Breaking Ties
Armin van Buuren Lyrics


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Oh when the cold wind blows
I feel it to the bone
Oh when you say you know
I feel I am not alone

And even though I may return
To empty places on my own
Where I remember everything
You want me to forget

And you provide a parachute
When I am falling like a stone
And I remember there's a life
That I have not lived yet

You and I, truth and lies
I've been fooling myself too long
You and I, breaking ties
How could we be so right and so wrong?

I hear the words you say
Your mouth against my skin
My world just falls away
You light me from within

And even though I may return
To empty places on my own
Where I remember everything
You want me to forget

And you provide a parachute
When I am falling like a stone
And I remember there's a life
That I have not lived yet

You and I, truth and lies
I've been fooling myself too long
You and I, breaking ties
How could we be so right and so wrong?

Truth and lies
Breaking ties

You and I, truth and lies
I've been fooling myself too long




You and I, breaking ties
How could we be so right and so wrong?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Breaking Ties" by Armin van Buuren delve into the complex emotions experienced within a turbulent relationship. The opening lines, "Oh when the cold wind blows, I feel it to the bone, Oh when you say you know, I feel I am not alone," convey the raw vulnerability of the singer. The cold wind represents the emotional hardships they face, and when the other person acknowledges and understands their pain, it provides a sense of comfort and support.


The next stanza, "And even though I may return to empty places on my own, Where I remember everything you want me to forget," highlights the struggle of trying to move on from the past. The singer finds themselves revisiting places associated with memories they are encouraged to forget, revealing the internal conflict they face.


The following lines, "And you provide a parachute when I am falling like a stone, And I remember there's a life that I have not lived yet," suggest that despite the challenges, the other person is a source of refuge, saving them from emotional descent. This reminds the singer that there is still potential for a fulfilling future that they have yet to experience.


The chorus, "You and I, truth and lies, I've been fooling myself too long, You and I, breaking ties, How could we be so right and so wrong?" delves into the contradictory nature of the relationship. The truth and lies represent the conflicting perspectives and mixed signals. The singer acknowledges that they have been deceiving themselves for an extended period, and the phrase "breaking ties" signifies their realization of the need to sever the connection. The irony lies in the fact that despite the intense connection they felt, the relationship ultimately proved to be both right and wrong simultaneously.


The following verses emphasize the physical and emotional impact this relationship has on the singer, with lines like "I hear the words you say, Your mouth against my skin, My world just falls away, You light me from within." These words evoke the profound effect the other person has on the singer, as well as the overwhelming sense of being consumed by their presence.


In the final repetition of the chorus, the lyrics "Truth and lies, Breaking ties" serve as a simple yet powerful summary of the conflicting aspects discussed throughout the song. The singer recognizes the need to confront the truth, even if it means breaking the ties holding them to this complicated relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh when the cold wind blows
When faced with harsh and difficult situations, I experience their impact deeply.


I feel it to the bone
I am profoundly affected and affected to my core.


Oh when you say you know
When you claim to understand and comprehend.


I feel I am not alone
I sense a connection and companionship, knowing someone shares my experiences.


And even though I may return
Despite revisiting and going back to


To empty places on my own
Lonely and desolate locations devoid of warmth and companionship


Where I remember everything
Where my mind recalls and holds onto every memory


You want me to forget
That you desire me to let go of and erase from my thoughts.


And you provide a parachute
You offer me a safety net and support system


When I am falling like a stone
During times when I am descending rapidly and uncontrollably.


And I remember there's a life
I realize and acknowledge the existence of another life


That I have not lived yet
One I have yet to experience and embrace.


You and I, truth and lies
The relationship between two individuals, encompassing both honesty and deceit


I've been fooling myself too long
I have deceived and deluded myself for an extended period.


How could we be so right and so wrong?
How can our situation be simultaneously correct and mistaken?


I hear the words you say
I listen attentively to the phrases you utter.


Your mouth against my skin
The sensation of your lips touching my body.


My world just falls away
The entirety of my existence diminishes in significance.


You light me from within
You ignite a profound and profound spark within me.


Truth and lies
The contrast between honesty and deception.


Breaking ties
The act of severing and ending connections and bonds.


You and I, truth and lies
The connection between two individuals, entailing both truth and deceit.


I've been fooling myself too long
I have deceived and deluded myself for an extended period.


You and I, breaking ties
We are ending and severing our connection and bond.


How could we be so right and so wrong?
How can our situation be simultaneously correct and mistaken?




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Paavo Olavi Siljamaeki, Jonathan David Grant, Anthony Patrick Jam McGuinness, Justine Simone Freha Suissa

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