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India.Arie Lyrics

Sometimes I shave my legs and sometimes I don't
My appearance is not bound by society's norms, I do what feels right for me.

Sometimes I comb my hair and sometimes I won't
I make my own choices about how to present myself, without worrying what others think.

Depend on how the wind blows, I might even paint my toes
I am free to express myself in any way I choose, without being bound by trends or fashion expectations.

It really just depends on whatever feels good in my soul
My intuition guides me in making choices that are true to myself.

I'm not the average girl from your video
I don't conform to the unrealistic standards of beauty portrayed in media and pop culture.

And I ain't built like a supermodel
I don't have to look like a runway model to be beautiful and worthy of love and respect.

But I learned to love myself unconditionally
I have come to accept and love myself just the way I am, flaws and all.

Because I am a queen
I know my own worth and value as a person, and I won't settle for anything less.

My worth is not determined by the price of my clothes
I don't measure my self-worth by external factors like wealth or possessions.

No matter what I'm wearing I will always be
My true identity and worth as a person can't be defined by my appearance or material possessions.

When I look in the mirror and the only one there is me
I see myself as I truly am, without any filters or distortions created by external influences.

Every freckle on my face is where it's supposed to be
I embrace and celebrate every aspect of myself, including the things that make me unique and different from others.

And I know my creator didn't make no mistakes on me
I believe that I was created just as I am for a reason, and that everything about me is perfect and purposeful.

My feet, my thighs, my lips, my eyes, I'm loving what I see, yeah
I am proud of my body and everything that makes me who I am, both inside and out.

Am I less of a lady if I don't wear panty hose?
I reject the idea that femininity is defined by external factors like clothing or makeup, and instead define it for myself based on my own values and beliefs.

My mama said a lady ain't what she wears, but what she knows
My mother taught me that true beauty and worth come from within, and that what matters most is what's in your heart and mind.

But I've drawn the conclusion, it's all an illusion
I have come to see that the superficial markers of beauty and worth that society values are ultimately empty and meaningless.

Confusion's the name of the game
The mixed messages and conflicting expectations that society imposes on women can be confusing and overwhelming.

A misconception, a vast deception
The popular culture's portrayal of beauty is not based in reality, it is purely a perception.

Something's gotta change
There needs to be a shift in society’s values to place more emphasis on inner beauty and self-acceptance.

Don't be offended this is all my opinion
I am sharing my personal perspective, and recognize that others may have different opinions and experiences.

Ain't nothing that I'm saying law
I am not claiming to have all the answers, and acknowledge that the ideas I express are subjective.

This is a true confession
I am speaking honestly and openly from my own experience, without any pretense or filters.

Of a life learned lesson
I have gained wisdom and insight through my experiences, and am sharing that knowledge with others.

I was sent here to share with y'all
I feel that it is my purpose to spread a message of self-love and acceptance to others, as a way of promoting positive change in the world.

So get in where you fit in, go on and shine
I encourage everyone to embrace their unique qualities and shine as brightly as they can.

Clear your mind, now's the time
I encourage people to let go of negative thoughts and beliefs that hold them back, and to live in the present moment.

Put your salt on the shelf
I encourage people to let go of bitterness, anger, and resentment, and to focus on positive experiences and emotions.

Go on and love yourself (go on and love yourself)
I believe that self-love is a crucial component of personal happiness and fulfillment, and encourage people to cultivate a deep sense of self-acceptance and compassion.

'Cause everything's gonna be alright (go on and love yourself)
When we love and accept ourselves fully, we feel empowered and confident to face any challenge or obstacle that comes our way.

Keep your fancy drinks, and your expensive minks
I reject the idea that material possessions are necessary for happiness or fulfillment, and encourage people to focus on what truly matters.

I don't need that to have a good time
I am content and happy with simple pleasures and experiences, rather than extravagant luxuries.

Keep your expensive car and your caviar
I don't measure my value or worth based on the things I own, but on who I am as a person.

All I need is my guitar
My passion and creativity are what drive me in life, and bring me the most joy and fulfillment.

Keep your Cristal and your pistol
I don't need symbols of wealth, power, or status to feel good about myself or to succeed in life.

I'd rather have a pretty piece of crystal
I appreciate beauty and artistry, but value it for its own sake rather than as a symbol of status or wealth.

Don't need you silicone, I prefer my own
I am happy with my natural appearance and don't feel the need to alter myself to fit society's standards of beauty.

What God gave me is just fine, oh
I believe that I was created just as I am, and that I am perfect in the eyes of God.