Birds By the Sea
Banks Lyrics


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They always told me
You never quite change
It's something 'bout the way
It's something 'bout the way
You could be better than they say

They always warned me
Don't let him get in
If loving is a game
If loving is a game
Then victory is in your name

Heard you live with a girl by the sea
Used to think it could be you and me
Heard she's having a little baby now, how sweet
I thought of you with the birds
But you never sang for me (oh, no), ooh

I never listened when you told me
You said it's hard how hard you love me
You say you never wanna leave me
I shoulda known because you said it by the door

Oh, are you certain that you love me? (ahh)
You were certain that you know
But your comfort zone is lonely
And you like to walk in circles on your own

Heard you live with a girl by the sea
Used to think it could be you and me
Heard she's having a little baby now, how sweet
I thought of you with the birds
But you never sang for me (no, no), ooh

No, you never ever sang for me
No, you never ever sang
No, you never ever sang for me
Never ever, no

No, you never never sang for me




(Never ever no) but you never, never sang
No, you never ever sang

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of BANKS's song "Birds By the Sea" convey a complex emotional landscape and explore themes of personal growth, unrequited love, and the realization of missed opportunities. The song begins with the singer expressing how others have always defined them as unchanging, yet there is a sense of determination to prove them wrong. There's an acknowledgment that there is something about the singer that could exceed the expectations and judgments imposed upon them.


The second verse delves deeper into an intimate relationship and the conflicting advice received from others. There's a cautionary warning given, suggesting that getting involved with someone might lead to both victory and defeat in the game of love. It seems as though the singer is aware of the potential risks, but there is also a sense of hope that victory can be achieved by embracing love and diving into the relationship.


The chorus introduces another character, a girl who the love interest now lives with by the sea. This revelation brings a mix of nostalgia and sadness to the singer. The idea of the two of them together was once a possibility and brought to mind images of birds, symbolizing freedom and beauty. However, the love interest never expressed their true self or shared their innermost emotions with the singer through song, leaving an unfulfilled longing.


Moving into the bridge, the singer reflects on their own failure to truly listen and understand the love interest's struggles. They recall how the love interest repeatedly expressed the difficulty of their love and the fear of leaving. These words, which were spoken near the door, should have been indicators of the impending separation but were not fully grasped at the time.


The final repetition of the chorus intensifies the sense of disappointment and missed connections. The love interest never sang for the singer, symbolizing a failure to fully express their true feelings and a missed opportunity for genuine connection. The repetition of the phrase emphasizes the emotional resonance and implies a sense of longing and regret.


Overall, "Birds By the Sea" explores themes of personal reflection, the complexities of love, and the lingering emotions that arise when paths diverge and potential is left unfulfilled. The lyrics hint at the bittersweet realization of missed opportunities and the importance of fully listening and understanding the vulnerabilities and desires of others.


Line by Line Meaning

They always told me
People always gave me advice


You never quite change
You never truly transform


It's something 'bout the way
There is something about the manner


It's something 'bout the way
There is something about the manner


You could be better than they say
You have the potential to exceed their expectations


They always warned me
People always cautioned me


Don't let him get in
Do not allow him to enter your life


If loving is a game
If love is seen as a competition


If loving is a game
If love is seen as a competition


Then victory is in your name
Then winning is inherent in your nature


Heard you live with a girl by the sea
I heard that you reside with a woman near the ocean


Used to think it could be you and me
I used to believe it could be the two of us


Heard she's having a little baby now, how sweet
I heard she is now expecting a baby, how adorable


I thought of you with the birds
I imagined you being intertwined with the birds


But you never sang for me (oh, no), ooh
However, you never expressed your emotions for me


I never listened when you told me
I never paid attention when you spoke to me


You said it's hard how hard you love me
You mentioned that it is difficult to love me intensely


You say you never wanna leave me
You claim that you never want to depart from me


I shoulda known because you said it by the door
I should have realized because you mentioned it near the entrance


Oh, are you certain that you love me? (ahh)
Oh, are you truly confident in your love for me?


You were certain that you know
You were completely sure that you understand


But your comfort zone is lonely
However, your state of ease is isolating


And you like to walk in circles on your own
And you enjoy wandering aimlessly by yourself


No, you never ever sang for me
No, you never expressed your feelings for me


No, you never ever sang
No, you never vocalized


No, you never ever sang for me
No, you never expressed your emotions for me


Never ever, no
Never ever, no


No, you never never sang for me
No, you never expressed your feelings for me


(Never ever no) but you never, never sang
(Never ever no) but you never expressed yourself


No, you never ever sang
No, you never vocalized




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Jillian Banks, Ben Samir Darwish

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@gracerodriguez8557

"Birds By The Sea"

They always told me
You never quite change
It's something 'bout the way
It's something 'bout the way you could be better than they say

They always warned me
Don't let him get in
If loving is a game
If loving is a game then victory is in your name

Heard you live with a girl by the sea
Used to think it could be you and me
Heard she's having a baby now, how sweet
I thought of you with the birds
But you never sang for me

I never listened when you told me
You said it's hard how hard you love me
You say you never wanna leave me
I shoulda known because you said it by the door

Oh, are you certain that you love me?
You were certain that you know
But your comfort zone is lonely
And you like to walk in circles on your own

Heard you live with a girl by the sea
Used to think it could be you and me
Heard she's having a baby now, how sweet
I thought of you with the birds
But you never sang for me

No, you never ever sang for me
No, you never ever sang
No, you never ever sang for me
Never ever, no

No, you never never sang for me
(Never ever know me) But you never, never sang
No, you never ever sang for me



All comments from YouTube:

@extra_butter

is it just me or does BANKS have this unexplainable divine aura around her music??

@kolinokat2123

it's definitely not just you <3

@kgpineda5145

:0 I'm totally agree 💞❤️

@magicknight13

That is so true!!

@Afropavo

Absolutely- as if an immortal spirit animates from within her core. Her songs immediately gratify the listener with inclusivity - that spirit is forever in throws of perpetual reinvention
Authenticity personified

@pipeepea4467

Thought that everyday for the last 4 years of listening to her

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@raquelsmoller92

it hurts to never be the right person to someone you love

@Gergely90

This is my favorite from the album! Only Jillian can be this tender... It feels like if she looks into your eyes and says: I understand.

@delicateBruise

YES

@treythefatalhero1810

listening to this album made me realize how fast i went through it, it's too short, but you can keep listening to the same songs, cause you experience something different every new time. man i love this album

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