Takin' Another Man's Place
Aretha Franklin Lyrics


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You don't want me
And you don't want nobody else to want me
What kind of man, what kind of man are you?
You don't need me
And you don't want nobody else to need me
What kind of thing are you
Trying to send me through?
Now if you're not gonna take care of business
Then you ought to stop taking up space
Because you're just taking up
That's all you're doing
You're just taking up another man's place

Oh, baby, you don't even, you don't even
Want me to go to the store alone
What kind of man, what manner of man are you?
You run over me you run right over me trying
To answer the telephone
Tell me what kind of thing
What kind of thing do you think
You're going to put me through?

You keep me wanting
You keep me wanting the one
Thing you never gave well, right here now
You can stop taking up another man's space

Baby, I've been faithful
And you know I've been true
But if you're not gonna love me
Tell me what do you expect me to do

Oh, if you're not gonna love me, baby
And you know I need, I need
I need somebody to love me
Then you just ought to stop
Taking up another man's space
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, baby
If you're gonna leave me
If you know you're really gonna leave me
Baby don't you know that you ought to
You just ought to stop taking




Up another man's place
You know I need somebody right now

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Aretha Franklin's "Takin' Another Man's Place" convey a sense of frustration and disillusionment towards a partner who does not value or appreciate the singer's presence. The song expresses the singer's disbelief and disappointment in the man's behavior.


In the first verse, the lyrics question what kind of man he is to not want the singer but also not allow anyone else to want or need her. The lyrics imply a possessiveness and control that the singer finds oppressive. The following lines suggest that if he is not willing to take care of the relationship or invest in it, then he should not occupy the space in her life. The lyrics emphasize that he is merely taking up someone else's place without contributing positively.


The second verse further illustrates the man's manipulative behavior. The singer mentions how he tries to control her every move, even preventing her from going to the store alone. The lyrics ask what kind of man he thinks he is to subject her to such treatment. The frustration intensifies as the singer expresses a longing for the one thing he never gave her – love. The lyrics imply that she deserves better and that he should stop occupying another man's place in her life.


Overall, "Takin' Another Man's Place" highlights the singer's desire for a loving and fulfilling relationship while questioning the motives and actions of her partner. It portrays a strong sense of dissatisfaction and a plea for a change in the dynamics of the relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

You don't want me
You have no desire or interest in me


And you don't want nobody else to want me
And you don't want anyone else to desire me either


What kind of man, what kind of man are you?
What kind of man, what type of man are you, behaving this way?


You don't need me
You have no need for me


And you don't want nobody else to need me
And you don't want anyone else to rely on me either


What kind of thing are you Trying to send me through?
What kind of situation or ordeal are you trying to put me in?


Now if you're not gonna take care of business
Now, if you're not going to fulfill your responsibilities


Then you ought to stop taking up space
Then you should stop occupying a place in my life


Because you're just taking up
Because you're simply occupying


That's all you're doing
That's the only thing you're doing


You're just taking up another man's place
You're just occupying the position meant for another man


Oh, baby, you don't even, you don't even Want me to go to the store alone
Oh, baby, you don't even want me to go to the store by myself


What kind of man, what manner of man are you?
What kind of man, what type of man are you being?


You run over me you run right over me trying To answer the telephone
You disregard my needs, you completely ignore me while trying to answer the telephone


Tell me what kind of thing What kind of thing do you think You're going to put me through?
Tell me what kind of situation, what kind of experience do you think you're subjecting me to?


You keep me wanting
You continuously keep me yearning


You keep me wanting the one Thing you never gave well, right here now
You keep me longing for the one thing you've never given me, and right now, in this moment


You can stop taking up another man's space
You can cease occupying the place meant for another man


Baby, I've been faithful
Baby, I've been loyal


And you know I've been true
And you know I've been honest


But if you're not gonna love me
But if you're not going to show me love


Tell me what do you expect me to do
Tell me what actions or choices do you expect me to make?


Oh, if you're not gonna love me, baby
Oh, if you're not going to love me, baby


And you know I need, I need I need somebody to love me
And you know I need, I require, I long for somebody to love me


Then you just ought to stop Taking up another man's space
Then you simply should cease occupying the place meant for another man


Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, baby
Yes, yes, yes, yes, baby


If you're gonna leave me
If you're intending to depart from me


If you know you're really gonna leave me
If you know that you're truly planning to leave me


Baby don't you know that you ought to
Baby, don't you realize that you should


You just ought to stop Taking up another man's place
You simply should stop occupying the place meant for another man


You know I need somebody right now
You know I urgently require somebody at this moment




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: MELANIE THORNTON, DONALD MCCRAY, GERD SARAF

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@wr513

It's crazy how these lyrics is still relevant today #Classic

@shawnmoore1644

when she says "baby... I been faithfullll .... and you know I been trueeeee".. Melts my heart every time... #60sAtlanticrecordseraAretha

@joycebowman3273

Wow .What a voice

@stucker1214

This is a master class in gospel and blues music.

@warterrmiller9882

RIP...Queen of Soul

@patrickwashington3868

This has got to be the most down to earth tell it like it is recording in her career ever. Hands Down! Listen close to what she's saying America. You will feel it in your bones & soul.

@danielhuber4953

To me, the biggest voice alive! LOVELOVELOVE

@tamarakennedy4976

Hail to the Queen of soul gospel rhythm and blues, of every song she sang she never wanted us to feel her, but to feel the song, the lyrics, the emotion of each song...but i ask you...words are nothing more than letters scattered across a score notes bouncing above them but the responsibility the rare ability to push those lyrics and notez beyond even the writers imagination is a gift only a scant people on this earth are gifted enough to do...Aretha Franklin breathed life into every single note, every single lyric every single emotion evoked..every song pulling us closer to her every performance iconic and enchanting mesmerizing and ethereal...you may have passed on to be with our Heavenly Father...but there will never be a moment from here to eternity that your lovely voice and dedication to do to music what no woman will ever hope to bring again...you were powerful articulate honest and stood up for what you believed in, you never said anything you couldnt say to anyones face will never be forgotten your legend ensures future generation listen and hear every song you sung,every message teaching us about ourselves about others good or bad and no matter what that we could walk through whatever came our way and know that in our hearts you will always remain, and when your songs are heard and played in those moments for generations that are and that will be, your voice will bring to life your legendary style there will never be another Queen that could ever hope to match your glory. Thank you for breathing life back into my aching soul and for showing me how a spitfire strong unbreakable woman shows us how to pick ourselves up dust ourselves off put a foot in some peoples asses kick them out of my life and be done with it no drama, quit wasting time quit letting bad wrong dirty low down cruel people take up space and blocking me from getting mine anyone good anything good, stand up and get on with it. I never would have made it through if it wasnt for you. Right here in my heart and all my kids 6 kids and my grandkids know about you your songs i have taught each of them while dancing with em they all dance with me cuz you gotta dance they all learned how brilliant your light shined..love you 4ever ..🌍✌🏼

@Cas82958

Only a legend like Aretha Franklin could record such a marvelous soulful recording and not release it. Thank God we can hear it today.

@LiloFunk68

Aretha OWNS this. Great song.

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