I Really Wish I Hated You
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I don't really like myself without you
Every song I sing is still about you
Save me from myself the way you used to
'Cause I don't really like myself without you
I really wish I hated you

A little drunk, waiting on your phone call
A little numb, maybe I can't feel at all
You stitch me up but you can't stop me bleeding out
I'm better when I'm broken

I love you, but I hate you when you're with someone else
And I want you wrapped around me, but I don't trust myself
I drove by your house, but you don't live there anymore

'Cause I don't really like myself without you
Every song I sing is still about you
Save me from myself the way you used to
'Cause I don't really like myself without you
I really wish I hated you right now
Won't you say something?
Won't you say something?
I really wish I hated you
Won't you say something?
Won't you say something?
I really wish I hated you

The sun is out, I'm dying in the daytime
I think about the future that we left behind
I drank it all, but I can't shake you from my mind
Now every window's broken

I love you, but I hate you when you're with someone else
And I want you wrapped around me, but I don't trust myself
I drove by your house, but you don't live there anymore

'Cause I don't really like myself without you
Every song I sing is still about you
Save me from myself the way you used to
'Cause I don't really like myself without you
I really wish I hated you right now
Won't you say something?
Won't you say something?
I really wish I hated you
Won't you say something?
Won't you say something?
I really wish I hated you

I can see that you've had enough
I can see that you're giving up on me
I can see that your hands are up
I can see that you're giving up on me
I hate the way that you're better off, better off
I numb the pain but it never stops, never stops
Wish I could say that I'm better off, better off now

But I don't really like myself without you
Every song I sing is still about you
Save me from myself the way you used to
'Cause I don't really like myself without you
I really wish I hated you right now
Won't you say something?
Won't you say something?
I really wish I hated you
Won't you say something?
Won't you say something?
I really wish I hated you

Won't you say something?
Won't you say something?
I really wish I hated you
Won't you say something?




Won't you say something?
I really wish I hated you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Blink-182's song "I Really Wish I Hated You" speak about the challenges of moving on from a toxic relationship. The chorus repeatedly emphasizes the singer's desire to hate the person that he still loves, revealing the internal conflict of attempting to let go of someone that has a tight grip on the heart. The first verse acknowledges that the singer doesn't like himself without the other person and that his songs are still about them. He longs for the other person to save him from himself in the way they used to. The second verse describes the difficulty the singer has in moving on with his life. He is relying on alcohol to forget, but it doesn't work, and he can't shake the other person from his mind. The bridge reveals that the singer is aware that they are no longer appreciated and that the other person has given up on them. He hates himself for not letting go and wishes he could say he's better off without them, but he still doesn't like who he is without them.


As for the melody, the song features a melancholic, mid-tempo beat that complements the reflective and introspective nature of the lyrics. The chorus features a catchy and memorable hook that emphasizes the central theme of the song: the desire to hate someone you still love. Blink-182's trademark pop-punk sound is present in the guitar riffs, adding to the overall rock energy of the song.


Overall, "I Really Wish I Hated You" is a raw and honest depiction of the pain of trying to move on from a relationship. The song captures the complexity of human emotions and reveals that even when we know we need to let go, our hearts don't always cooperate.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't really like myself without you
The singer is dependent on their significant other for their self-worth and happiness


Every song I sing is still about you
The singer can't stop thinking about their significant other and their relationship


Save me from myself the way you used to
The singer desperately wants their significant other to help them through their emotional struggles


'Cause I don't really like myself without you
The artist's self-esteem and confidence are tied to their relationship


I really wish I hated you
The artist is torn between loving and hating their significant other, but ultimately wishes they could let go of their feelings


A little drunk, waiting on your phone call
The singer is attempting to numb their emotions with alcohol while waiting for their significant other to reach out


A little numb, maybe I can't feel at all
The singer is emotionally numb and struggling to process their feelings


You stitch me up but you can't stop me bleeding out
Despite their significant other's attempts to help, the artist is still hurting and struggling to heal from their emotional wounds


I'm better when I'm broken
The artist feels more comfortable and familiar with being emotionally broken and dependent on their significant other


I love you, but I hate you when you're with someone else
The artist is conflicted about their feelings for their significant other and struggles with jealousy


And I want you wrapped around me, but I don't trust myself
The singer desires physical and emotional intimacy with their significant other, but fears their potential emotional instability and dependence


I drove by your house, but you don't live there anymore
The artist is still struggling to move on from their relationship and clings to memories of their significant other


The sun is out, I'm dying in the daytime
The singer's emotional pain persists even in the midst of happiness and positivity surrounding them


I think about the future that we left behind
The singer regrets the end of their relationship and worries about what could have been


I drank it all, but I can't shake you from my mind
The singer has attempted to drink away their emotions, but still cannot escape their significant other's hold on their thoughts


Now every window's broken
The artist's emotional pain has manifested into their physical environment, causing them to become destructive


I can see that you've had enough
The artist acknowledges their significant other's exhaustion and frustration with the relationship


I can see that you're giving up on me
The singer realizes that their significant other is losing hope for the relationship's success


I can see that your hands are up
The singer recognizes their significant other's surrender


I can see that you're giving up on me
The artist reiterates their acknowledgement of their significant other's loss of hope


I hate the way that you're better off, better off
The artist resents their significant other's newfound happiness and success without them


I numb the pain but it never stops, never stops
The artist attempts to numb their emotional pain, but it persists


Wish I could say that I'm better off, better off now
The singer wishes they could move on from their relationship and be happier without their significant other


Won't you say something
The artist is desperate for communication from their significant other


I really wish I hated you
The singer's conflicted feelings towards their significant other have caused them great pain and they wish they could let go of their attachment




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Universal Music Publishing Group, Peermusic Publishing, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Ali Tamposi, Andrew Watt, John Feldmann, Mark Hoppus, Matthew Thomas Skiba, Nathan Perez, Travis L. Barker

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@bennywardhana

I really wish I hated you

I don't really like myself without you
Every song I sing is still about you
Save me from myself the way you used to
'Cause I don't really like myself without you
I really wish I hated you

A little drunk, waiting on your phone call
A little numb, maybe I can't feel at all
You stitch me up but you can't stop me bleeding out
I'm better when I'm broken

I love you, but I hate you when you're with someone else
And I want you wrapped around me, but I don't trust myself
I drove by your house, but you don't live there anymore

'Cause I don't really like myself without you
Every song I sing is still about you
Save me from myself the way you used to
'Cause I don't really like myself without you
I really wish I hated you right now
Won't you say something
Won't you say something
I really wish I hated you
Won't you say something
Won't you say something
I really wish I hated you

The sun is out, I'm dying in the daytime
I think about the future that we left behind
I drank it all, but I can't shake you from my mind
Now every window's broken

I love you, but I hate you when you're with someone else
And I want you wrapped around me, but I don't trust myself
I drove by your house, but you don't live there anymore

'Cause I don't really like myself without you
Every song I sing is still about you
Save me from myself the way you used to
'Cause I don't really like myself without you
I really wish I hated you right now
Won't you say something
Won't you say something
I really wish I hated you
Won't you say something
Won't you say something
I really wish I hated you

I can see that you've had enough
I can see that you're giving up on me
I can see that your hands are up
I can see that you're giving up on me
I hate the way that you're better off, better off
I numb the pain but it never stops, never stops
Wish I could say that I'm better off, better off now

But I don't really like myself without you
Every song I sing is still about you
Save me from myself the way you used to
'Cause I don't really like myself without you
I really wish I hated you right now
Won't you say something
Won't you say something
I really wish I hated you
Won't you say something
Won't you say something
I really wish I hated you

Won't you say something
Won't you say something
I really wish I hated you
Won't you say something
Won't you say something
I really wish I hated you

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All comments from YouTube:

@lolno1002

A word of caution: don't dedicate songs to people because you'll never be able to enjoy them again.

@solidsoup5027

Things I wish I knew 🙄

@tigr4x847

OR, dedicate many differents songs and enjoy x10 this masterpiece.

@damn.1672

that's me with all the stars by k dot and sza, and take on the world by, (i think you me at six or sum shit like that). it goes "just say the word well take on the world" that one. that was me and my high school sweethearts songs. i can't even listen to them anymore, especially all the stars because our first date was watching Black Panther together so i cannot even listen to almost every song on that album which sucks tbh because of how much i love kendrick

@northernirelandfisherman8691

Already made that mistake 😔

@MaxRei_Xamier

it may be impossible because its subconscious, but the only way you can regain enjoyment is to face it and play it again. Like at first I stopped listening to Billy idol's Rebel Yell and Ozzy Osbourne for a long time - but overtime I started to enjoy them as a work of arts again and love them

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@ColtZero

People hating, and I'm not normally for this style, but these lyrics speak perfectly on what I'm going through. Thank you guys.

@kenziedalton124

Forty-Four Productions honestly yeah, i feel like this isn’t exactly there style but i like the song

@kenziedalton124

Salete Rocha yeah it is

@maxwelldenny7633

Yeah it’s true

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