without signing their names, and pretending to be friends when in public. However, despite their efforts to keep their love hidden from the world, the singer ultimately realizes that their relationship is untenable and that they cannot continue to be someone's secret love without sacrificing their own emotional well-being.
The lyrics of "Secret Love" are powerful because they convey the pain and frustration of being in a relationship that must be kept hidden from the world, and the toll that such a relationship can take on one's emotional health. Ultimately, the message of the song is that love should be celebrated and shared openly, and that being someone's secret love is a form of emotional self-harm.
Line by Line Meaning
A kiss in the dark
A secret, private kiss that is intended to be hidden from the public and kept a secret from everyone else
A certain time I can call you
A specific time has been set for communication between two people, but the time needs to be kept a secret from other people
A letter of love
A written message expressing deep affection and devotion towards someone
But no name did you sign
The writer deliberately chose not to reveal their identity by keeping their name hidden or not signing the letter
Pretending to all
Acting as if there is nothing more than friendship between the two people, even though their feelings go much deeper than that
That we were just friends when I saw you
Giving the impression to others that the two people are nothing more than friends, even though they have a secret romantic connection
I didn't know that you wanted me to be
The singer was unaware of the other person's desire to be in a relationship with them
Your secret love
The other person is the artist's secret lover, whom they cannot publicly express their love for
Why can't we tell somebody
The artist is expressing their desire to make their relationship public, but the other person is hesitant to reveal their secret love
'Cause secret loves
Relationships that must be kept hidden from others cannot withstand the pressures of society and the stress of enduring such a situation
Never last as long
Secret loves are often short-lived due to the stress and negativity that come with trying to keep them hidden
Will never be your true love
The artist believes that their secret lover will never be able to fully embrace their love because they cannot accept the relative public exposure that being in a true relationship requires
I can't be no secret baby
The singer is revealing that they cannot continue to be the person's secret lover any longer
It's breakin' my heart (heart, heart)
The situation is causing the singer so much pain that they use repetitive heart metaphors to emphasize their emotions
You should've let me know
The singer expresses their pain and regret at having wasted so much love and time on a situation that could have been avoided had the other person been more honest with them
From the first time baby
The artist wishes that the other person had been honest with them from the start of their relationship
That you were not, were not free to love
The other person was not emotionally available enough to openly express their love towards the artist
How could you wait so long
The singer is frustrated at the amount of time they have invested in the relationship, only to have it end due to issues that could have been resolved upfront
Oh, what a waste of love, baby
The singer feels as though they have invested a lot of time, energy and emotions in the relationship, only to have nothing to show for it and a heartbreak to deal with
I won't be you secret love
The artist is determined to no longer be the other person's lover if the relationship cannot be out in the open
'Cause it's just a waste of my love
It is not fair to the artist to invest so much love in a relationship that cannot be openly expressed, and they see no point in a relationship that can never be made public
I'm tellin' you from the start
The artist is being very clear and upfront in their communication, so as to avoid any further misunderstandings
I won't be the one who gives you love
The singer declares that they won't be the one giving the other person their love and affection anymore
When your other guy ain't givin' you none
The artist feels as if the other person has another lover who is not meeting all of their emotional and romantic needs, and explains that they will not be the one standing in the gap anymore
Don't come now, wait for a while
The singer wants to avoid seeing the other person and has requested that they do not attempt to see them for a while
Let's meet at the place downtown
If they are supposed to meet up, the singer suggests a location in the downtown area
It's a shame it has to be like this
The singer is expressing their sadness that the relationship has gotten to this point where it has to be hidden, and that they cannot find a way to overcome that
But I really miss you baby
Despite the difficulties and challenges they have had in the relationship, the artist admits that they miss the other person and are still drawn to them
Your secret love
The artist is reminded once again of the fact that their relationship must be kept secret and cannot be publicly acknowledged
Lyrics Β© BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: LUTHER VANDROSS, REED PHILIP VERTELNEY
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
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A kiss in the dark
A certain time I can call you
A letter of love
But no name did you sign
Pretending to all
That we were just friends when I saw you
I didn't know that you wanted me to be
I didn't know that you wanted me for your
(You wanted me) To be
Your secret love
Why can't we tell somebody
'Cause secret loves
Never last as long
Your secret love
Will never be your true love
I can't be no secret baby
It's breakin' my heart (heart, heart)
You should've let me know
from the first time baby
That you were not, were not free to love
How could you wait so long
Oh, what a waste of love, baby
I should've known that you wanted me to be
I should've known
That you wanted me for your
(You wanted me) To be
Your secret love
Why can't we tell somebody
'Cause secret loves
Never mean as much
Your secret love
Will never be your true love
I can't be no secret baby
It's breakin' my heart (heart, heart)
I won't be you secret love
'Cause it's just a waste of my love
I'm tellin' you from the start
I won't be the one who gives you love
When your other guy ain't givin' you none
Don't come now, wait for a while
Let's meet at the place downtown
It's a shame it has to be like this
But I really miss you baby
Your secret love
Why can't we tell somebody
'Cause secret loves
Never last as long
Your secret love
Will never be your true love
I can't be your secret baby
You're breakin' my heart
My heart
Your secret love
Why can't we tell somebody
'Cause secret loves
Never last as long
Your secret love
Will never be your true love
I can't be your secret baby
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Me too.
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2024 am still listening to this kind of masterpiece, who else on board?
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I'm still listening to Luther in 2024β€
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