How to be a Girl
安室奈美恵 Lyrics


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I don't Know how to love
I don't Know how to kiss
I don't Know how to feel it
I don't Know how to be a girl
I don't Know how to grow up
I don't Know I'm in the dark
I don't Know and I don't care
I don't Know I don't Know
きのうの夜 なにが
おきたのかさえ
思い出せない
どうでもいいようになってきた頃
眠る前に まくらに顔を
うずめる前に電話して
愛してほしい
気が向いた時じゃなくて
いつも毎日 kissして

I don't Know how to love
I don't Know how to kiss
I don't Know how to feel it
I don't Know how to be a girl
I don't Know how to sleep
With out you I don't know
I don't Know how to smile
I don't Know I don't Know
真夏の太陽の下で あつく抱いてね
小指をからませて
砂浜でじゃれてね
思い出って言葉 キライなの今は
すきなのは あなたのくちびる
夏に出逢いたい 翔んでいきたい
誰かに知ってもらいたい

I don't Know how to love
I don't Know how to kiss
I don't Know how to feel it
I don't Know how to be a girl

夏に出逢いたい 翔んでいきたい
誰かに知ってもらいたい
誰のためなの なんのためなの
ときどきわからなくなる
眠る前に まくらに顔を
うずめる前に電話して
愛してほしい
気が向いた時じゃなくて
いつも毎日 kissして
素直になりたい 素顔になりたい
ていうことは




素直になりたい 素顔になりたい
ていうことは

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of How to be a Girl by 安室奈美恵 (Namie Amuro) express a sense of vulnerability and uncertainty about the singer's femininity and ability to love. The repeated lines of "I don't know how to love, I don't know how to kiss, I don't know how to feel it, I don't know how to be a girl" convey a lack of confidence and experience in matters of the heart and femininity. The singer feels lost and unsure of herself, as indicated by the lines "I don't know I'm in the dark, I don't know and I don't care."


However, the lyrics also express a desire for love and connection, as evidenced by the lines "Before I bury my face in the pillow, before I drift off to sleep, call me and tell me you love me. Not just when you feel like it, but every day, kiss me." The singer longs for someone to love and accept her for who she is, and hopes to find that connection in a romantic partner.


The lyrics also touch upon the theme of nostalgia and the passing of time, as indicated by lines such as "I can't remember what happened last night, it's become like it doesn't matter anymore." The singer is grappling with the fleeting nature of memories and experiences, and is seeking something more substantial to hold onto.


Overall, the lyrics of How to be a Girl convey a sense of emotional vulnerability and longing for connection, while also acknowledging the singer's lack of experience and uncertainty about her own identity and place in the world.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't Know how to love
I am uncertain about how to feel love and express it.


I don't Know how to kiss
I am unsure about how to kiss, and my uncertainty extends to other forms of physical intimacy.


I don't Know how to feel it
I am not sure how to experience or understand the emotions of love and affection.


I don't Know how to be a girl
I am uncertain about what it means to be a girl, or how I should behave as a girl.


I don't Know how to grow up
I am uncertain about how to become an adult or navigate the complexities of adulthood.


I don't Know I'm in the dark
I am confused and lacking in direction or guidance.


I don't Know and I don't care
I feel directionless and apathetic about finding answers or making progress in my life.


I don't Know I don't Know
My uncertainty is pervasive and all-encompassing.


What happened last night
I have trouble remembering events and details from my past, particularly those related to love and intimacy.


By the time I stopped caring
I have become apathetic and disinterested in things that once mattered deeply to me, particularly relationships with others.


I bury my face in the pillow before sleep
I seek comfort and escape from my uncertainty and confusion by hiding myself from the world when I am alone.


Call me before I bury my face
I yearn for affection and love, and seek it out by reaching out to others.


I want you to love me
I crave the love and affection of others, but struggle to express my needs and desires.


Not just when it suits you
I want consistent and ongoing love and attention, rather than only receiving affection when it is convenient for someone else.


Kissing each other every day
I desire frequent physical intimacy with a partner, and want to feel loved and desired every day.


Under the hot summer sun, hold me tight
I want to feel safe and secure in the embrace of someone I love, particularly in times of warmth and happiness.


Entwine my little finger
I desire simple but intimate physical gestures of affection with a partner, such as holding hands.


Playfully frolic on the beach
I seek moments of fun and joy with a partner, particularly in carefree and happy settings.


I hate the words 'memories' right now
I feel uncertain and disillusioned about past experiences, particularly those related to love and affection.


I love your lips
I have a deep attraction to and desire for a specific person, often manifesting as physical desire.


I want to meet you in the summer and fly away
I imagine a happy and carefree future with someone I love, and long to escape to it with them.


I want someone to know me
I yearn for deep and meaningful connections with others, and want to be fully understood and appreciated for who I am.


I sometimes don't know who I am or what I want
I struggle with self-doubt and indecision, and often feel lost or unsure of myself.


I bury my face in the pillow before sleep
I again seek refuge and comfort from my confusion and uncertainty by withdrawing from the world and hiding myself.


Call me before I bury my face
I again seek affection and love from others, and hope to connect with someone who can understand and appreciate me.


I want to be honest and show my true self
I seek authenticity and connection with others, and want to be valued and loved for who I truly am.


So that's what it means
I come to realize the true depth and complexity of my emotions and desires, and hope to find a way to fulfill them.




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Written by: Marc, Tetsuya Komuro

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